Month: April 2024
Why stories are important.
Once, I used to wonder why stories were written. Why people love stories.
I used to listen to folklore, legends, and stories. Who created these folktales?
If you live in India and Pakistan, you will find a lot of folklore around saints, soudhs, and devas.
You did not find dragons in these folktales. But these stories have some important lessons. Most of the time, it is the power of saints that allows problems to be solved with the help of a mentor.
Today, modern man’s mind starts asking about these stories. And modern media-driven people found them to be boring and pointless pieces of work.
As a layman, I understand and love these folklores. It demonstrates how common men think.
The common mind loves the stories. These people will not understand if you say something straight.
If you construct a story around the point you want to explain, they will understand why it is important.
There are multiple ways to construct a story. There are multiple frameworks for creating a story.
The Pixar Storytelling Framework
The Hero’s Journey Framework
The Rags-to-Riches Storytelling Framework
The Big Idea Storytelling Framework
If you want to share a message, build a story around it.
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How think out of the box
Most of the time, we used to work only the way we needed it to be completed. We did not go beyond what our mentor taught us.
Our minds stuck on what was necessary to complete the task. We were never able to think beyond it. And as a result, we always stay mediocre.
Thinking creatively is the only way to produce something unique and superior to your competitors. To achieve this, we need to think creatively and expand our horizons. For this, we have to take a break and review our work. If you can’t take a break, do this when the week ends. When we do the same task repeatedly, we create a framework. We do things the same way. We have to seek a new way to complete the task. There is a possibility that new tools will be available to complete your task. There is a possibility that others have some best practices. There is a possibility that the tools you are already using have new provisions and functionality that you have not explored yet. In 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen R. Covey talks about “Sharpen Your Saw.”. In this habit, Stephen talks about learning new skills, thinking about how we can perform well, and which things need improvement to get better results. The problem is that, with the passage of time, we become rigid and do not want to change. We did not want to improve. Why is innovation necessary when we can accomplish tasks in the same way? But, brother, change is always resistible. If we don’t adapt and embrace change, and if we don’t make improvements, someone more skilled than us will replace us. We have to improve our workflow. Always think about improving. Always think about how we can do things in a better and smarter way.
اپنے مقاصد کی ذمہ داری لیں اور کسی چیز کی توقع نہ کریں۔
جب ہر کوئی اپنے بارے میں سوچتا ہے تو وہ اپنے مقاصد اور اہداف پر توجہ مرکوز کرتا ہے کہ آپ نے اپنے بارے میں کیوں نہیں سوچیتے ۔
اگر آپ سوچتے ہیں اور توقع کرتے ہیں کہ دوسرے آپ کا خیال کریں گے۔ یہ کبھی سچ نہیں ہوتا۔
تم ایسا کیوں سوچتے ہو۔
یہ ہمارا فرض اور ذمہ داری ہے کہ ہم اپنے مقاصد اور خواہشات کے بارے میں سوچیں۔
دوسرے صرف آپ کے بارے میں سوچیں گے، جب انہیں آپ سے کچھ فائدہ اٹھانا ہو گا۔
یہ ہمارا فرض ہے کہ ہم اپنی خواہشات، مقاصد کے بارے میں سوچیں۔
کوئی بھی ہماری مدد کو نہیں اے گا ۔ ہمیں چیزوں کو انجام دینے کی ذمہ داری قبول کرنی ہوگی۔
صرف ایک طریقہ جس سے دوسرے آپ کی خواہشات اور آپ کے بارے میں سوچیں، جب تک کہ آپ انہیں وہ نہ دیں جو وہ چاہتے ہیں۔
Zig **Zig ZIglar نے کہا**
“آپ کو زندگی میں وہ سب کچھ مل سکتا ہے جو آپ چاہتے ہیں اگر آپ صرف دوسرے لوگوں کو وہ حاصل کرنے میں مدد کریں گے جو وہ چاہتے ہیں۔”
۔
اہداف کے بارے میں سوچنے کا بہترین طریقہ یہ ہے ۔
آپ کو اپنا مقصد لکھنا ہوگا۔ دفتر جانے سے پہلے آپ کو اپنے مقاصد کو پڑھنا ہوگا۔
دفتر سے واپس آتے ہی اہداف دوبارہ پڑھیں۔
اور پھر اس بات پر توجہ مرکوز کرنا شروع کریں کہ آپ اپنے اہداف کے حصول کے لیے کم سے کم کیا کر سکتے ہیں۔
Take responsibility of your goals and expect nothing.
When every one think about themself, they focus on their own goals and targets, why you did not think about yours.
As you think and expect that others will care for you. That is never be true.
Why you think like that.
Its our duty and responsibly to think about our own goals and wants.
Others will only think about you, when they have to take some benefit from you.
Its our duty, to think about our wants, goals.
No body comes to help us. We have to take responsibility to make things happens.
Only way that other think about your wants and you, until you give them what they want.
Zig Zig ZIglar said
“You Can Have Everything in Life You Want if You Will Just Help Enough Other People Get What They Want.”
Answer to that question is we did not work on our goals.
Best way to think about goals.
You have to write your goal. Before going to office, you have to read your goals.
When come back from office read again goals.
And then start focusing on what minimum you can do for achieving your goals.
We have take responsibility of making things happens.
I want to do a lot of things
I want to do a lot of things.
But a lot of things require a lot of focus.
I dont have time.
Office work, fitness challenges. And a lot of distributed things.
Nothing accomplished.
But now I thinking to focus on a few of things.
Focus on with narrow focus until I am become successful.
10 qualities to be Nice person
Everyone has different criteria for judging others. After research, these are 10 qualities any nice person must have. We cannot produce these qualities in a single day. We must practice them day by day until they become part of our nature.
Many times in my mind, a question came up: How do other people consider us nice person?
Resilience.
Ability to stand against failure and how quickly you recover from disaster. It is the art of keeping going even when the results are not coming or things are not going our way. In simple terms, resilience means falling seven and standing eight. Regardless of the situation, just focus on your goals and keep going.
Empathy
Ability to understand that others are also facing challenges and problems in life. It helps us to understand others person shoes and see things from their point of view. How others are thinking about the situation. Understand that others are different from us and can behave differently.
Patience.
When things go wrong or are not according to our expectations, it will provide us with the ability to deal with things that are going wrong. We should be calmer and more forgiving. We have to make things more realistic in our approach.
Sacrifice.
By nature, we all seek our advantage. We work and act on all those activities where we have a benefit. However, there are times when we must provide an advantage to others at our own expense. A good, happy family life is only possible when we sacrifice our needs and wants for the future of our family. We sacrifice for the community or our country for greater good.
Politeness.
We must know the manners of our community. Speak clearly and softly. Even if we have power and position, we deal with others with respect and honor, even if they are less powerful than us.
When we are polite, we are able to work with people who do not agree with us and are different.
It makes us humble and able to tolerate more.
Humor.
This quality helps us to understand the funny side of situations and tells others that we do not take everything as seriously, which creates physical problems. It helps us to enjoy the gap between what we expect and what actually happens. Like anger, humor is also the offspring of disappointment. It tells us about how we deal with sadness. It tells us a lot about ourselves. How do we deal with failure? Accept life as it is, or stop trying. It tells us a lot of things about ourselves. It reveals the types of jokes we laugh at and how we move forward.
Self-Awareness:
Self-awareness means that we take responsibility for accepting our failures and never giving blame to others. Do we know what our strengths are and what our weaknesses are? Can we defer what our needs are to our wants? What we can bear, what we cannot tolerate, and how to avoid such a situation.
Forgiveness.
How much do we have memories of bad events that happen in our lives? When others treat us badly, when our partner brings bad results into our lives, and when our children or family members do not meet our expectations. And how quickly we forgive them. This quality helps us make our relationships strong with our family, friends, and colleagues. It helps us gain trust and work with others.
Hope.
Hope means that, regardless of failures and adversity in life, we still think positively about the future. We believe good things happen in life; if not, then nothing bad will happen. We believe that in the end, everything will be good. We should be hopeful that the result will come. It shows our ability to still have the courage to continue regardless of a bad situation.
Confidence.
Confidence means believing in our ability to achieve. It indicates that we have achieved significant success in the past or had positive experiences. It shows that in the past, we already faced a lot of challenges in life, and we overcame all those challenges and reached here.
How do you like this video? Let’s try to keep these in mind and practice them a little every day. Resilience Empathy, patience, and sacrifice Politeness Humor Self-Awareness Forgiveness Hope Confidence is one of the 10 qualities of being a nice person.
See you in the next video!