I dont know what to do with my life.

“I don’t know what to do with my life.”
I asked myself the same question.
At that time, I had no aims—no goals in life.
If you are facing this question, then this short video is for you.
Consider this another opportunity, not a problem.
The earlier we get an answer to this question, the more successful we become in our lives.
If you still do not answer this question, then consider it.
The first step is to take responsibility. It’s your life. You need to take responsibility for your actions. If you did not take responsibility. Nothing happens. Life remains unchanged, and you will remain unchanged as a consequence.
Second step is to Know yourself. Almost everyone knows something about themself. Pose the question, “Why did you do anything?” Examine your actions and the reasons behind them. What you like and what is reason behind the things you dislike. An amazing dialogue sprang to mind.
Dil me heer liye aur heer khoje veerane me.
This step lets you understand what your values are.

Third step to Set some goals. This step helps you understand what you want and what you can achieve. After setting goals, start working to achieve. Make some plan, what you need to change in your life style. What new habits you need to develop to achieve those goals. If possible break these goals to manageable small step and focus on these steps and start do small and short achievements.

Fourth step to Stop comparing yourself. Everyone has a different journey. Some understand what they want earlier and start their journey much earlier. You never reach their level but you can become better in longer run. If you start today, then with in 5 years you are much in better position.

There is one bouns but optional step. That is about reflection. Start writing journal. And at the end of day. reflect on everything that happen. What you can do little different to achieve different results. Revise it and review it.

Hope you like this video.

There is no one like you

Some of us compare. Or be compared.

Most of the time, comparisons serve to enhance our performance. Sometimes it happens to crush us.

But actually, the only real comparison happens when we compare ourselves to others.

We are our biggest competitor. If we had performed better today compared to a year or months ago, we would have emerged victorious.

If not, then we are losers.

Why do we compare ourselves with others?

Every person has unique qualities. Find out for yourself. If you are not proficient at speaking, then certainly you are proficient at writing.

Focus on your gifts. find it. 

The way  get to know yourself is by finding feedback. Or observation.

There is a highly recommended book on this topic.

managing oneself.  by Peter Docker.

There are two intriguing quotes in Punjabi.

“man tooN jot saroop hai aapnaa mool pachhaan.”

Means perfect in every means (like divine). Find your true worth.

“””JO BRAHMANDE SOI PINDE JO KHOJE SO PAYE “”

Means, you are complete universe with in, everything in self. Now find it in yourself.