One of the biggest challenge, I am facing now is building relationship with others.
I realize that the relationship with others are result of your relationship with yourself.
Whatever is inside, reflect outside.
Now question is how can I make good relationship with myself.
Answer is to understand yourself. Accept your past, hope for future and overcome your fear. It is a starting point for me. For this I start to give answer to following points.
Who am I.
What are my achievements.
What are my failures.
What are my strengths.
What are my weakness.
What motivates me.
What discourage me.
More importantly why I did things in a way. What was my motivation. What was my intension.
I have to understand my weakness and failures. So they will not become hurdle in my success.
Sometimes, the idea of failure stops us to move ahead. I failed that time, this will repeat again. I will fail again. To control this, we have to accept our failures. Remember, whatever we resist, persist.
So control on it.
Understand weakness, is important, so we work on it. I know, start working on it.
For example, I used to delay things, but when dead line reach near, my start to panic. And as result nothing happen. I start working from day first. So panic situation never happen. I start to control that I have enough time. I have start working on day one. In this way, I overcome the weakness.
My greater weakness is communicate. I understand, what I spoke. I start spoke about my work. I found that I am unable to bear the criticism. So I check my sensitivity. And start understand, it is just other person opinion. Take it or not take it. Just listen. And ignore.
I found that my documentation is not good, due to grammatical mistakes. My sentences are similar to speaking. Not professional writing. So after writing, I start using Quillbot, Grammerly or Notion Ai.
You have to understand, What motivates you. For example, fear of failing. Motivates me. Ability to learn new things, motivates me.
You also notice, what demotivate you. Reason for that, when that situation happens, you can handle the situation. You can take proactive action.
My friends, whatever the failure happens, you have to accept that. Let it go for all past actions.
Start a better relation with yourself. And slowly it will come out and reflect in your relationship.