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August 25, 2023August 25, 2023 mitrandepodcast Leave a comment

Hey, guys hope you are doing great. Welcome back to the consultant mindset. Everyone in their lives must have come across this question once in a lifetime. Why are we here? What’s the meaning of our life? What’s the mere purpose? The question of human existence is quite different for every religion. Every human is curious to find the answer to this question. What’s the point of our existence in this world? Many humans on this planet are living a meaningless life. They don’t know what to do with their lives. They are just spending their lives in constant struggles. They are spending their lives doing the bare minimum. They aren’t aware of their purpose in life. Many people have come across this thought quite a several times now. If you think like this then you are not alone in this situation. It is completely normal.

First off first, it is necessary to determine the correct definition of a meaningful life. Every individual has his perspective. They perceive life in their way. Not all of us have the same motto for life. A meaningful life is a construct of coherence, happiness and satisfaction. There can be different ways of a meaningful life. Every individual has his passion. Some want to excel in their academic career whereas some want to pursue in their jobs or businesses. A meaningful life refers to how are we going to spend our life. Either we spend it doing things of our passion or spend it wasting time on other garbage.

Life becomes meaningful when it has a purpose. When we become destined to achieve certain goals in our lives, life gets directed eventually. Having goals and purpose and striving for them day and night lets us put some major efforts to strive through the situation. Finding meaning in one’s life is a personal journey. It requires some time but gradually streamlines you towards a meaningful life. Where you enjoy doing your thing instead of dragging it. A purposeful life lets you overcome any difficulty with much ease. Since you choose a life of your choice you become capable to cope with its hardships as well.
How can we establish a meaningful life?
A meaningful isn’t related to a successful life. If you’re having a satisfied mindset, you feel happy and contented and you’re good to go. People have this misconception that a happy life is somehow related to a meaningful life. You can be successful and live a meaningless life at the same time. For example, a person who is earning less but is doing a job of his interest is better than a person who’s a business tycoon and isn’t passionate about his work. It’s good to have less earnings with a passionate job.
Develop a Passion or Find Your Passion
Anyone has some passion in their lives. While some are just living a trash life doing nothing at all. how can we determine our passion? Well, certain things in our lives make us feel happier and contented. It can either be some art or business etc. we just have to find that happiness and satisfaction. Some people find their happiness at a very old age but it is never too late to find out the exact purpose of your life. If you don’t have any passion, strive for one or find one.
Develop Relationships
Sometimes we develop such relationships in our lives to whom we become willing to devote our entire lives. There should be the existence of such people in our lives. We love seeing those people. Our unfinished love for them makes us do anything for them. We cannot imagine our lives without them. We try to live for them. We try to focus on ourselves for them. It is necessary to find some meaningful people in our lives that will let us move forward always. Life is like the ride of a camel stranded in a desert striving barely under the dazzling rays of the sun. if we want to keep going, stay connected to ones who never care to back off. People who are always willing to push you through your hard times. Keep lifting you no matter how hard you fall. Do you guys have such gems in your lives? Let me know in the comment section.
Monitor Your Mood
Motivation is entirely dependent on your mood. You are not always in the mood to get things done. Since we are not machines there are times when we become extremely exhausted and become unwilling to do anything. At that time, you must not forgive and indulge yourself in other activities. Some random activities like games, exercise, reading books etc can divert your attention. after some relaxation, you again become strong enough to combat problems for your passion.
Monitoring Passion As You Age
The interest of an individual changes throughout life. We have different interests at different stages of life. For instance, older people are more likely to indulge themselves in fun activities. They have trouble establishing new relationships but gradually they develop some really fun activities and continue to pursue them as their passion.
These are some ways which can help you direct your lives towards a specific goal. That’s all for today. Stay tuned for more amazing stuff.

Motivation for When You Feel Like Quitting I The Consultant Mindset I Mindset I Motivation

August 15, 2023August 15, 2023 mitrandepodcast Leave a comment

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Hey, guys hope you are doing great. Welcome back to our channel consultant mindset. Life can be bleak, even pitched dark. Whenever you lose a job, end a relationship or have challenges and hardships you face the gloomy waves of despair. We cannot avoid them but can develop the courage to face them. Despite having challenges and hardships, we fail to achieve a specific goal in our life. This makes us feels demotivated and stressed out. How do you feel if you fail to achieve that peculiar goal in which you have been incorporating constant efforts? Let me know in the comment sections about your feeling.

There are some times in our lives when we don’t feel like putting much effort into our things. The feeling of losing our goal and giving up kicks in. Feelings of disappointment, despair, regret, dismay and sadness make you feel unease. Such emotions are the signal to initialize the first step towards your revolution. You can modify your defeat by taking the first step towards change.

Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain [and] difficulty.

Theodore Roosevelt

Expecting to win without facing any hurdles and obstacles is just a mere misconception. We cannot have the fruit until we water the plant. The watering of plants is the hardships and struggles that we give them. What are those initiatives that can be taken to keep up with courage and self-confidence?

Pause Everything

I am aware of this guilty feeling that we feel whenever we fail or we lose someone close to us. We begin to consider ourselves responsible for all the chaos. however, that is not an appreciating step. We will have to face the ultimate circumstances to handle ourselves. Pausing everything means the project that is currently under construction should be delayed for some time. The events that occur with boosted energies and zeal yield tremendous results. What are your opinions about it? There is a huge difference between those works carried out in low-level energies and high-level energies. The work done with great might has heavenly conclusions. What are the benefits of pausing your work? Pausing your project gives you the space to fulfil your energy and regain those energy boosters. The main reason behind the feeling to quit is to find a way to escape despair, frustration and stress.

“Every now and then go away, have a little relaxation, for when you come back to your work your judgment will be surer, since to remain constantly at work will cause you to lose power of judgment. Go some distance away, because then the work appears smaller, and more of it can be taken in at a glance, and lack of harmony and proportion is more readily seen.”

– Leonardo da Vinci

Whenever you feel like quitting, never let that emotion overcome you. Instead try pausing things that are the cause of disappointment, despair and stress in your life.

Create a Distraction

Why do we feel like quitting? There can be many reasons behind it. One of the reasons is the saturation of our brains. Our brain becomes saturated and we become unable to comprehend even the easiest of information. Giving yourself a break helps you induce a major comeback. Giving your mind a break helps you restore that lost energy. You can use that time to travel, watch TV, read books etc. You can opt for ways by which you can replenish your energies. Meanwhile, you can go for small tasks that release a sense of satisfaction in your mind. Instead of pounding your head on the same thing, it is better to leave it for some time. You can finish some of your unfinished tasks by utilizing your spare time. The feeling of accomplishment after achieving those tasks will lift your self morale and raises your self-confidence. When you choose to focus on small things, you get the morale to combat the trivial matter with great motivation. Such trivial tasks serve the purpose to kill two birds with one stone. They can help you fulfil your incomplete task and can also help you get over the fact that you can achieve your goal at the end of the day.

Practice Self-Compassion

To err is human; to forgive is divine. Whenever you make a mistake, you feel like punishing yourself. Every mistake makes you want to punish yourself. The guilty feeling does not let you be at ease. Your instinct makes you penalize yourself. This kind of negative self-talk makes you feel bad about yourself. It makes you think that you are not enough and you are not worthy. You should give yourself a rest for just giving it a try. Always boost yourself for trying. Try again is the only way by which you can achieve your goal. Trying constantly makes you firm in this context that you have the potential to do anything.

I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self.

Aristotle

Concluding the whole discussion, it is okay to feel that way. We can just overcome every tough situation by relaxing ourselves. A machine needs a restart to work properly, then why not humans? Hope you guys enjoyed today’s topic. Stay tuned for more interesting post bye-bye.

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July 23, 2022July 23, 2022 mitrandepodcast Leave a comment

Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. It educates you about worldly problems and gives you a good idea to mend your ways. The consultancy on daily life problems is a significant objective of our channel Consultant mindset. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you acknowledgement on how you can develop discipline in your children. At present time the world has become a place of most randomly done things. No one cares to develop discipline in their lives. For a peaceful life, it is necessary to maintain discipline in your life. You will notice it yourself that discipline is bringing revolution into your lives. Before I get into this video do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel consultant mindset. Let us get straight into it.

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Hear your kids out

If we want this world to be a better place then we have to start a revolution from our house. We have to teach our children how to become more disciplined and more responsible for their actions. In most cases, children idolise their parents. So it is binding upon the parent to mend his/her ways for their children. They will eventually follow in your footsteps. And will blame you for every mistake. So the initial step is to hear your kid’s every problem. To find the root cause. If you hear them out calmly then you will be able to help them as well. Many of the kids do not tell their parents due to their harsh and strict behaviour with their kids. In this way, they continue to grow in that harsh environment. This needs to stop. If parents want their kids to get disciplined and more responsible in their actions. Then they have to help them out in every step of life. For example in the case of a parent, you can ask them why a kid is in a bad mood today? Did he fight with any of his friends? The kids can become closer to their parents in this way. In this way, their lives can get disciplined and peaceful as well.

Give Them Attention

In my opinion, attention is the most powerful tool that every kid needs. They want attention. We can make our kids practice discipline only when they are close to us. Only when they have unlimited affection for their parents. Otherwise, kids do not listen to their parents to whom they do not feel affection. In this way, you can discourage the bad behaviour of your kids. And can enforce their good behaviours. For example, if a kid does a good deed like putting the toy back in its place after playing with it. Do praise them for their good deeds. And appreciate them for placing the toy back. In this way, they will become cautious about what they do afterward. They will become responsible for their actions just because they know that their parents have a check on them. Likewise forbade them from doing bad deeds as well. Cause it is binding upon a parent to tell their kids which pathway is right and which pathway is wrong.

Call A Timeout

Set a certain limit for your kids. If they do not listen to your set rules. Or they break a certain rule. Then make a certain call out for them. So that they can be cautious about doing it again. Developing discipline is different for different ages of children. Just like for small babies you cannot shout at them and you cannot use harsh words with them. you gotta be more polite and humble with them. You can use words like “time to sit ” rather than saying “ don’t stand”. For teens, you do not have to take the side of one kid in fights with siblings. Just take away the toy on which they are fi ghting. For adolescent teens, parents should give them time to understand their hormonal and physiological changes. In this way, they can develop bonds with their parents. As I have discussed in my previous video “Parenting tips’ Do not forget to check it out. The link is in the description. By appreciating kids’ good acts you can make them develop discipline in their lives.

Concluding this whole discussion I must say that by developing bonding with kids you can teach them how to behave well. Discipline is a bridge between goals and accomplishment. Self-discipline means establishing authority over one’s habits and routines. Hope you guys enjoyed this video. Byebye