With the passage of time, Facebook book is become motivational platform.
Rumi once said what you seek, seeking you. So I got one motivational quote in my facebook time line.
yes, my friend, what type of things you are searching, similar more topic start to appear in time line.
I found a interesting quote,
If you tell the truth, it becomes a part of your past. But, if you lie, it becomes a part of your future.
I think it is attribute to John Spencer.
But as per my experience, this quote has some solid roots.
Many times, we lie to impress others. Many times we lie because we want attention. We lie because if we speaks truth no body will impress. . So we speaks what want to hear. Some people have mesmerizing skills, they create impression. And in those matters we share a lot of lie. But reality is
We make fool people for short period of time.
I remember, a old peer back my University times. He used to said, without fraud, nothing happens. For example, if you have 70 percent you have to show 100 percent. If you are weak, you have
pretend strong. If you are poor, you have to pretend rich.
As senior consultant, sometimes we know nothing about the issue we face. But when management asked us we told them, we already know that and we experience we handle things. during odd hours we are learning those things. Some times situation is not in our control. And we are trying to handle the situation and trying to figure out what is problem. if we speak truth at that time, management will panic. Some places little lie also works.
If we speaks lies continually, it becomes our reality.
I saw many people, who wore very expensive cloths, Very decorated home. But with empty pocket.
then other side I saw a few people, wore cheap cloths, but huge savings.
We should clear picture of ourself. And then ever lie to yourself.
I heard one proverb, for lying, you must have strong memory.
But what about truth about others. Suppose some one comes and ask about MR X. And you know a lot about him.
I think best strategy is avoid the situation. I saw many truth speakers were in trouble. So avoid to it.
No need to speak unnecessary truth. You know the truth. Everybody knows the truth. Try to avoid it, use diplomatic way.
There is Punjabi quote. “ik chup soh sukh”. Means one silent saves you from 100 times on unnecessary trouble.
But always look inside. never lie to yourself. Never lie in your dealing. Some times I saw liar looks very attractive, how he make fool of others. But after some his lie come back. Then he is victims.
No body trust them.