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Traveler’s Gift Book summary and notes
Hi friends, Today I am going to share the book summary of “Traveler Gift” by Andy Andrews.
This is the transformation story of a person who tried to quit his life, but during qoma, he met seven biblical and historical figures who gave him different advice, and after awakening, he implemented those seven lessons in his life to improve his quality of life.
The story of a person who is in his mid-40s is about almost failure in everything. His daughter was in the hospital, full of debt. He was in desperate need of money for his only daughter, but due to stress and aggression, he was fired from his job. In total disappointment, he started to think that, due to his inability to meet the needs and expectations of his family, he should quit his life. He thinks that is the only way to provide a better future for his family. After his death, his wife will find a good husband, and that person will take care of his girl. On a cold winter night, he hit his car into a tree. As a result, he went to Comma.
During this period, he met many historical and biblical figures, and he even met himself in the future.
All these people gave him their wisdom. I am going to share this wisdom. And if we apply this wisdom to our lives, our future is bright, regardless of our age.
Lesson 1: Harry S. Truman: The buck stops here.
David met first with Harry Truman. Harry Truman talks about how the first lesson is to accept the responsibility of life.
You have to accept the resuscitation of the choice you made in the past. Responsibility for who you are now is a result of your past choices. Our actions are directed by our thinking. If we want to have a different future, we have to make different choices. We have different ways of thinking and acting. We stop blaming our present situation on our parents, friends, wives, and relatives. We have to accept responsibility for our thoughts and actions. We consider every problem an opportunity to grow and learn.
The past is gone, but the future is still in our hands.
Lesson 2: King Solomon: I will seek wisdom.
In his second visit, David meets biblical figure King Solomon. He advised David to seek
wisdom.
How to prepare for the future is by seeking wisdom and taking responsibility.
Most of the time, we took inspiration from the people with whom we spent time. If we take
company of cursed and complaining people, we also develop a victim mindset.
It is a common saying that we are the average of five people with whom we are associated in life.
We have to guard our association. Intentionally or unintentionally, we follow our mentor in life. For example, Solomon explains that his father was his mentor. Your teacher, uncle, actor, or any other figure will possibly be mentioned. So seek wisdom from their lives.
We have to take the present problems as challenges, and facing these challenges will result in a better future. We have to increase our wisdom by reading books, watching YouTube videos, listening to podcasts, and observing and studying the lives of successful people.
Seeking wisdom to overcome the thoughts, doubts, and fears in life
Lesson 3: Col. Joshua Chamberlain: I am a person of action.
Third wisdom. David got it from Joshua Chamberlain, who taught David that the only solution to all problems is to take action.
Take charge and take action. Even if we do not have all the necessary resources, we can still take action. What is best possible? We have to. Many times, we did not take action and stayed in the same location. In life, we take decisions quickly and do not let change happen. They take decisions and start taking actions. With these actions, they will no longer be afraid.
They did not fear other people’s opinions, gossip, idle chatter, or all those things.
For men of action, failure is a myth. Failure exists only for the person who quits.
Lesson 4: Christopher Columbus: I have a decided heart
The fourth lesson David learned from Columbus was to have a detached heart and ignore what people think about him.
The truth is the truth, whatever the situation. The truth is never dependent on the opinions of others.
Many people did not make efforts to change due to fear of the opinions of others and were doomed to mediocrity.
If you worry about what other people think of you, which results in you having more confidence in them than in yourself, poor is the man whose future depends on the opinions and permission of others. The only solution to criticism is that you will die doing nothing.
To achieve something, you must have a decisive heart. Many people fail because they lack a decisive heart. They are not committed from the heart.
“Most people fail at whatever they attempt because of an undecided heart. Should I? Should I not? Go forward? Go back? Success requires the emotional balance of a committed heart.
“Getting started, getting finished—both ends of a journey require a demonstration of passion.”
Passion only comes from the heart. Its product is a heart decision.
Lesson 5: Anne Frank: Today I will choose to be happy.
In his next visit, David meets Anne Frank. She provides her way to always stay happy, regardless of the situation.
Whatever condition we have or whatever challenges we are facing, it’s up to us to stay happy.
What ever is in us that takes us to the top, instead of what color or race we belong to?
Happyness is the result of certain thoughts and activities, which are actually chemical reactions.
In body. So we have to focus on these thoughts, which makes us happy.
The smile is our calling card.
Many times in life, we have to face injustices based on color, race, and nationality. But absolutely, what matters is what is inside us. It’s like a balloon; whatever its color or size, it goes up due to what’s inside it. It does matter what we think. Similary, we have to choose what we think to be.
Lesson 6: Abraham Lincoln: I will greet this day with a forgiving spirit.
On his next trip, David meets the present Abhraim Licon. Lincon described how important it is to have a forgiving spirit.
People make mistakes, either intentionally or unintentionally. Hurt us. If we are in a leadership position, we have to deal with people. We can use their strength only when we are able to forgive them. They make mistakes and make wrong decisions.
Lincon takes David to the graveyard. It shows that our hearts are like graveyards. You have to bury disappointment, anger, frustation, misbehavior, and other things here. As in the past, all events that occurred in the past are now dead; bury them.
The only way to become a good husband, father, or leader is to forgive others.
In a similar way, when someone hurts us or does not meet our expectations, we become angry. When we were going to sleep, those moments came into our minds. And we did not get good sleep.
There are two types of forgiveness we require: forgiving ourselves for our mistakes and failures Why? Because, instead of focusing on future outcomes, we were struck by the past. The second is unconditional forgiveness for others.
We all have failures in life and in business, but we all have success in our lives. But if we are still thinking about failure, we will not stay happy due to our success. So to enjoy the present moment, better sleep, and the company of our friends, we need to be forgiven.
Licon also advises David about the quest for power. Before that, Davide, think that power is wrong. But Licon told him that power in the right hand results in good things. If you have power, then you can help your management deliver more.
Lesson 7: Gabriel the Archangel: I will persist without exception
The next lesson that Ponder learned was from the archangel Gabriel.
Archangel Gabriel told David that he would persist without exception.
Successful people always focus on the outcome. There is a possibility that the process is not enjoyable, long, and boring, but they pressurize without exception only due to their focus on outcome.
Gabriel asked David, “Is he a man of faith or a man of fear? It means that in our lives, there are two main motivational forces: belief that I can do it or fear. We do things out of fear of something, like being fired, having someone else win, or being shown less than us. fear that one day we will be empty. Both are different.
We have to be men of reason. Why do we do things that we do? We definitely have reasons.
Gabriel, it’s up to us how circumstances affect us. Circumstances are excuses for poor men. It is the wise man who recognizes opportunities and uses them to his advantage.
To be a wise man, study, get lessons from the circumstances, and apply that knowledge to get a brighter future. A depressed person usually overthinks what will happen to him; instead, he focuses on what he actually wants and how he will achieve it.
A depressed person faces the situation and overthinks,
Average people usually compare themselves to others and achieve something, but successful people also compare themselves to their true potential. What they can achieve if they realize their full potential
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So it’s our time; whatever the condition we have, we have to take charge, take responsibility, be happy with what we have, whatever the condition we are, and have a dedicated heart. and take action, because without action, nothing is accomplished in life. The desire to work with others and for the betterment of ourselves is forgiven; there is a graveyard in our hearts where we bury our anger, expectations, and other things others said to us. If we still think about what others say or think about us, we will not reach where we want to reach. We have to be persistent, without exception. In the case of difficulties, frustation, and disheartness, we have to focus on the outcome. There are two types of motivation in life. Fear and faith Focus on faith. faith in the certainty of the future
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The Power of Determination: Overcoming Obstacles to Achieve Success I The Consultant Mindset I Motivation I Mindset I Consultant Mindset I Persistence I Determination
Hey guys welcome back to our channel consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. The achievement of goals in one’s life is a challenging task. One has to get through all trials and tribulations to achieve what he wants. Dreaming is easy but making those dreams come true is a hell of a task. There are many secret ingredients to the success of the achievement of goals. These elements include determination, persistence, courage to face failures, and the ability to encounter impacts. Determination is an integral element that plays a vital role in the journey. What is that one thing that keeps you going throughout the whole process? Determination is like a blessing in disguise as it helps you to keep up with the challenges and trials. Are you determined towards your goals? Have you guys ever felt that you are giving it your all? If yes, then let me know in the comments section what challenges did you face?
Persistence comes together with determination both of these factors go hand in hand. Persistence is required so you can persist through all the hardships and struggles. Persistence is defined as never quitting on your goals or achievements.
Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not: the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
What’s the difference between determination and persistence?
Determination is the ultimate marvellous trait that helps you keep going towards your goals. Persistence is that you are resisting the failures and setbacks in the journey to success. In other words, I can say that determination is a more powerful tool than persistence or perseverance. There are some examples of persistence for students at college. For instance, some students are not naturally capable of comprehending everything that is being taught in the class. Sometimes they have to revise everything at home so that they can grasp the concepts well. Such students pass through all the challenges and overcome those struggles by applying different techniques like revising the whole concept at home. Improving handwriting is not something that can be done overnight it requires persistence and hard work throughout the whole process. The feelings of constant failures and setbacks can make you give up on the task. But by persisting through all the harsh thoughts one can achieve the destination. Those students who start preparing for their exams at the end of the semester are the ones who require a great deal of persistence.
Nothing is impossible in this world. Firm determination, it is said, can move heaven and earth. Things appear far beyond one’s power, because one cannot set his heart on any arduous project due to want of strong will.
What are some real-life examples of persistence at home?
The bringing up of a child is a tough task and it needs to be carried out vigilantly. When raising a kid, you have to stay persistent and patient throughout the whole procedure. At times, you may feel like quitting but you have to bear their prudent attitude with patience and perseverance. Likewise, learning a new language is a tough task. When the task is difficult you may feel disappointed and discouraged at some points. It is an incredibly difficult task for adults to learn a new language. You have to pay full attention towards the grammar and vocabulary. This way you can invest time and struggle to learn a novel language.
How do we remain determined and persistent?
As I have mentioned in one of my previous videos, it’s quite necessary to live a practically possible life. There is no point in living a life of fantasy and Disneyland. Dreams can be fulfilled but the dreams out of human reach is just a mere fantasy. For instance, if a 100kg person wants to lose his weight to 60kgs in 1 month then it is something against the human limit. It is highly advisable to have measurable goals that can be achieved. Most of us set impossible goals and then strive for them. We continue to push our limits but it is something that cannot be achieved so it is just a waste of time and energy with no results.
Focusing on the journey is important. Constantly being worried about the outcome will divert your focus and you won’t be able to invest your full energy. Remaining focused and composed is integral as it will automatically lead you towards the journey.
Stay focused and stay determined. Don’t look to anyone else to be your determination – have self-determination. It will take you very far.
Having moral support in life is also the key factor that lets you remain motivated and dedicated. Surround yourself with positive people who never feel embarrassed or ashamed to cheer you up. Sometimes the existence of cheerful people around you can keep you motivated. Being surrounded by negative people, can drain your energy and can lower your self-esteem. Due to this peculiar reason, you can lose faith in yourself. The greatest tasks are achieved with the greatest minds. To have a strong mindset, one of the key aspects is to be surrounded by optimistic people who prove to be good for your mental health.
Concluding this whole video, determination and persistence are the key aspects that are required to take you to the destination. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Stay tuned for more interesting posts.
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How can we achieve contentment and happiness in our lives? Do you think that you are living a lively life? The key to happiness is contentment and peace. When your soul is calm and serene, you eventually feel the nourishment in your soul provided by the serenity of your surroundings. The achievement of serenity and calmness is kind of a hectic task. We cannot achieve this overnight. It requires years of experience and self-control. All of these emotions eventually rely on how we see things. At the end of the day, it all depends on your mindset. Your mindset reflects your personality. It defines who you are. If you are a man with a strong mindset, you are going to find everything easy. I have already mentioned types of mindsets and their detailed description in my previous videos. The link is in the description below. Don’t forget to check out those videos. Do like, share and subscribe to our channel.
Why Mindset is Everything?
Everyone in this world has a certain set of beliefs about some things in their lives. For instance, there are two individuals with two different mindsets. One believes he can become rich while the other thinks it is almost impossible to become rich. Likewise, some people ponder that it is impossible to land on Mars while on the other hand, there are groups of individuals who deny this proposal. Nothing is impossible in this world; it is our brain that makes everything confined and restricted. The boundaries exist only in our minds. Many of you guys might be in the category of low self-esteem and low self-confidence. You may be thinking that it is not practically possible to go for impossible things. Everything seems impossible until it is done.
No matter what, people grow. If you choose not to grow, you’re staying in a small box with a small mindset. People who win go outside of that box. It’s very simple when you look at it.
People have this misconception that we are born this way. A person with a high intelligence quotient will remain like that for the rest of his life. However, this is just a false belief. Growth and improvement is a perpetual phase. We learn from mistakes and we grow. We cannot learn if we don’t make mistakes. Mistakes broaden your spectrum to view possibilities. They enlighten you with the camouflaged opportunities. The right mindset is the ultimate achievement in one’s life. Not everyone can have that skill. You have to earn it.
Why Mindset is So Powerful?
Mindset is the weapon that shapes your thoughts and beliefs and determines how you view scenarios and challenges. If you have a strong mindset, you are most likely to view the positives of every situation. A person having a constant fear of failure is most likely to dig himself into the problems. You attract what you think. If you think of getting the fruits then you will attract those. If you constantly dwell on negative aspects, you’re going to attract those.
People with a growth mindset believe that they can improve with effort. They outperform those with a fixed mindset, even when they have a lower IQ, because they embrace challenges, treating them as opportunities to learn something new.
A person with a resilient mindset never fears failure. A failure is like an opportunity for them to explore new possibilities and scenarios. The number of failures strengthens their idea and line of thinking. The attitude of welcoming failures and hardships is positive. There is a dire need to develop this constructive attitude. We fail, we try, and we come back even stronger. Mistakes not only strengthen your abilities but also polish your character. Failures are part of your strong character’s construction. They aid in constructing your ultimate lethal personality. How does motivation play a role in developing the beast mindset?
The positive role played by the strong mindset by fluting positive thoughts into the mind is a tool that plays a vital role in motivation. A growth mindset develops a problem-solving skill that is direly needed in today’s era. A growth mindset is constantly being polished and all of its characters are constantly being built. A person having a growth mindset does not perceive any difficult task as an impossible one. He deeply does the critical analysis and analyzes what can be the possible benefits and risks associated with it. What can we learn from it? How can it affect our mindsets and personalities? He considers all the possible scenarios and utilizes his problem-solving skills to solve them.
Mindset influences many other traits of an individual. A person having a strong mindset will always be willing to learn from others. He will always put his ego aside and try to achieve the ultimate goal of his business. He is never ashamed to learn from his mistakes. He can solve the dispute among individuals with his constructive behaviour.
Turning pro is a mindset. If we are struggling with fear, self-sabotage, procrastination, self-doubt, etc., the problem is, that we’re thinking like amateurs. Amateurs don’t show up. Amateurs crap out. Amateurs let adversity defeat them. The pro thinks differently. He shows up, he does his work, and he keeps on truckin’, no matter what.
Concluding the whole video, the quality of a person is determined by his mindset. A strong midget refers to a high-quality individual whereas a weak mindset depicts a mid-quality individual. Now, it is up to you which category you want to fall into. I hope you guys enjoy this video. Stay tuned for more interesting content.
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The Pomodoro Technique is a highly effective time management method designed to stop wasting time and boost productivity. Developed by Francesco Cirillo in the late 1980s, it involves breaking your work into focused, 25-minute intervals called “Pomodoros,” followed by a 5-minute break. After completing four Pomodoros, you take a longer break of around 15-30 minutes. By structuring your tasks into these time blocks, the Pomodoro Technique helps you maintain concentration, eliminate distractions, and maintain a sense of urgency. This approach not only maximizes your productivity but also prevents burnout by ensuring regular breaks. It’s a simple yet powerful way to tackle tasks, manage time efficiently, and ultimately achieve more while making the most of your valuable time. Hello friends, welcome to our channel consultant Mindset. We are small team as a freelance consultants. We write script, make videos on the topic of consultancy , success, motivation, motivational, consultants studies, Inspiration, growth and development, leadership and book summaries All what you want to know about consultancy you will find at the channel consultant mindset. Pomodoro technique helps millions to over procrastination and finished work more focus way. Simple technique that just require simple timer and list .
How To Have A Business Mind Skill I Business Mindset I The Consultant Mindset I Mindset Motivation
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Ideas are innovative thoughts that can spark us at any time. Those ideas can be of various niches either related to academics, business, arts or anything of an individual’s interest. Ideas come and drift away in seconds so it is highly advised mates, to keep your ideas in a chest box so they never escape your mind. Sometimes fantastic ideas can lead to many super beneficial profits. A person’s life is entirely dependent on how he thinks. Our mindset plays a significant role in determining how we live life and how can we sustain that lifestyle. Have you ever wondered what kind of lifestyle you possess? There are two types of mindsets. One is a growth mindset and the other is a fixed mindset.
Individuals who have growth mindsets possess the ultimate ability to change their destinies. They never accept defeat. They always believe that there is room for improvement. People who have stagnant mindsets like fixed ones remain stuck in the same position. they never win. Since you guys know the difference between the two terms, let me know in the comment section which type of mindset you have.
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Entrepreneurship is a kind of emerging field these days. This emerging field requires some resources, goals, and humans to compile those ideas into better results. Anyone can establish a business. However, developing a winning business with guaranteed success is tough. The first step towards establishing a winning business is to have that peculiar mindset.
How Do We Establish That Mindset?
A winning business mindset requires a set of goals, a plan of action to achieve, and the ability to embrace the challenges with resilience, and confidence. The development of a successful business requires many more things than resources. Ability to combat all the failures and challenges, never giving up on your dreams, learning from mistakes, developing problem-solving skills, and decision-making skills. A winning mindset should have concrete and measurable goals. The goals that are practically not within the human boundary can lead to struggle and hardships with no result at all. The ultimate goal is to establish a successful business while overcoming every failure and hardship. Setting goals is extremely important in this journey. we need a road map to reach our destination likewise, we need a road map to achieve our goals. Setting goals provides us with a clear view towards our final step.
Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.
The importance of a goal should never be underestimated. A growth mindset lets you learn new things and makes you a better person. Whenever we go to a new place, we require some guidance to guide us through that journey. Without a guide, we can never explore the art of things. That’s how goals play a role in our lives. They act as a guide. A firm understanding of having goals aids in developing a new pathway to one’s journey.
The setting of goals is followed by the plan of action. To establish a successful and sustainable business, all the necessary measures are decided beforehand. The development of a business outline involves the goals, objectives strategies and plans that will be used to attain them. Establishing a winning business requires a strategic mindset as well as a strong mindset. Keeping in view all the drawbacks and limitations, developing a sustainable and profit-yielding business plan is necessary.
I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
Developing a business requires many skills other than the resources and finances associated with it. The potential risks associated with the business plan shall also be taken into consideration.
Accepting change in the journey of developing a plan is a critical step. Here change refers to any failure or obstacle. It is human nature that when we encounter any failure, we tend to question our existence. We immediately lose our motivation and we start to devalue ourselves. however, it ain’t right. Facing failures does not mean that you are not capable. Failures are part of your training. They train you and broaden your spectrum of viewing things. The challenges and failures strengthen your capabilities. This way you start to find new possibilities and begin to view things differently. To develop success, it is recommended to embrace failures wholeheartedly. Let the change begin.
To grow your business, try to learn from your mistakes. Never remain stagnant in one place after encountering failure. Learn from it and never let that same mistake happen to you again. Dwelling on mistakes can be harmful to your business’s mindset. It becomes challenging when you have to face constant hardships. At this point, stay motivated and patient. Patience will yield tremendous results.
When you look at successful people, you will find that they aren’t the people who are motivated but have consistency in their motivation.
Staying motivated is the only way by which you can keep moving forward. Having a growth mindset requires staying motivated and facing hardships bravely. Have you ever felt that you are losing motivation? If yes, then the easiest way to keep up with the motivation is to remember the outcome of the journey. The result will always help you to stay calm and motivated.
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A Study On Praise And Mindset | The Impact of Praise I Motivation I The Consultant Mindset I Mindset
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Our personality is the reflection of things going on in our minds. When we have a
positive attitude towards life, we handle life more appropriately. Is it all about
being an optimistic approach? If you ask me, then it is a big yes. It is mainly about
your mindset and the ignition you get after a certain praise. We become what we
believe. If I think that I am a naive person who can never speak for his rights, then I
will forever remain like that. I will only be able to overcome that once I work on my
mindset. Our mindset defines who we are. Our perspectives and attitudes are
merely determined by the mindset we hold. So, having a positive and creative
mindset aids you establish a successful future.
Success is directly linked to our mindsets. Some people believe that their success is
merely because of luck. However, it isn’t true. Success is a doorway to new
experiences, new frameworks and new strategies. You become more aware of your
talents and skills. In this way, achieving new things becomes an absolutely fun task
for you. A person who has a growing mindset always goes for challenges and
hardships. He never fears any failure or defeat. He always welcomes troubles and
challenges. These challenges help him discover his critical thinking and his novel
talents. How do you train your mind to become successful? The first step is to make
yourself accept the fact it is okay to make mistakes. People who reprimand
themselves for making a mistake never get to improve their self. Give yourself
space and try to realize the fact that you are human and you tend to make mistakes.
A person learns from his mistakes.
Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even
though checkered by failure… than to rank with those poor spirits who
neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in a grey twilight that
knows not victory nor defeat.
Theodore Roosevelt
What Do We Mean By Developing a Positive Attitude?
It is not about wearing coloured clothes or wearing a smile all the time.
Never giving up is a positive attitude. Never turning your back after facing
so many failures and hardships is all about a positive attitude. Keeping up
the courage and always welcoming trouble with a sense of responsibility is a
positive attitude. The unbreakable attitude that always makes you keep
going and keep unleashing the true capabilities of your personality is an
optimistic mindset. The fun fact is that we cannot be always like this. When
some humongous challenge strikes us, we start to lose our faith and belief.
We have to stand by those beliefs and should never fall for such traps.
Having such a staunch mindset will never let you fall. Having faith in
yourself that you have always done it and that you can still do it is the key.
Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
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‘You are so good at it! wow, you are so loving, Goodness, you are so
talented.” such comments can randomly make your mood livelier and can
make you do things even better. Working strenuously without even your
efforts getting acknowledged is a hell of a difficult task. Never
acknowledging someone’s true efforts is what can ruin your mood and can
drain your energy. Praising someone is just like igniting their hidden
dedication to perform things more accurately. Praising is not necessary for
children only it is essential for adolescent kids as well. Everyone wants to
get acknowledged for their constant efforts and struggles. It is like payback
for what you are doing already. You become a more firm person to get to
anything you want.
Appreciating is such a humble thing. You may feel awkward appreciating
people but for some individuals, it is a huge relief. Appreciating other people
is not considered an easy task in our society. Either people are jealous of you
or they are too shy to tell you how good you are doing it. According to a
recent study, employees that were not being praised by their higher-ups
had more odds of encountering coronary disease. The cost of devaluing
others might be bigger than expected. We just move our tongue and say the
thing without even realising that our words can demolish other person’s
health. If you find it hard to appreciate others, then it depicts that you are
too harsh on yourself as well. Try asking yourself some questions that ‘Am I
proud of myself?’ ‘am I a good human being?’
There are two things people want more than
money… recognition and praise.
Mary Kay Ash
Focus on evaluating yourself. When you become courageous enough to
appreciate yourself, appreciating others will then be a piece of cake for you.
The important task is that you should be mindful of your praise. For
instance, you cannot praise someone for that one thing which is not under
his control like commenting on someone for his height. Height is a genetic
trait and one cannot do anything about it. Try praising those things that
have been developed by mere hard work.
Concluding the whole video, people like to get appreciated for the things
they do. Make it a custom to appreciate people on the easiest of the tasks
they do. This will develop an optimist community with growing mindsets.
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How to live a Meaningful life I Purposeful life I Consultant Mindset I Create a Meaningful life
First off first, it is necessary to determine the correct definition of a meaningful life. Every individual has his perspective. They perceive life in their way. Not all of us have the same motto for life. A meaningful life is a construct of coherence, happiness and satisfaction. There can be different ways of a meaningful life. Every individual has his passion. Some want to excel in their academic career whereas some want to pursue in their jobs or businesses. A meaningful life refers to how are we going to spend our life. Either we spend it doing things of our passion or spend it wasting time on other garbage.
Life becomes meaningful when it has a purpose. When we become destined to achieve certain goals in our lives, life gets directed eventually. Having goals and purpose and striving for them day and night lets us put some major efforts to strive through the situation. Finding meaning in one’s life is a personal journey. It requires some time but gradually streamlines you towards a meaningful life. Where you enjoy doing your thing instead of dragging it. A purposeful life lets you overcome any difficulty with much ease. Since you choose a life of your choice you become capable to cope with its hardships as well.
How can we establish a meaningful life?
A meaningful isn’t related to a successful life. If you’re having a satisfied mindset, you feel happy and contented and you’re good to go. People have this misconception that a happy life is somehow related to a meaningful life. You can be successful and live a meaningless life at the same time. For example, a person who is earning less but is doing a job of his interest is better than a person who’s a business tycoon and isn’t passionate about his work. It’s good to have less earnings with a passionate job.
Develop a Passion or Find Your Passion
Anyone has some passion in their lives. While some are just living a trash life doing nothing at all. how can we determine our passion? Well, certain things in our lives make us feel happier and contented. It can either be some art or business etc. we just have to find that happiness and satisfaction. Some people find their happiness at a very old age but it is never too late to find out the exact purpose of your life. If you don’t have any passion, strive for one or find one.
Develop Relationships
Sometimes we develop such relationships in our lives to whom we become willing to devote our entire lives. There should be the existence of such people in our lives. We love seeing those people. Our unfinished love for them makes us do anything for them. We cannot imagine our lives without them. We try to live for them. We try to focus on ourselves for them. It is necessary to find some meaningful people in our lives that will let us move forward always. Life is like the ride of a camel stranded in a desert striving barely under the dazzling rays of the sun. if we want to keep going, stay connected to ones who never care to back off. People who are always willing to push you through your hard times. Keep lifting you no matter how hard you fall. Do you guys have such gems in your lives? Let me know in the comment section.
Monitor Your Mood
Motivation is entirely dependent on your mood. You are not always in the mood to get things done. Since we are not machines there are times when we become extremely exhausted and become unwilling to do anything. At that time, you must not forgive and indulge yourself in other activities. Some random activities like games, exercise, reading books etc can divert your attention. after some relaxation, you again become strong enough to combat problems for your passion.
Monitoring Passion As You Age
The interest of an individual changes throughout life. We have different interests at different stages of life. For instance, older people are more likely to indulge themselves in fun activities. They have trouble establishing new relationships but gradually they develop some really fun activities and continue to pursue them as their passion.
These are some ways which can help you direct your lives towards a specific goal. That’s all for today. Stay tuned for more amazing stuff.
How Mindset Affects Success | Mindset For Success I Growth Mindset I The Consultant Mindset
Everyone has different perceptions of success. There can be various forms of success like financial stability, career advancement, personal growth or even simple happiness. Even mere happiness can be a form of success for some people. Your mindset is the main thing that plays an integral role in determining your success. Mindset is the game changer here. Have you ever tried evaluating yourself? What kind of mindset do you guys possess? Let me know in the comment section about your point of view.
What is a mindset? mindset is a set of beliefs and regulations that shape your thoughts. It helps you remain tracked and makes things easier to achieve. The type of mindset a person beholds eventually determines his goals and objectives. There are two types of mindsets fixed mindset and growth mindset. Before we move into it remember to like, share and subscribe to our channel consultant mindset.
A fixed mindset is a term that we use for a rigid brain. A rigid brain means that a person thinks that he is born this way and has fixed talents, intelligence and skills. There is no room for growth in that mindset. Being stuck to such traits makes you give up easily.
“As you begin to understand the fixed and growth mindsets, you will see exactly how one thing leads to another—how a belief that your qualities are carved in stone leads to a host of thoughts and actions, and how a belief that your qualities can be cultivated leads to a host of different thoughts and actions, taking you down an entirely different road.”
– Carol Dweck
A fixed mindset leads to fear of failure and mistakes. The extreme fear of failure makes you fall into various mental illnesses. Stress, anxiety, and depression have been inflicted upon such people due to this sloth mindset.
In comparison to a fixed mindset, there is a growth mindset. A growth mindset means always levelling up. The people who possess such a mindset have the belief on this thought that they can never fail to succeed. They embrace their failures and try to achieve their goals. The idea of having an unchanging IQ level has never been an option for them. They always go for improvements. They opt for hard work and instil their efforts to convert the impossible into possible.
Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.
There is always room for growth. We can always work on ourselves to be a better person than before. The point is to realise the fact that the competition is between you and your former self. The kids who have a perpetually growing mindset have this belief that they can yield results out of any difficult task. There was an experiment conducted which had a group of 4-year-old kids. They were asked to choose between an easy task and a difficult one. Those who chose the easy task had a fixed mindset. They wanted to validate their success and wanted to achieve the title of success in their life. They had a predetermined mindset. The kids who chose the difficult task had a growth mindset. They proved that whether there are hardships and failures we will learn from them and will emerge stronger than before. Kids with fixed mindsets go for easy tasks to prove their validation. They learn nothing novel from it. They just keep sticking to the same thing.
How Mindset Affects Success?
Mindset affects the level of your motivation. The growth mindset tricks you into believing that you can always grow and can always work on your personal growth.
When you look at people who are successful, you will find that they aren’t the people who are motivated but have consistency in their motivation.
A growth mindset always enables you to learn, seek and acquire innovations. A person who has a growth mindset likely to go for new opportunities and challenges. A fixed mindset makes you feel demotivated and keeps you stuck in the current situation.
Mindset affects your resilience. Resilience is the power to hold back and face challenges through thick and thin. When you have a growth mindset, you choose optimism. Your actions become the reflection of your optimistic approach. You don’t see failure as a negative approach instead the strong mindset lets you see it as a positive approach and learn from them.
How Can You Develop a Growth Mindset?
Embrace challenges
Never avoid challenges. Take the challenges as novel opportunities to shape your thoughts. This way you can explore yourself and establish new ways to conquer life.
Learn from Failure
Failure teaches you novel endeavours. It teaches you how can you have a positive outlook on the malpractices of your life. Failure makes you a stronger human than before.
Focus On Positives
It is highly recommended to focus on the good things in your life instead of dwelling on the negative aspects.
Celebrate progress
To keep the consistency in motivation, celebrate your progress and become cheerful about what you have achieved.
Concluding the whole video, mindset is what plays an integral role in determining your success. Hope you guys enjoyed today’s video. Stay tuned for more amazing posts
Motivation for When You Feel Like Quitting I The Consultant Mindset I Mindset I Motivation
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Hey, guys hope you are doing great. Welcome back to our channel consultant mindset. Life can be bleak, even pitched dark. Whenever you lose a job, end a relationship or have challenges and hardships you face the gloomy waves of despair. We cannot avoid them but can develop the courage to face them. Despite having challenges and hardships, we fail to achieve a specific goal in our life. This makes us feels demotivated and stressed out. How do you feel if you fail to achieve that peculiar goal in which you have been incorporating constant efforts? Let me know in the comment sections about your feeling.
There are some times in our lives when we don’t feel like putting much effort into our things. The feeling of losing our goal and giving up kicks in. Feelings of disappointment, despair, regret, dismay and sadness make you feel unease. Such emotions are the signal to initialize the first step towards your revolution. You can modify your defeat by taking the first step towards change.
Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain [and] difficulty.
Theodore Roosevelt
Expecting to win without facing any hurdles and obstacles is just a mere misconception. We cannot have the fruit until we water the plant. The watering of plants is the hardships and struggles that we give them. What are those initiatives that can be taken to keep up with courage and self-confidence?
Pause Everything
I am aware of this guilty feeling that we feel whenever we fail or we lose someone close to us. We begin to consider ourselves responsible for all the chaos. however, that is not an appreciating step. We will have to face the ultimate circumstances to handle ourselves. Pausing everything means the project that is currently under construction should be delayed for some time. The events that occur with boosted energies and zeal yield tremendous results. What are your opinions about it? There is a huge difference between those works carried out in low-level energies and high-level energies. The work done with great might has heavenly conclusions. What are the benefits of pausing your work? Pausing your project gives you the space to fulfil your energy and regain those energy boosters. The main reason behind the feeling to quit is to find a way to escape despair, frustration and stress.
“Every now and then go away, have a little relaxation, for when you come back to your work your judgment will be surer, since to remain constantly at work will cause you to lose power of judgment. Go some distance away, because then the work appears smaller, and more of it can be taken in at a glance, and lack of harmony and proportion is more readily seen.”
– Leonardo da Vinci
Whenever you feel like quitting, never let that emotion overcome you. Instead try pausing things that are the cause of disappointment, despair and stress in your life.
Create a Distraction
Why do we feel like quitting? There can be many reasons behind it. One of the reasons is the saturation of our brains. Our brain becomes saturated and we become unable to comprehend even the easiest of information. Giving yourself a break helps you induce a major comeback. Giving your mind a break helps you restore that lost energy. You can use that time to travel, watch TV, read books etc. You can opt for ways by which you can replenish your energies. Meanwhile, you can go for small tasks that release a sense of satisfaction in your mind. Instead of pounding your head on the same thing, it is better to leave it for some time. You can finish some of your unfinished tasks by utilizing your spare time. The feeling of accomplishment after achieving those tasks will lift your self morale and raises your self-confidence. When you choose to focus on small things, you get the morale to combat the trivial matter with great motivation. Such trivial tasks serve the purpose to kill two birds with one stone. They can help you fulfil your incomplete task and can also help you get over the fact that you can achieve your goal at the end of the day.
Practice Self-Compassion
To err is human; to forgive is divine. Whenever you make a mistake, you feel like punishing yourself. Every mistake makes you want to punish yourself. The guilty feeling does not let you be at ease. Your instinct makes you penalize yourself. This kind of negative self-talk makes you feel bad about yourself. It makes you think that you are not enough and you are not worthy. You should give yourself a rest for just giving it a try. Always boost yourself for trying. Try again is the only way by which you can achieve your goal. Trying constantly makes you firm in this context that you have the potential to do anything.
I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self.
Concluding the whole discussion, it is okay to feel that way. We can just overcome every tough situation by relaxing ourselves. A machine needs a restart to work properly, then why not humans? Hope you guys enjoyed today’s topic. Stay tuned for more interesting post bye-bye.