I was travelling to Leap event, with one young saudi guy. Young but well educated and fast learning person. He told me that what I need to improve in myself.
He told me I have problem in communication. I am good at professional communication. My communication is always to the point but it unable to make human connection.
I asked him what due mean that. He told look what you asked when you came first time in office in saudi. Instead you ask about us, you just start asking about where are you living. Where I can get residence. Where are good restaurant.
I asked him, now things are good, Or I have same problem.
He replied. no now after 3 weeks things are good. You feel happy.
What I can I told him, there are multiple mishap happens. There are some mistakes happens. I was hired for job. And due to wrong input. My nationality marked as Indian. While I have passport of Pakistan. Second, When I travel to Saudi. The place where I reached. Told me to leave todays night because during sleep I was too much snoring. So I have to search my place in the very morning.
Or after coming to office I have to search office. What to do. The whole day my first day in office was too much depressed. A new city, No place to stay.
The real problem of outsource guy is, no body owns him. Nor a client nor the partner who hired him. Both focus on their savings. Partner wants to save his money and company wants both.
I was afraid what to do next. Here I have mistake. I have to call the company owner. But as most of the time. I solved my own problem. So I started searching.
Our onsite manager called in the evening and ask me about is problem and near his home, He showed me some places cheap hotels. Where I can get space. finally I got one space for 170 Rayal per day. And he told me to stay, and search. At night 11 Pm night I took my luggage and shifted to that place.
Finally one Pakistani Taxi driver helps me to get one Room.
I was too depress those days. Now things are settle down. It took me 3 weeks to cool down.
I can do things different. I am thinking that during this period of almost 1 week. If I stay more positive. Then It will help me to create more positive impression on my colleagues and client.
I am not blaming for anything. I am glade, I took responsibility and problem is solved. But other hand, If I stay positive in that situation, than believe that I will solve this problem without any person. Than, My behavior will much better.
What I learn and it is my conclusion for sharing this post.
Always stay in any situation.
If this situation happen due to your mistake or negligence. then learn from it.
If this situation un expected. then Its Life way to teach you to solve it.
Always remind, some higher power is taking care of you.
You must always have some extra money other then your bank account, credit card or Wallet purse. So in case of any problem you have.
So my friend this is my todays post. Regarding. Live and enjoy life with difficulties. There is always better solution for any problem. Believe in yourself.