“The thing is, it’s very easy to be different,

I was using elevator to come in specific floor. In elevator. small screen shows the different advertisements of gym, restaurant and luxury restaurants. They also show different Quotes.

On that screen I read quote form Jony Ive, Who is Apple’s senior vice.

“The thing is, its very easy to be different, but very difficult to be better.”

I purchased Ipad 7generation 2019 version. And from the day onwards. I used to write all my thoughts on it. I used to make mind maps on it to formularies my ideas.

I feel they implement it in their products. They are better then their competitors.

But question is how we implement it in our life.

Most of the time, we change our look. We make our style different from others. How we speak. “Zarah haat kayee”. Little different. Different look and feel. Different hair style. Color different.

But when we start to become better. either better from what you are yesterday or what you are with your fellow colleague or family member. The idea of competing with yourself is amazing. But in practical life we have to complete others. When two people are of similar education and experience who wins between them. Who have better communication. Who show more then what you are.

Politics is also form of Communication. We expose other person weakness and show our strengths.

I read somewhere. If you did not do politics. You certainly will be under less capable people.

But if we did not have these skills which we show to management. Certainly we will be in very bad situation at that time. So we have to built these qualities. And built or acquiring these skills is the become better. And it really difficult.

Competition is reality. If you did not try to compete, others will defiantly do.

In life we have face cut throat competition. If we did not compete, they will cut our throat. So we have to cut others. Do or die.

So we have to study our opponent know his weakness, know his strength. And built our added advantages. And then we can become better then others.

In fast competitive market fitness is also become part of our profession.

That I did not found while working in Pakistan. Here is also one definition of smart consultant.

Smart in his work but also smart in looks.

Initially I was not considering this point but while sitting with manager. He gave me example. If I have to hire and two candidates of same qualification. One is fat and other is smart healthy guy. Which one I choose. Certainly I will choose the smart one.

One place I heard comments about one manager who is fat and big belly. He can not manage himself how he manage the work.

That’s true my friend. In real life, people try to look different. But actually they need to be better then their competitor. And this competition is really. And you have to accept this challenge.

To become better.

Jaab saye too naye mujaye dewanah bana rakah hayee.

Jaab saye too naye mujaye dewanah bana rakah hayee. Sung her shakhs nayee haathoon main utha rakah hayee.

Ah haw, So I have to write. Wish to daily write.

I still century old song. I listen this song when I was 8 years old. I visited the small tandoor in home town. on mud wall, old radio called “Radwaha”. Later I saw abada Parveen on PTV.

At that time I can’t understand, what its meaning. By the way I still can not understand.

I still remember one of Gulzar sahib words for Abaida, in intro of Bakhd Kabeer song

“Sufiyon ka kalam gate gaatey, abida khud sufi hoo gaeen.”

She become sufi, she herself become sufi.

Ah haye, jaab saye too nayee dewanah bana rakah hayee.

If you still can’t understand the meaning then certainly you think about one sided love. You certainly understand those.

My grand mother used to said “ Mieyan, llonn taale lakari main parro gaaye to yaa ishaq mashoqqee bhool joo gayee”. Means, when you start busy in professional life. you will forget all romantic things.

That feels right. When you start facing real life challenges, you forget everything, specially love life.

Now we talk about positive meaning of “ Tare ishaq main, hayee Tare ishaq main”.

Ishaq means, obsession with some one or some thing to achieve. These obsession is both materialistic and divine.

For example Mira Bai ishaq for Kirshana Dev. Heer ranajah. Sasi punu.

These types of Ishaq are beyond my understanding. Some said, Heer rajah also two love gods. and it is their love story. Heera from greeks and Ranjah is avitar or Krishana. Or Punjabi called Kirshan as Ranjah.

What about Ishaq means, your goal. You want something in life. Obsession of material status.

So what about that.

Taree ishaq main joo bee doobha gayaee. Us diyna kee laharoo saye darnah kaya

Your ishaq will be your goal. The target you want to achieve. Where you have to reach. You face a lot of rejection and push back.

Keep going man.

Peace comes from within -Buddah

I read a quote on from Buddh “Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

Something similar from Baba Bulleh shah, “ Bulleh shah raab underon milya bulli pher loki” . Little contrdiction between Buddha and Bulleh shah. Buddha talks about peace. But Bulleh shah talk about god. translation is something similar Seek God inside your heart.

The idea god find insider your heart is too old as man kind himself. aham brahmasmi to Ana al Haqq.

Those things beyond my understand. What I think meaning of God live in heart is. You have to clean your heart from the dirt of hate, creed and braise. Only solution to cleanliness is forgive others as well as yourself, let it go. And accept things as its.

I feel in past time people are very simple and its understanding of very simple man. They thought That your all prayers ebadah, will not accepted by God. until you clean your heart. Cleanness of heart, purification of soul is borrowed from pre-Islamic religion of Indo Pak.

If we talk about Islamic touch then Quarn saind

The Quran praises them “Beware, Allah’s friends have no fear nor do they grieve ” (Yunus: 62).

I am not scholar. In layman understanding of this verse. friends of Allah, or Wali are clear hearted. without Grieve only those people, who either have peace with their past. Forgive and let it go what happen. Their heart is clear. No fear of future, what happen next they have care about it. These people are just living in present moment. They trust on the hukam of Allah ( Allah ‘s will). They have peace inside. This peace they have to make. either believing or clearing their heart.

So what I understand after reading this quote. I start to making peace with my past.

The idea is simple you have to let it go. Outside world is beyond our control. We have to control our inner

The heart is place where god reside.

“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without” Buddha

I read a quote on from Buddh “Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

Something similar from Baba Bulleh shah, “ Bulleh shah raab underon milya bulli pher loki” . Little contrdiction between Buddha and Bulleh shah. Buddha talks about peace. But Bulleh shah talk about god. translation is something similar Seek God inside your heart.

The idea god find insider your heart is too old as man kind himself. aham brahmasmi to Ana al Haqq.

Those things beyond my understand. What I think meaning of God live in heart is. You have to clean your heart from the dirt of hate, creed and braise. Only solution to cleanliness is forgive others as well as yourself, let it go. And accept things as its.

I feel in past time people are very simple and its understanding of very simple man. They thought That your all prayers ebadah, will not accepted by God. until you clean your heart. Cleanness of heart, purification of soul is borrowed from pre-Islamic religion of Indo Pak.

If we talk about Islamic touch then Quarn saind

The Quran praises them “Beware, Allah’s friends have no fear nor do they grieve ” (Yunus: 62).

I am not scholar. In layman understanding of this verse. friends of Allah, or Wali are clear hearted. without Grieve only those people, who either have peace with their past. Forgive and let it go what happen. Their heart is clear. No fear of future, what happen next they have care about it. These people are just living in present moment. They trust on the hukam of Allah ( Allah ‘s will). They have peace inside. This peace they have to make. either believing or clearing their heart.

So what I understand after reading this quote. I start to making peace with my past.

The wound is the place where the Light enters you

“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” Rumi

During coming to office, while travelling through RTA bus. I got whats app message of my one of dear’s friend. Possible one of last University friend I am still connected with. We both suffering a lot. Because we both dont have proper goals and not prepared to face the challenges of life during University days. We face a lot of extra care and protection and unnecessary pressure to do that and not do that. Unfortunately this extra pressure all are just to achieve their own goals and wants or adjustment of us according to what they want or achieve in life.

He was complaining about his parents wrong parenting. They suppressed us. So we are not able to reality of life. And when we start to face it. It is too late. Some extent he is right. Some time I feel the same. I used to blame my parents.

The difference between me and him. that I learned one lesson. The moment I realized that I am responsible what happen to me.

I start taking charge of my life and start from the same moment for improvement. I started to focus on what I can control. Do what ever task I got. I worked harder what task assign to me. I tried to kill my ego. Defiantly many skills I can not create in myself. But the skills I have I started to use them. I have to sacrifice a lot. Burn a lot of night hours to learn new things. Spent hours to make me master of some technology. Started to write blog post so I will prominent in my field.

Those wounds never be healed. I used these wounds to motivate me.

Regarding Rumi couplet. I told my friend. All suffering and pains you face. You are responsible for that. Directly or indirectly. These wounds are places or holes from light enters you. Means. Make them your inspiration. Burning desires. to never loose again. Never repeat the same mistake. Be clever. Work on your weakness. If possible built on your strength on it. And if this weakness is not replaceable. Try to avoid incompetency areas.

These wounds are indicating something. light coming from it. They identify something. Something to improve. Something to learn.

Something to ignore. Something to forgive.

Never be facing the same situation again not for you even not for your children. Learn from it.