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Welcome back, everyone. Every workspace has its boundaries and standards for performing a task. A positive attitude towards work is important in establishing a firm or company. Regardless of these attitudes we often feel lazy and tired of our work. We frequently procrastinate because of a lack of motivation. We always find ourselves always tangled in the web of delayed work. Why are we procrastinating more often? It’s because now we have many distractions that can make us delay our work. For instance, constant use of social media is the hotspot of delayed work. Social media is an addiction that makes you rely on it. Are you also tired of your attitude towards work? Let’s just find some ways to carry out work at an exceptional rate. We will focus on the quality and quantity of work.

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The three ways by which you can create better quality work are 

Weekly flood

It is essential to schedule your week so that you can divide your workload. But it is quite impossible. Since we don’t have the same energy levels during all days of the week. Perseverance is defined as continued effort. According to Walter Elliot, perseverance is not a long race; it is many short races one after another. It is necessary to reach a persevering mindset. It helps you fight your bad habits. A persevering mindset always thinks about getting things done no matter what. They don’t think about quitting. The only thought they have in their mind is that I have to achieve it with continued effort and work. How can you establish a weekly flood? Some people have beaming energies during the first half of the week and some have higher levels of energy during the second half of the week. You can select the day of your choice. And can work your ass off on that day. Choose one day out of every week and perform all the pending work on that day. Just get yourself through those tasks as well which you consider scary. Dive deep into your projects. Accomplish all the tasks that you have been thinking of doing. Nowadays our attention span has reduced drastically which can make us lose motivation at any instant. This weekly flood technique helps you remain persistent and motivated. After surviving each flood you will be motivated and proud. You will start excelling more academically.

plus-one routine

For doing any task efficiency is as equally important as its rate. The fifty correctly manufactured toys are better than two hundred faulty toys. Quality is going to provide you with some business which quantity cannot. Rushing the work should not be followed because rushing always causes damage. For example, you have to prepare a presentation for your product. The addition of extra things or something interesting at the end will always catch the attention of the audience. It will make them attentive toward your presentation. We have to adopt ways to bring modifications into our work. Extra effort is always appreciated and acknowledged. 5% extra effort makes a 100% difference. Always try to go that extra mile. It’s never crowded. Plus one routine is demonstrated by the example of a runner. If you are running in a race and you are about to get to the finish line. At this point, you realize that you still have energy left in your cells that can make you go beyond that finish line. Although you are already exhausted while running but closer to the finish line you feel like going beyond it as well. That’s the point where you can do better than others. The extra miles beyond the finish line are gonnaThe  make the difference. Adding up things to your schedule from the beginning lowers your motivation. It is better to acknowledge the plus one routine because the sense of accomplishment will boost your energy and make it easier for you to fulfill other tasks. After practicing this technique for several days it will eventually become your habit and you will start to become more productive and efficient.

Creation and critique 

Self-critique is necessary for every area of life. It is the judge that helps you distinguish between good and bad things. Self-analysis is quite necessary that helps you identify your flaws. A disease can never be treated until it’s diagnosed. So it is essential to always keep up the self-critique. We should keep the balance between creation and critique. If you’ve come exhausted from your work and now you are writing some points for your presentation. You have the ideas but it’s not working out. It is just because you are creating and critiquing simultaneously. You have to first get rid of your thoughts and ideas on the piece of paper. Pin down everything no matter how messy it gets. The goal is to clear your head. Afterward, start the process of critiquing. In this way, you will be more productive and high yielding. In these ways, you can excel exceptionally. Thanks for watching.

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In this modern era about every third person is suffering from anxiety and stress. And anxiety is the root cause of overthinking. We tend to ruminate about many things in our life. Some are negative thoughts and some are just worrisome thoughts. We can even redirect our thoughts to become useful for us. I will tell you some ways to reduce the habit of overthinking. Let’s start!

Become aware of your thoughts 

Start by becoming aware of your thoughts. What is going on inside our heads? What are these thoughts all about? It is important to realise what are the things that are triggering overthinking in your mind. Is the workspace triggering it? Or is it the social space provoking it? try to predict the situation so that you can manage it. Self-improvement starts with self-acceptance. it is easier to identify your flaws but accepting them is a big hell of a task. A doctor can not prescribe medicine until he diagnoses the disease likewise the flaws cannot be overcome until they are accepted. Don’t let your thoughts become restricted to your mind only. Let them out and write them in a journaling book. Keeping a journal book is an effective way to let things out. Whenever you write those random things out on paper you become more aware of your limitations. 

Daily activities

As the proverb goes, an empty mind is a devil’s house. We tend to overthink more when we have nothing to occupy the space of our brain. Whenever we have something on our mind to keep us going we are less likely to ruminate. It is highly suggested to keep ourselves busy with daily tasks. Like when going out for a walk keep yourself focused on the surroundings instead of thinking in your bubble. The key is you have to control the mind and don’t let the mind control you. While walking in the park, become observant and try to notice everything around you instead of becoming a prisoner to thoughts. Engage your mind so that it won’t be able to overthink. It is highly recommended to try novel things more often. We want our minds to be attentive. Trying out new things will force them to participate in the activities. For example, you can learn to drive a car, and you can also engage yourself in some ted talks or social gatherings, etc.

Scheduled worry 

It is the best way to handle your brain. We can just tell our brain that we remember the worry and we know we have to handle it. Just delay the worry by writing it down in a journal and say I will worry about it at 2 pm or I will do it at night. In this way, your brain will become relaxed and will stop nagging you all the time for the particular task. Your brain likes boundaries and it is advised to keep it engaged.

Meditation 

The ultimate way to control your mind is to meditate. Meditation is the only way by which you can tame your thoughts. Mediation has many benefits and it is one of them. Since meditation helps you achieve a relaxed, calmer, and serene mind, that is why it assists you in controlling your crazy chimp mind as well.

Concrete thoughts 

Concrete things are all about the things that are practically achievable. Write down those things only that you think are practically achievable. For instance, complaining about why I can’t be happy like my friends. Instead of these gloomy thoughts try reminiscing about what I can do today to make myself happy. Look for more concrete things. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Thanks for reading!

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happy new year. Today is first day of working day. Best wishes of new year. New year, brings hope and challenges. Lets sing songs of hope. Hope every thing will be fine, If we took right step.

Hope, 2023 is good for economy. For better future we have to work on us. We have to set goals and achieve them. We have understand what are our strength and weakness. Work on weakness and sharp your strength.

There are many ways to do that. One is Goal Setting. We have to set smart goals. Smart means, Specific, what you exactly want, Measure, It will be measurable, It is achievable, relevant and time bound. There must be deadline.

Second way is System. We define process. there is no specific goal. There is goal. No big goals. You make habit. Force yourself to built habit. For example in goals you focus to reach in 6 months. Failure and success is part of game. But in Process is no specific dead line. You just built a discipline. make a habit and result will come when you do what is required to do.

The third way is OKRS. That works more in professional environment. Here we have to define what is require as objective and then define some sub goals as key result. Key results are points we require to achieve our objective.

One thing sure what ever you use, we have to put efforts to achieve goals. we have to took small step and force us to over come resistance.

It is up to you, you make smart goals. Built habit or system that will automatically trigger as your second nature.

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Hey, guys welcome back to consultant mindset. Today’s topic of our video is peace of mind. In a frantic world, a peaceful mind might seem like a friend you rarely have the chance to catch up with. But finding peace of mind is possible. Peace of mind is something that illustrates mental satisfaction. As you guys know anxiety, depression, and other psychiatric illnesses are pretty prevalent these days. Their prevalence has become much higher than in the previous era. Peace of mind is described as that you are feeling at ease. You do not have stress or anxiety regarding anything in your life. Even if any problem appears you face it with calm and composure. You do not stress about it. Even if you have the toughest difficulty over your head you do not become anxious about it. But you face it with serenity and a calm mind. In this video, I will recommend some beneficial ways by which you can practice peace of mind. Before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel consultant mindset. Let us get straight into it.

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Focus on positives 

For mental peace, you have to think positively all the time. As it says that positive energy attracts positivity. So you gotta be doing it to ensure your mental health is fine and working. In today’s world, we face criticism on so many things. Some people are being criticized for their skin color, some are being criticized for their body shapes and whatnot. It is a kind of bullying. But if you continue to think about those negative comments. You are not going to get anywhere in life. In fact, in these cases, a person should pity those critics. Such critics want to become higher by showing you low. Do not stick to things. Like if someone did bad to you then you start to plan about taking revenge for it. This is a sort of parasite that eats your own body. It does not harm anyone else but it harms the person itself. Let go of things not because you are weak. Let go of them just because of your internal peace. We have many important tasks in this world apart from holding grudges against people. Always think about good things. You radiate what you absorb. Try to see the bright side of everything. If you incline yourself towards a darker side you are always going to end up in depression. So try to think about all the good things that happened to you or that are going to happen to you. Just hope for the best.

Acceptance 

Acceptance is one of the greatest tools in controlling your emotions and internal peace. Whenever something bad happens to us sometimes we cannot force ourselves to accept that specific situation. Everything requires time. We can mourn in our saddest moments but we cannot bring back what we lose. It is just the same if you lose a person you love the most in your life. It is hard to move on from that specific person. You miss him/her but you know that whatever you do they are not going to come back to you. At that point when you crave them, you feel helpless and powerless. Not being able to do something for your loved one smashes the chest. At this point, you should realize that there is no other way than to accept that he/she is gone now. you should realize that there is nothing that you can do now against the will of the Supreme Lord. Everyone has to go someday. You should think about the possible positive scenarios that he/she must be in the best place. Just accept what already happened to you. Accept your vulnerable side. It will give you internal peace and calmness of heart. You will be a lot better after this acceptance. Be at ease and calm your heart masses. 

Spend alone sometimes 

Every human being needs some space to get themselves together. Being around lots of people can be destructive and chaotic sometimes. It ruins your mental peace. For example, if you go to college and you have a group of friends. Those friends keep gossiping to you about other people. And the most difficult part is whether you like that gossip or not. You gotta be bearing it. Cause you can not say anything as they are your friends. After this time you gotta spend some time alone to work on yourself. Working alone can help you do even better. It increases your tolerance and patience level. So just space yourself out and think about yourself for some time. Work on your mental state. For better mental health it is necessary to spend some time solely. Take a vacation or holiday alone on some hill station. It will help you regain and refill your energy. Instead of worrying about specific things, consider parting yourself for some time. So you can be at peace

At last, I must say mental peace is necessary to pull up any task. Nowadays people have every bounty of this world but they do not have mental peace. This mental peace is not something that can be bought with money. it can be gained from your good deeds. When you know you are on the right path you automatically become composed and serene. That is all for today’s video. Hope you guys liked it. Bye bye 

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Hey, guys hope you all are living your best lives. Welcome back to consultant mindset which mainly provides consultancy and guidance for everyday living. Today’s topic of our video is believing in yourself. Every success that has been done until now was only possible when people believed in themselves. No one can achieve anything unless he/she has confidence in them. Believing in oneself is the major key to success and achievements. Most of the time we are not capable of finding our true qualities and aptitude. It is not because we think we are not good enough. It is just because we think others are better than us. It is human nature to compare him/her with others. This is not the right thing. It ultimately develops jealousy and destroys the character of a person. I will give you some recommendations to overcome these situations. Before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe. Let us get straight into it. 

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Surround yourself with positivity

This is one of the major reasons behind a morally boosted man. When you surround yourself with positive things it eventually instils cationic properties in person. We radiate what we absorb. People with short temper and anger issues are the result of a negative environment. It is proven from science as well that kids are more inclined to have a short temper when they are being put in an aggressive environment. They tend to adopt that atmosphere. And it influences their kids in a very bad way. It is just as if you think positively then you will attract positivity. But if you keep thinking about the negative scenarios then you will always end up attracting them. Think in such a way that even if something has gone bad then it does not matter. We always have another chance to prove ourselves. We always have that space to let people know about our capabilities. Regardless of the disappointment that occurs at first, we can keep going with a positive atmosphere. That always cheers us up. 

Face your fears 

Every man in this universe has some kind of fear. Some fear wild animals, some fear facing crowds and some have social anxiety.  These fears are the obstacles in the way of heading towards a self-confident boosted life. A man becomes scared of something whenever he feels like he cannot do it. To overcome these fears it is necessary to face those fears. For example, if you have fear of facing crowds or facing so many people. then you can overcome this by facing a small number of people at first. And then the number of people can go on increasing. by facing the crowds you can relieve your fear and can become self-confident enough. Boosting morale is essential for successful careers. For that, you have to start believing in yourself. Trusting yourself that you can do anything is a key to success. For achieving anything you have to trust yourself that nothing is impossible in this world.

Find gratitude 

Some people are thankless and never get thankful for what they have. They are always complaining about not having enough bounties in their lives. If we start searching for gratitude in small things we will be able to boost our morale more efficiently. There are some times in our lives when we start to feel unworthy and useless. We start to think that we are not capable enough for a specific task. We lose our morale and self-confidence. It is that time when we should start to realize the small bounties we have in our lives. However, being grateful in tough times is always the hardest task but it can be achieved by controlling your emotions. It will be hard at first but after some time it gets easier. Whenever you feel like you are falling apart and have difficulty combating the failures then start to focus on what you have achieved already. In this way, it will be better to shift your focus onto something better and more productive. You won’t be feeling empty and under confident anymore.

In concluding my whole discussion I must say that in every area of life self-confidence and morale are required. This is one of the best traits of a personality to acquire zenith. This is the best way to become an inspiration for others as well. Because when people see you doing a particularly tough task they will start to believe in themselves as well. They will start to think that he/she can do it then we can do it as well. That is all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Bye bye 

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Hey, guys hope you all are living your best lives. Welcome back to consultant mindset which mainly provides consultancy and guidance for everyday living. Today’s topic of our video is the power of knowledge. Knowledge means acquiring information and descriptive skills or facts. Education mainly revolves around getting information about a specific fact or situation. In a primitive era, people were not well aware of anything. There was not any development in the fields of medicine, agriculture, and technology. But after some time knowledge has provided a basis for humanity to establish their ways of life. Knowledge has many benefits. In this video, I will list some of the advantages of gaining knowledge. Let us get straight into it without wasting much time. before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset.

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Knowledge is the basic foundation of building one’s character. gaining information about some basic facts and things comes in the area of knowledge. Seeking and gathering knowledge from our teachers and professors not only polishes our personality but also helps in building the character of a person. Knowledge allows people to distinguish what is right or wrong. In the ignorant era when people were unaware and unenlightened. They knew about nothing. They used to kill their daughters and used to bury them alive. Only a few people were well aware of the righteous deeds. After ages when revolution was brought up it made people realize that they were at mistakes, and they were always doing the wrong thing. It helped them to become mentally and spiritually strong enough to handle situations. Building character involves speaking the truth always no matter how tough the situation is. Past experiences of our ancestors made us learn that having information about a certain topic or thing is necessary to make a judgment about it.

Increased rate of innovation 

Acquiring knowledge lets you invent things. Sticking to the same knowledge over years does you no good. you have to be versatile and dynamic enough to seek knowledge from different sources. Information gathered from different sources like television, newspaper, and the internet increases your knowledge on a certain topic. For example, by studying different articles on physics people can increase their knowledge in the field of technology. Increasing knowledge in the field of physics lets scientists develop innovative ideas. Just as now our scientists have developed cars that run on water causing no pollution at all. Tesla, one of the remarkable companies, claims to be the best in making advanced technology. People have established many ways to access information about space and galaxies. This is all the provision of knowledge. Without it, they wouldn’t be able to get to know them.

Better communication 

You guys must have seen that people with limited or no knowledge are less aware. And they are ignorant most of the time. They argue with people based on their little knowledge. It is said that little knowledge is always dangerous. acquiring knowledge not only opens the door of various areas to people. But it also helps them to get a holistic approach. As knowledge has many areas that lie in the spiritual, moral, and physical aspects. Many things explained in science have a major basis in religious books as well. So we can extract that knowledge through a holistic approach. There are no boundaries of knowledge. Knowledge not only helps you get the best personality but also grooms other aspects of your character. 

Being a better person at communicating with other people is also a result of gaining knowledge. Only people with a vast amount of knowledge can carry and win an argument. To win an argument one should have enough knowledge of what he/she is going to explain to the audience. Solid points and proper research can only make you win a discussion. so it is necessary to gain knowledge in every area of life.

Concluding my whole scenario it is clear that knowledge is the only thing to distinguish an ignorant person from the wiser one. Knowledge is the only tool that cannot be snatched or taken in any way. Knowledge is the only weapon that can revolutionize civilization. Knowledge is the only tool that can make rulers rule over nations. As Napoleon said you give me educated mothers, I will give you educated nations. from this article we can analyze the importance and benefits of knowledge. That’s all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Bye bye. 

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Hey, guys hope you all are living your best lives. Welcome back to consultant mindset that mainly aims at providing consultancy and guidance for everyday living. It gives you excellent ideas to mend your ways of living and uplift the standards of your life. Today’s topic of our video is to improve your skills. As we know every profession requires some skills to attain its best level. Whether you are a teacher or a doctor, every profession requires some capabilities that help you perform best in your field. For example, if you are running a construction company, you should have enough leadership qualities to lead the whole team. You should have the ability to face the failures carefully without devastating the morale of your team. In this video, I will give you some tips on improving your skills. But before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset. Let us jump right into it. 

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Identify your strength and weaknesses

In my opinion, identifying the problem is the main scenario. When you are unaware of what is going wrong then you will never be able to correct it. It is necessary to recognize the abilities that an individual possesses. For example, every person has his/her strengths and weaknesses. But not everyone is aware of them. Sometimes people come into the wrong profession because they never become able to recognize their true qualities. They always do what others tell them to. They don’t even try to unleash their true skills. If a person identifies that he/she has great leadership qualities. Then he can go for the seat of director in a company. If he has great communication skills then he can apply to some marketing companies. It depends on how proficient you are in your skills and if you are weak in some of your skills like you do not know how to attend social gatherings or else you are unaware of giving a presentation to the company due to lack of confidence. then you can work on them too. You can work on yourself to boost your morale and self-confidence. In this way, your weakness will become your strength as well.

 Ask for feedback

Sometimes it happens that we do not identify our actions as mistakes. Because every individual has their perspectives. Not everyone thinks the same. So it is better to take feedback from the masses so that you can mend your ways. For example, if they think you are unapproachable. Then ask them the reason. Just because you do not have enough communication skills or you are lacking self-confidence.  You can ask people how they feel about your leadership skills. Do they think of you as a better leader? Because few people are leaders, most of them are only. Leaders work with their employees whereas the boss just orders them around. Try improving your ways and constantly ask peeps about them. Because business is with the masses. And you have to deal with them. So you gotta develop your skills to handle them. 

Accept criticisms and suggestions 

While in a workspace employees have to deal with many types of clients. Some of them are impudent and some of them are forgivers. But you have to develop skills and patience to deal with them. Some will write bad about you and some will write well. You have to take this criticism as a positive approach to develop your character. In the beginning, criticism always lets you down. But afterward, you began to take it as positive criticism and start developing your skills. Now the point arises that development is not a problem. But to train them is a bigger task. The best person in the race is one who has the best of best skills in his area. A winner is always the one who has proficiency in his skills. That is why he/she is called a winner because he/she unleashes the true capabilities to win every race.

In concluding the whole discussion I must say that you should focus on improving your weaknesses instead of working over and over on your strengths. Unleashing something novel in your personality can be done by having social gatherings with new people. It can help you expand your network. Suggestions from friends and families can help you even better with our qualities. That’s all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Bye bye 

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Hey, guys hope you all are living your best lives. Welcome back to consultant mindset that mainly aims at providing consultancy and guidance for everyday living. It gives you excellent ideas to mend your ways of living and uplift the standards of your life. Today’s topic of our video is to provide ways by which meditation can help you improve your living standards. Meditation is a practice by which an individual can focus on one particular thought or object. It helps them to remain mindful of their thoughts and reasonings. In just a scenario we know that most of the time people are always confused when the question comes to making a decision. Their thoughts become cloudy and vague. They become unable to focus on one thing only. So meditation is for such masses to help them remain focused on one particular thought. Let’s get straight into this video. But before that don’t forget to like, share and subscribe. Let’s jump right into it.

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Reduces stress

The foremost benefit of meditation is that it helps you to reduce the stress levels of your body. In the present era, almost every individual faces stressed conditions. Some people face it due to business matters. Students face it due to the pressure of exams or studies. In short, everyone is surrounded by some tension or stress in their lives. According to science, how this stress mechanism exactly works is that we have adrenal glands just above the kidneys that release stress hormones mainly called cortisol. Some people even develop a stressed belly due to extremely stressed-out conditions. What does meditation do in this scenario? it not only helps you to cool down but also lets you think of another pathway. So that you do not remain in an unpleasant situation. Stress only increases your blood pressure and can cause hypertension. So it is necessary to bring down the levels of cortisol in the body. Meditation should be practiced in every household to remain healthy and fit.

Improves Insomnia

 

Insomnia is a condition where a person is unable to sleep. He cannot sleep due to the increased level of stress hormones in the body. Since increased levels of cortisol can lead to anxiety disorders. It automatically decreases your amount of sleep. It leads you to restlessness, moodiness, irritability, and some other psychological symptoms. An increased level of stress hormones reduces your sleep automatically. A person can sleep only if he is relaxed and in a calm state. By relaxing your body from head to toe you can ease your thoughts and can organize your thoughts. This is the best way to help reduce your tangled thoughts and can prove to be beneficial in relieving insomnia and correcting your sleep cycle. Nowadays it is a common problem among the masses that they cannot fall asleep at night. This sleeplessness is due to anxiety disorders. This can be overcome by practicing meditation on a daily basis. 

Decreased blood pressure 

Meditation not only lessens the anxious conditions but also decreases the high levels of blood pressure that are mainly due to stressful conditions. People with high blood pressure mainly suffer because their blood pressure rises due to increased overthinking. You can say everything in the human body is connected. Our brain has a pituitary gland in it. It mainly controls the metabolism of our body. It also affects the adrenal glands of the body that are responsible for controlling the number of stress hormones.  Increased levels of stress hormones eventually increase blood pressure. In this way, the human body is connected. Hypertensive people in Pakistan are mainly due to the stressed conditions in our country. Meditation controls the flight or fright response of our body that is under the control of the parasympathetic nervous system. Meditation cools down and relaxes the nerves that are responsible for the flight or fright response. 

In the end, I must say we should normalize practicing mediation. Most people think of it as a traditional method and mostly rely on medication. But they should take meditation into account that it is a useful method to reduce stress levels in the body. We should raise awareness among people about this as well. So that some of them only rely on medication. That’s all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Take care bye-bye

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Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. It educates you about worldly problems and gives you a good idea to mend your ways. The consultancy on daily life problems is a significant objective of our channel Consultant mindset. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you some recommendations for bonding with your teenage kids. As a child grows they go through various psychological and physiological changes. Due to puberty, they cannot understand their body changes. And they tend to need their parents to overcome those revolutions. I will tell you everything about it. But before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset. Let us get straight into the video 

Communicate your Expectations Clearly 

In order to develop proper connections with your kids, it is necessary to communicate with them. In every relationship, communication plays a key role in the maintenance of relations. If there is miscommunication or lack of communication then it eventually breaks a relationship and spoils it. It is obligatory for parents to let their kids know what they actually expect from them. Parents should be able to communicate well with their kids. When a child is in the developmental stage, he/she goes through various hormonal changes. In the case of males, they go through changes in the level of testosterone. An increased level of testosterone can result in anger issues and emotional disturbances. So they should be handled with care and cautiousness. If you tell the kids your expectations beforehand then they are more likely to accept them and agree to them. A parent should communicate with them in a polite manner. For example, a parent should avoid saying “wash the dishes”. It is just like ordering them around. Do it like this instead: “ can you wash the dishes?” there are more chances that they will accept what you are trying to say. 

Respect their privacy 

As a child in the developmental stages, there are lots of bodily changes occurring through time. We should give them enough time to recognize their physiological and psychological changes. The most important factor which is required by a teenager is independence and freedom. We should trust them enough to give them independence. They should have the freedom to go anywhere they want. But in addition to that, they should have the responsibility to inform their parents before going anywhere. In this way, the healthy bond between parents and kids remains intact. If a kid asks for some space then go ahead and give them that. Every person needs a personal space to nourish their character better. A parent should not take this as a personal attack when a child asks for some space. But parents should take care of their personal feelings themselves. When a kid is a teen some parents often force them to do the styling with the parents’ choice. However, a teenager should be given proper freedom to style themselves according to the way they want.

Accepting their Social Needs 

The majority of parents do not allow their kids to go to their friends’ houses. They do not even allow them to go to any other outside places with their friends. They place restrictions on them. That results in conflicts between parents and kids. Parents should allow their kids to go wherever they want to go. Going to a skating park, or joining a sports team is the need of their body. Parents should encourage them to go play outside. It not only enhances their social skills but also makes parents and kids good friends with each other. In addition, parents can maintain closeness with their kids by spending quality time with them. By eating dinner with them or by watching a movie with them. Playing board games, and making crafts with them is another way of developing bonds with kids. Parents should ask the names of the kids their children are being friends with. In this way, the children trust their parents even more. 

In concluding my whole discussion I must say parents should take steps to develop better relations with their kids. As kids grow the bond between kids and parents starts to change. Because the kids start to become adults. Giving them independence, privacy and space are integral in avoiding conflicts. Hope you guys enjoyed the video. Don’t forget to give a thumbs up. bye-bye 

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Hear your kids out 

If we want this world to be a better place then we have to start a revolution from our house. We have to teach our children how to become more disciplined and more responsible for their actions. In most cases, children idolise their parents. So it is binding upon the parent to mend his/her ways for their children. They will eventually follow in your footsteps. And will blame you for every mistake. So the initial step is to hear your kid’s every problem. To find the root cause. If you hear them out calmly then you will be able to help them as well. Many of the kids do not tell their parents due to their harsh and strict behaviour with their kids. In this way, they continue to grow in that harsh environment. This needs to stop. If parents want their kids to get disciplined and more responsible in their actions. Then they have to help them out in every step of life. For example in the case of a parent, you can ask them why a kid is in a bad mood today? Did he fight with any of his friends? The kids can become closer to their parents in this way. In this way, their lives can get disciplined and peaceful as well.

Give Them Attention 

In my opinion, attention is the most powerful tool that every kid needs. They want attention.  We can make our kids practice discipline only when they are close to us. Only when they have unlimited affection for their parents. Otherwise, kids do not listen to their parents to whom they do not feel affection. In this way, you can discourage the bad behaviour of your kids. And can enforce their good behaviours. For example, if a kid does a good deed like putting the toy back in its place after playing with it. Do praise them for their good deeds. And appreciate them for placing the toy back. In this way, they will become cautious about what they do afterward. They will become responsible for their actions just because they know that their parents have a check on them. Likewise forbade them from doing bad deeds as well. Cause it is binding upon a parent to tell their kids which pathway is right and which pathway is wrong.

Call A Timeout 

Set a certain limit for your kids. If they do not listen to your set rules. Or they break a certain rule. Then make a certain call out for them. So that they can be cautious about doing it again. Developing discipline is different for different ages of children. Just like for small babies you cannot shout at them and you cannot use harsh words with them. you gotta be more polite and humble with them. You can use words like “time to sit ” rather than saying “ don’t stand”. For teens, you do not have to take the side of one kid in fights with siblings. Just take away the toy on which they are fi ghting. For adolescent teens, parents should give them time to understand their hormonal and physiological changes. In this way, they can develop bonds with their parents. As I have discussed in my previous video “Parenting tips’ Do not forget to check it out. The link is in the description. By appreciating kids’ good acts you can make them develop discipline in their lives. 

Concluding this whole discussion I must say that by developing bonding with kids you can teach them how to behave well. Discipline is a bridge between goals and accomplishment. Self-discipline means establishing authority over one’s habits and routines. Hope you guys enjoyed this video. Byebye