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Hey guys, I hope you are doing great. Welcome to the Consultant Mindset. Everyone is striving to fulfill their necessities. All of us are working day and night to get our things done. When was the last time that you thought of focusing on yourself? When was it when you realised this fact that you need some kind of self-care as well?  There is nothing wrong with thinking about yourself and fulfilling your necessities. Whenever we do something for ourselves, people perceive it as arrogant or self-obsessive behaviour. However, it aint true. Doing something for yourself and rewarding oneself with rewards is a form of self-love. 

What Do We Mean By Focusing on Yourself?

Focusing on yourself means one should prioritize his needs and basic desires. Giving up on your necessities due to some critiques aint worth it.  The main factor of jealousy doesn’t let people see anyone live in peace. Focusing on oneself means that you are treating yourself like a royal. You are rewarding yourself at the end of the accomplishment of every task. This is what we call self-love. According to psychology, you cannot love someone unless you start loving yourself. That indicates it is necessary to love yourself to love people closer to you. When giving yourself a slave treatment, how do you expect to give your loved ones a royal treatment?

There can be no failure to a man who has not lost his courage, his character, his self-respect, or his self-confidence. He is still a King.

Orison Swett Marden

The biggest portion of focusing on oneself involves self-care and self-love. You may feel selfish and self-absorbed but start to think about it from a different angle.  Today’s society is merely involved in pleasing people. They don’t know what they want. They are just running in the constant race of pleasing people with no ending line at all. They are just living their lives according to the desires of the masses. The true self of the majority has vanished. When someone criticises us, we start to change ourselves without even realising that we are going towards a negative development.  How can we practice self-love?

Self-love needs acceptance.  Giving oneself enough space to accept his true self is a positive development. It leads you to accept your flaws and develop a love for yourself. When we set standards for a perfect human being, we become less likely to achieve them. To err is human; to forgive is divine. Humans are not bots, so they are imperfect. Imperfections are the identifiers that make us distinguished from the bots. Developing empathy and compassion for oneself leads you to be empathetic towards others. If you are treating yourself right, you are gonna treat people surrounding you with kindness and sympathy. 

Why is it Important to Focus on Yourself?

Focusing on oneself makes you realise your self-worth. It increases your self-confidence ad boosts your self-morale. You start to become the ultimate beast. You start realising what you deserve. You set boundaries and standards. Self-confidence does not allow you to settle for less.  

Every human has four endowments – self-awareness, conscience, independent will and creative imagination. These give us the ultimate human freedom… The power to choose, to respond, to change.

Stephen Covey

So, have you ever pondered about what you want in your life? Have you ever realised what kind of lifestyle you are living? Are you living according to people or yourself? This is a dire need of today’s era to realise this fact that what we want with our lives.

Make Sure You are Seeking What You Want

There are times in our lives when we acquire opinions from our elders or friends.  You can just take their guidance to guide you through the way. But it does not mean that you get swayed away from your desired destination. When listening to others, we somehow manage to get ourselves trapped in their words. We start doing what they recommend us to do unintentionally. However, asking for opinions and doing the whole thing according to them are two different perspectives.  Make sure to stick to your desires.

Let People Feel How They Feel

If people close to you are upset about your self-focus attitude, then let them be alone for a while. Let them process their emotions. We cannot make everyone happy now. We have to establish ourselves. They will feel strange for a while, but when they will get to know about your boundaries; they will eventually get used to it.

Be Kind to Yourself

Give yourself enough room to grow. Reserve time for yourself and carry out your hobbies in that time. There will be times when you gonna have some negative thoughts about yourself. Never let them move you away from your destination. Be kind to yourself and use your spare time for your self-care.

Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.

Lao Tzu

Start saying ‘no’

To please people, we cannot make ourselves deny them. For instance, if someone invited us to a party and he didn’t feel like going, then he probably should have enough courage to refuse them. But that is not how it goes. We think more about people than think about ourselves. We are worried about what they think about us. In all this amusement, we have forgotten ourselves and are living a life of what others want us to be. Most of us are reflections of what people want us to be.

Concluding this whole discussion, focusing on your self-care and self-love plays an integral role in your development. That’s all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Stay tuned for more interesting videos.

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Hey guys welcome back to the consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. You all must be striving for some goals in your life. Everyone is working in their zones to get to the zenith. But are they heading towards that point? Is there anything unnecessary stopping you to achieve your goals? If yes, let me know in the comment section.  Sometimes things happen, and we fail to get what we want to achieve. Regardless of our hard work and untiring effort we somehow don’t manage to get our goals. The most common and typical problem these days is show-off. People like to flaunt their success and achievements. however, this show-off does not help them achieve their goals. Before we get further. If you have not subscribed to our channel yet, then click the subscribe button and press the bell icon so you never miss any notifications from our channel.

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According to some scientific research, announcing your goals publicly releases a neurotransmitter dopamine that is responsible for the feeling of satisfaction in your body. When you tell your goals to anyone,the chances of achieving them start to lower eventually.  It is highly recommended to stay silent unless you achieve your goals. Announcing your goals publicly means you are adding more pressure on yourself. You are inviting unnecessary distractions to deviate you from the main destination.  As a result of all talk, people think that you are being a hypocrite who just talks and can never do anything in life.

Everything that’s created comes out of silence. Your thoughts emerge from the nothingness of silence. Your words come out of this void. Your very essence emerged from emptiness. All creativity requires some stillness.

Wayne Dyer

This post is all about working in silence. Never tell anyone about your next move.  What do we mean by working in silence?

Like is too short to worry about what others think about you. You are too busy to prove to anyone what you are capable of. Each of us is an equally capable human, and we don’t need anyone’s validation. The lesser you brag about your destination, the more likely you are going to get it.  Let your hard work be loud enough to make noise of your success. Telling everyone your goals beforehand makes you even more nervous and anxious to achieve them.  Constantly feeling the pressure and anxiety of not letting them down eventually lowers your work capacity. An individual’s efficiency is eventually lowered when he is constantly under pressure. When you think of people’s expectations, you start to put more effort under humongous stress. Any decision made under pressure yields no result even though you are putting in a great effort. Many people allow the public to invade their lives. They allow them to do whatever they want with their lives. Such people start living their lives according to other people’s opinions.  The marketing of success snatches the core competency of an individual. 

 “Silence at the proper season is wisdom, and better than any speech.” – Plutarch

There are some silent productivity tips which you can apply to continue work in silence. Are you aware of those tips? If yes, let me know.

Set Clear Goals

Clarity of thoughts is an important step. Are you aware of yourself? Have you ever tried to find your true self? A self-aware individual never fails to achieve anything. He gets what he desires. Almost all of us are aware of our capabilities. We know our potential and capacities. When you are going on a journey, choose a destination first.  A person without goals is just like a person wandering in a dark blind tunnel.  Organize your tangled thoughts and become self-aware of what you want in your life. 

Visualise Success

Visualising success means the power of imagination of the human mind. Imagine yourself achieving that peculiar goal. But not revealing it to anyone else is a must condition.  Just imagine yourself getting those achievements and feeling the breeze of that splendid euphoria. This way it will burn the lighter of hard work in your heart. And you will continue to push harder to enjoy that moment of euphoria. Visualising success is better than telling others. In this world, not all people are happy for us. Some jealousy factors are present in people that do not let them see anyone else ahead of them. That is one of the major reasons we should not tell anyone about our future goals.

Practice Self-Discipline

To avoid distractions, try to remain disciplined. Practice discipline even when no one is watching you. Self-discipline is necessary for one’s personal growth. Regulating your actions and performing them on time is essential to maintain the zone of your personal growth. A self-disciplined mind goes for a step-wise procedure and performs tasks.

I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self.

Aristotle

Practice Mindfulness and Reward Yourself

Mindfulness meditation helps you get over anxiety, overthinking, stress, depression and many more mental illnesses. It is advised to keep up with meditation. It seems quite easy, but has major impacts on the human mind. After completion of the task, don’t forget to reward yourself. Since you are working in your zone. You cannot expect rewards from others. Try to keep yourself motivated by rewarding yourself with little sweets at the end of the completion of every ask.

Concluding the whole discussion, it is essential to keep your goals private. Let your success throw the enchanting melody of your untiring hard work.

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Hey guys welcome back to consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. Today we are going to talk about personal growth. It is something that we all want to bring into our lives. We all want to establish ourselves to live a peaceful and good life. What is personal growth? It is defined as some established ways that help us to live meaningful and productive life. We can make our lifestyles better to cope with worldly problems. When you are productive, you are less likely to face decision-making problems. The personal growth term can be referred to in many contexts. It can define your personality, your character and the multiple traits that are involved in making you a good person or a bad one. Why is it important to groom your personality? Why personal growth is essential?

Personal growth has a broad spectrum. It is not restricted to one area only. It involves physical, moral and intellectual ethics. It helps you to become a better human being.  When you start to realize your mistakes and your past outcomes, you eventually become a better version of yourself. People who never accept their mistakes are less likely to get anywhere in their lives. 

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What developments are involved in personal growth?

We should have control of our anger. Anger leads to many destructive chaoses. A person cannot think whenever he is angry. To cool down the situation, it is better to not get violent whenever you are angry. An angry person always makes foolish mistakes and can never become better in his life. Anger is only a self-destructing tool. It not only harms others but also destroys one’s own life as well. Procrastination is one of the leading factors in receding growth. People have become lazier and sluggish. They tend to delay their work by making excuses. They just act lazy and find ways to delay their work. However, a lazy man can never do their work on time. They always find ways to procrastinate. 

Personal development is your springboard to personal excellence. Ongoing, continuous, non-stop personal development assures you that there is no limit to what you can accomplish.

Brian Tracy

A responsible person is always considerate. He always considers the problems of others. And he always makes their problem-solving his priority. And he never fails to back off whenever anyone requires help from him. Being considerate is one of the integral factors that makes you a good human being. Personal growth involves how you treat others and whether you are helpful towards your mates or not. It helps you proceed personally as well as morally.

How Can We Achieve Exponential Personal Growth?

There are some ways by which you can become an exponentially grown person in every way. The first and foremost key is to keep learning always. Learning is a way that helps you add more things to life. Learning and studying not only add innovative things to your life but they also let you learn from your mistakes. It is a crucial aspect of personal development. Listening is a powerful tool that makes you considerate towards others. You come to know about other people’s opinions as well. 

Volunteer Your Time

Helping others always provides you insight into new things. You can learn new experiences from other people. You can learn new skills that can help you expand your worldview. By gaining insights into new things, you become more prone to a successfully developed personality. 

“Your life only gets better when you get better “

Brian Tracy

Experience new things and new places 

Exploring new things always adds a novel part to your personality. It brings light to all the new areas of life. You should have a taste of every aspect of your life. Experience is the only thing that makes your life way better than before. Travelling and meeting new people around the world change your perspective and makes you encounter new things. New places instill a new personality into you. It can change your ideology of life.

Make Your Health a Priority 

A healthy body has a healthy mind. If you are not taking care of your health and are being careless and irresponsible then you are less likely to get anywhere in your life. Eating junk induces junk in your mind as well. The junk does not provide you with energy and makes you feel sluggish all day. This way you won’t be having the energy to cope with worldly issues. Taking vitamins, having a night of proper sleep, doing exercise and eating healthy food are the top-notch factors to improve health.

Self Evaluation 

A person who faces life problems strenuously always remains steadfast. Many people keep denying some absolute certain realities of their lives. Ask yourself such questions so you know your position.

Where do I stand in my life right now?

What is your life like now? And how do you see your life in future?

What do you want to do with your life?

These questions provide you with a trajectory by which you can focus on your life. These questions provide you with better insights by which you can develop your life in a better way.

it is in the character of growth that we should learn from both pleasant and unpleasant experiences.

Nelson Mandela

In the end, the thing that matters is you should keep going and improving yourself. Never stop learning and continue to incorporate new experiences into your life.

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Motivation and the consultant mindset go hand-in-hand as they are both crucial elements in achieving success and driving positive change.

Motivation is the driving force that fuels individuals to take action, persevere through challenges, and strive towards their goals. It is the inner spark that propels individuals to push beyond their comfort zones, stay focused, and maintain the drive to achieve their desired outcomes. Motivation is essential in both personal and professional contexts, as it inspires individuals to take initiative, overcome obstacles, and continuously improve their performance.

On the other hand, the consultant mindset is characterized by a strategic and solution-oriented approach to problem-solving. It involves the ability to analyze situations critically, identify opportunities for improvement, and develop effective strategies to achieve desired outcomes. A consultant mindset entails being proactive, innovative, and collaborative, with a keen eye for detail and a commitment to delivering tangible results.

The consultant mindset also encompasses effective communication skills, active listening, and empathy to understand the needs and perspectives of clients or stakeholders. It involves the ability to build trust, establish credibility, and provide expert advice based on deep knowledge, experience, and data-driven insights.

Furthermore, the consultant mindset is characterized by a continuous learning and improvement mindset. It involves staying updated with the latest industry trends, technologies, and best practices, and constantly seeking opportunities to expand one’s knowledge and skills. A consultant mindset also includes being adaptable and flexible, willing to embrace change and navigate ambiguity to achieve optimal outcomes.

In summary, the combination of motivation and the consultant mindset creates a powerful synergy for driving positive change, achieving goals, and delivering exceptional results. It involves being proactive, innovative, strategic, and continuously learning and improving to provide expert advice and guidance to clients or stakeholders.

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You are enough just the way you are. Some of you might be asking yourselves what does it even mean? So let’s just make it clear that considering yourself enough and loving yourself is all that matters. Dressing elegantly, and buying cars, expensive phones, high-priced bags, and shoes won’t make you feel worthy enough. The only attitude that matters is to wear confidence, courage, and self-esteem. These ornaments of moral values are the most gorgeous dresses one can wear. You don’t have to buy expensive stuff to make yourself worthy in the eyes of others. The only thing that matters is you. Now the point is how much you love yourself? Loving yourself doesn’t mean having materialistic things like cars, money, and phones. It is all about how you treat yourself. 

It is a matter of knowing your value. You don’t have to be around people to realize your value. Your mindset should be “my love for me is independent of love for others”. One should keep in mind that I believe in myself. And I know my worth. The thing is to trust the process. If you are giving up on the 5th or 30th try then it means you don’t want it badly. If you really want something then you are not moved by how long it takes. You won’t be discouraged by what people say. When you desire something and really want to get it you don’t settle for mediocre things. you keep moving forward.

The essential step is to make your head clear. What do you really want? Ask your heart about your desires. It is necessary to clear the clutter in your head. The body has limitations but the mind doesn’t have them. Until now only visions have been able to change the world. It is quite evident that revolution starts from your mind. You cannot push your body through its limits but you can push your mind. Never let your fears overcome your struggles. Overcoming your fears is the first step towards achieving your target. It is always hard and tedious. But you gotta do it. Since pathways to success are always under construction. Success requires some attitude. And the attitude required for success is relentless. If you stumble and fall there is always a chance for you to get up again. There is always room for you to improve yourself. It’s never too late to get up again and start pursuing forward. Any challenge or difficulty you’re facing in life has only one solution: get up and start walking. Being stagnant in one place and doing nothing like a lazy ass does no good.

You always search for people like you in society. There is a story behind this background. Once there was a girl who used to feel low about herself. She always used to say that I am ugly, weak, and feeble. There was a person who used to lift her up by saying you are beautiful and you are strong. That girl hugged him and said treat yourself like you treat your loved ones. That day he realized the only person he wants in his life is himself. The conclusion of this story is that the only way we can love others is by loving ourselves. How are we supposed to love our close ones when we don’t love ourselves? Loving yourself means that you don’t need any company or any expensive stuff to define you. Your confidence, self-esteem, spirituality, and morality are enough to define you. 

We search for people and companies to make us happy. We go to parties, clubs, and birthdays to make ourselves feel loved. Although it is just an excuse to make yourself feel better. And it is temporary as well. You don’t need anyone to make you happy or loved. The movies and the expensive brands make us feel that we are not worthy enough. However, we are more than that and we don’t need their help to make us realize our values. By following this mindset you become brighter and brighter and your pathway becomes enlightened as well. You start to feel good about yourself. Every day just look in the mirror and say “I am who I have been looking for”

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Welcome back, everyone. Every workspace has its boundaries and standards for performing a task. A positive attitude towards work is important in establishing a firm or company. Regardless of these attitudes we often feel lazy and tired of our work. We frequently procrastinate because of a lack of motivation. We always find ourselves always tangled in the web of delayed work. Why are we procrastinating more often? It’s because now we have many distractions that can make us delay our work. For instance, constant use of social media is the hotspot of delayed work. Social media is an addiction that makes you rely on it. Are you also tired of your attitude towards work? Let’s just find some ways to carry out work at an exceptional rate. We will focus on the quality and quantity of work.

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Weekly flood

It is essential to schedule your week so that you can divide your workload. But it is quite impossible. Since we don’t have the same energy levels during all days of the week. Perseverance is defined as continued effort. According to Walter Elliot, perseverance is not a long race; it is many short races one after another. It is necessary to reach a persevering mindset. It helps you fight your bad habits. A persevering mindset always thinks about getting things done no matter what. They don’t think about quitting. The only thought they have in their mind is that I have to achieve it with continued effort and work. How can you establish a weekly flood? Some people have beaming energies during the first half of the week and some have higher levels of energy during the second half of the week. You can select the day of your choice. And can work your ass off on that day. Choose one day out of every week and perform all the pending work on that day. Just get yourself through those tasks as well which you consider scary. Dive deep into your projects. Accomplish all the tasks that you have been thinking of doing. Nowadays our attention span has reduced drastically which can make us lose motivation at any instant. This weekly flood technique helps you remain persistent and motivated. After surviving each flood you will be motivated and proud. You will start excelling more academically.

plus-one routine

For doing any task efficiency is as equally important as its rate. The fifty correctly manufactured toys are better than two hundred faulty toys. Quality is going to provide you with some business which quantity cannot. Rushing the work should not be followed because rushing always causes damage. For example, you have to prepare a presentation for your product. The addition of extra things or something interesting at the end will always catch the attention of the audience. It will make them attentive toward your presentation. We have to adopt ways to bring modifications into our work. Extra effort is always appreciated and acknowledged. 5% extra effort makes a 100% difference. Always try to go that extra mile. It’s never crowded. Plus one routine is demonstrated by the example of a runner. If you are running in a race and you are about to get to the finish line. At this point, you realize that you still have energy left in your cells that can make you go beyond that finish line. Although you are already exhausted while running but closer to the finish line you feel like going beyond it as well. That’s the point where you can do better than others. The extra miles beyond the finish line are gonnaThe  make the difference. Adding up things to your schedule from the beginning lowers your motivation. It is better to acknowledge the plus one routine because the sense of accomplishment will boost your energy and make it easier for you to fulfill other tasks. After practicing this technique for several days it will eventually become your habit and you will start to become more productive and efficient.

Creation and critique 

Self-critique is necessary for every area of life. It is the judge that helps you distinguish between good and bad things. Self-analysis is quite necessary that helps you identify your flaws. A disease can never be treated until it’s diagnosed. So it is essential to always keep up the self-critique. We should keep the balance between creation and critique. If you’ve come exhausted from your work and now you are writing some points for your presentation. You have the ideas but it’s not working out. It is just because you are creating and critiquing simultaneously. You have to first get rid of your thoughts and ideas on the piece of paper. Pin down everything no matter how messy it gets. The goal is to clear your head. Afterward, start the process of critiquing. In this way, you will be more productive and high yielding. In these ways, you can excel exceptionally. Thanks for watching.

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Hey, guys hope you all are living your best lives. Welcome back to consultant mindset that mainly aims at providing consultancy and guidance for everyday living. It gives you excellent ideas to mend your ways of living and uplift the standards of your life. Today’s topic of our video is to improve your skills. As we know every profession requires some skills to attain its best level. Whether you are a teacher or a doctor, every profession requires some capabilities that help you perform best in your field. For example, if you are running a construction company, you should have enough leadership qualities to lead the whole team. You should have the ability to face the failures carefully without devastating the morale of your team. In this video, I will give you some tips on improving your skills. But before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset. Let us jump right into it. 

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Identify your strength and weaknesses

In my opinion, identifying the problem is the main scenario. When you are unaware of what is going wrong then you will never be able to correct it. It is necessary to recognize the abilities that an individual possesses. For example, every person has his/her strengths and weaknesses. But not everyone is aware of them. Sometimes people come into the wrong profession because they never become able to recognize their true qualities. They always do what others tell them to. They don’t even try to unleash their true skills. If a person identifies that he/she has great leadership qualities. Then he can go for the seat of director in a company. If he has great communication skills then he can apply to some marketing companies. It depends on how proficient you are in your skills and if you are weak in some of your skills like you do not know how to attend social gatherings or else you are unaware of giving a presentation to the company due to lack of confidence. then you can work on them too. You can work on yourself to boost your morale and self-confidence. In this way, your weakness will become your strength as well.

 Ask for feedback

Sometimes it happens that we do not identify our actions as mistakes. Because every individual has their perspectives. Not everyone thinks the same. So it is better to take feedback from the masses so that you can mend your ways. For example, if they think you are unapproachable. Then ask them the reason. Just because you do not have enough communication skills or you are lacking self-confidence.  You can ask people how they feel about your leadership skills. Do they think of you as a better leader? Because few people are leaders, most of them are only. Leaders work with their employees whereas the boss just orders them around. Try improving your ways and constantly ask peeps about them. Because business is with the masses. And you have to deal with them. So you gotta develop your skills to handle them. 

Accept criticisms and suggestions 

While in a workspace employees have to deal with many types of clients. Some of them are impudent and some of them are forgivers. But you have to develop skills and patience to deal with them. Some will write bad about you and some will write well. You have to take this criticism as a positive approach to develop your character. In the beginning, criticism always lets you down. But afterward, you began to take it as positive criticism and start developing your skills. Now the point arises that development is not a problem. But to train them is a bigger task. The best person in the race is one who has the best of best skills in his area. A winner is always the one who has proficiency in his skills. That is why he/she is called a winner because he/she unleashes the true capabilities to win every race.

In concluding the whole discussion I must say that you should focus on improving your weaknesses instead of working over and over on your strengths. Unleashing something novel in your personality can be done by having social gatherings with new people. It can help you expand your network. Suggestions from friends and families can help you even better with our qualities. That’s all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Bye bye