I met Ahmed after two years. He is totally changed. He looks smart and is 10 years younger than his age. He lost 25 kg.
I visit the local bazaar, where once there was a small cafe; now the owner of that cafe has a chain of cafes.
My friends share that once his son failed in his class, now he is one of the brilliant students who got admission to one of the most renown universities in the country.
where a lot of people fail to achieve their goals. how some achieve their dreams while others do not. What is the difference between these people? Those who achieved tremendous success did something different from those who failed.
Yes, my friend, they have determination. They decided to achieve something, and with determination, they achieved it.
So what is the difference between determination and hoping? Hope is something we wish for; it will happen automatically or God will bless us with it. Determination is different. Determination means I will try my best to achieve this. Whatever obstacle comes, I will overcome it. not discourage setbacks.
So determination is the key, which makes the difference between wishful thinking and achieving the goals.
Let’s discuss how you build this long-lasting determination that helps you reach your goals.
Focus on why. When you set goals or want to achieve something. You should clarify why. Why do you want to achieve this? What are the reasons? Most of the goals we set out of anger, revenge, or emotion are just wishful thinking. When situations change, our motivation is lost.
For example, why would I lose weight? Because some other person achieves weight loss, I should too.
Instead, make your reason that it will result in you thinking I’ll look smart, be beautiful, perform well in my job, or stay active in my day-to-day work.
Intention will be important. Until we have clear intentions, your determination will not fade with time.
Set small goals. Sometimes we set big goals. But in reaching them, we lost our motivation; more determination is required. If you have big goals, break them into small ones. For example, if you want to build a habit of reading, instead of focusing on completing the book, just focus on 10 pages per day. And with determination, in a few months, you will reach
For example, if you want to lose weight, set small goals for starting with a 10-minute walk, then 20 minutes, and then leading it to a 45-minute walk. And with the determination that I have to lose weight, within 6 months you will achieve it.
celebrates small wins.
We lost motivation because we focused on achieving big things. Set daily goals, and then achieve them. whatever you achieve, for example, 30 minutes walking or reading 5 pages. Celebrate it. Be proud to achieve something.
Keep being kind to yourself.
Most of the time, our biggest critics in life are ourselves. We did not let ourselves stand. So be kind to ourselves. If we fail to achieve something. Take it easy. Just start again. It’s ok; we put in effort and work with full determination. But if you fail to achieve it, no problem. Starts again. if you criticize yourself. You will not stand again. It will destroy our determination.
Hi friends. With determination, you can move mountains. We need to set clear goals and plan how we will achieve them. and what challenges we have to meet. Taking each step with determination will make us successful.