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Hey, guys hope you are doing great. Welcome back to the consultant mindset. Everyone in their lives must have come across this question once in a lifetime. Why are we here? What’s the meaning of our life? What’s the mere purpose? The question of human existence is quite different for every religion. Every human is curious to find the answer to this question. What’s the point of our existence in this world? Many humans on this planet are living a meaningless life. They don’t know what to do with their lives. They are just spending their lives in constant struggles. They are spending their lives doing the bare minimum. They aren’t aware of their purpose in life. Many people have come across this thought quite a several times now. If you think like this then you are not alone in this situation. It is completely normal.

First off first, it is necessary to determine the correct definition of a meaningful life. Every individual has his perspective. They perceive life in their way. Not all of us have the same motto for life. A meaningful life is a construct of coherence, happiness and satisfaction. There can be different ways of a meaningful life. Every individual has his passion. Some want to excel in their academic career whereas some want to pursue in their jobs or businesses. A meaningful life refers to how are we going to spend our life. Either we spend it doing things of our passion or spend it wasting time on other garbage.

Life becomes meaningful when it has a purpose. When we become destined to achieve certain goals in our lives, life gets directed eventually. Having goals and purpose and striving for them day and night lets us put some major efforts to strive through the situation.  Finding meaning in one’s life is a personal journey. It requires some time but gradually streamlines you towards a meaningful life. Where you enjoy doing your thing instead of dragging it. A purposeful life lets you overcome any difficulty with much ease. Since you choose a life of your choice you become capable to cope with its hardships as well. 
How can we establish a meaningful life?
A meaningful isn’t related to a successful life. If you’re having a satisfied mindset, you feel happy and contented and you’re good to go. People have this misconception that a happy life is somehow related to a meaningful life. You can be successful and live a meaningless life at the same time. For example, a person who is earning less but is doing a job of his interest is better than a person who’s a business tycoon and isn’t passionate about his work. It’s good to have less earnings with a passionate job.
Develop a Passion or Find Your Passion 
Anyone has some passion in their lives. While some are just living a trash life doing nothing at all. how can we determine our passion? Well, certain things in our lives make us feel happier and contented. It can either be some art or business etc. we just have to find that happiness and satisfaction. Some people find their happiness at a very old age but it is never too late to find out the exact purpose of your life. If you don’t have any passion, strive for one or find one.
Develop Relationships 
Sometimes we develop such relationships in our lives to whom we become willing to devote our entire lives. There should be the existence of such people in our lives. We love seeing those people. Our unfinished love for them makes us do anything for them. We cannot imagine our lives without them. We try to live for them. We try to focus on ourselves for them. It is necessary to find some meaningful people in our lives that will let us move forward always. Life is like the ride of a camel stranded in a desert striving barely under the dazzling rays of the sun. if we want to keep going, stay connected to ones who never care to back off. People who are always willing to push you through your hard times. Keep lifting you no matter how hard you fall. Do you guys have such gems in your lives? Let me know in the comment section.
Monitor Your Mood
Motivation is entirely dependent on your mood. You are not always in the mood to get things done. Since we are not machines there are times when we become extremely exhausted and become unwilling to do anything. At that time, you must not forgive and indulge yourself in other activities. Some random activities like games, exercise, reading books etc can divert your attention. after some relaxation, you again become strong enough to combat problems for your passion.
Monitoring Passion As You Age 
The interest of an individual changes throughout life. We have different interests at different stages of life. For instance, older people are more likely to indulge themselves in fun activities. They have trouble establishing new relationships but gradually they develop some really fun activities and continue to pursue them as their passion.
These are some ways which can help you direct your lives towards a specific goal. That’s all for today. Stay tuned for more amazing stuff.

How Mindset Affects Success | Mindset For Success I Growth Mindset I The Consultant Mindset

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Everyone has different perceptions of success. There can be various forms of success like financial stability, career advancement, personal growth or even simple happiness. Even mere happiness can be a form of success for some people.  Your mindset is the main thing that plays an integral role in determining your success. Mindset is the game changer here. Have you ever tried evaluating yourself?  What kind of mindset do you guys possess? Let me know in the comment section about your point of view.

What is a mindset? mindset is a set of beliefs and regulations that shape your thoughts. It helps you remain tracked and makes things easier to achieve. The type of mindset a person beholds eventually determines his goals and objectives. There are two types of mindsets fixed mindset and growth mindset. Before we move into it remember to like, share and subscribe to our channel consultant mindset.

A fixed mindset is a term that we use for a rigid brain. A rigid brain means that a person thinks that he is born this way and has fixed talents, intelligence and skills. There is no room for growth in that mindset. Being stuck to such traits makes you give up easily. 

“As you begin to understand the fixed and growth mindsets, you will see exactly how one thing leads to another—how a belief that your qualities are carved in stone leads to a host of thoughts and actions, and how a belief that your qualities can be cultivated leads to a host of different thoughts and actions, taking you down an entirely different road.”

– Carol Dweck 

A fixed mindset leads to fear of failure and mistakes. The extreme fear of failure makes you fall into various mental illnesses. Stress, anxiety, and depression have been inflicted upon such people due to this sloth mindset. 

In comparison to a fixed mindset, there is a growth mindset. A growth mindset means always levelling up. The people who possess such a mindset have the belief on this thought that they can never fail to succeed. They embrace their failures and try to achieve their goals. The idea of having an unchanging IQ level has never been an option for them. They always go for improvements. They opt for hard work and instil their efforts to convert the impossible into possible.

 Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.

Pele

There is always room for growth. We can always work on ourselves to be a better person than before. The point is to realise the fact that the competition is between you and your former self. The kids who have a perpetually growing mindset have this belief that they can yield results out of any difficult task.  There was an experiment conducted which had a group of 4-year-old kids. They were asked to choose between an easy task and a difficult one. Those who chose the easy task had a fixed mindset. They wanted to validate their success and wanted to achieve the title of success in their life. They had a predetermined mindset. The kids who chose the difficult task had a growth mindset. They proved that whether there are hardships and failures we will learn from them and will emerge stronger than before. Kids with fixed mindsets go for easy tasks to prove their validation. They learn nothing novel from it. They just keep sticking to the same thing. 

How Mindset Affects Success?

Mindset affects the level of your motivation. The growth mindset tricks you into believing that you can always grow and can always work on your personal growth. 

When you look at people who are successful, you will find that they aren’t the people who are motivated but have consistency in their motivation.

Arsene Wenger

A growth mindset always enables you to learn, seek and acquire innovations. A person who has a growth mindset likely to go for new opportunities and challenges.  A fixed mindset makes you feel demotivated and keeps you stuck in the current situation. 

Mindset affects your resilience. Resilience is the power to hold back and face challenges through thick and thin. When you have a growth mindset, you choose optimism. Your actions become the reflection of your optimistic approach. You don’t see failure as a negative approach instead the strong mindset lets you see it as a positive approach and learn from them. 

How Can You Develop a Growth Mindset?

Embrace challenges 

Never avoid challenges. Take the challenges as novel opportunities to shape your thoughts. This way you can explore yourself and establish new ways to conquer life.

Learn from Failure

Failure teaches you novel endeavours. It teaches you how can you have a positive outlook on the malpractices of your life. Failure makes you a stronger human than before. 

Focus On Positives

It is highly recommended to focus on the good things in your life instead of dwelling on the negative aspects.

Celebrate progress 

To keep the consistency in motivation, celebrate your progress and become cheerful about what you have achieved.

Concluding the whole video, mindset is what plays an integral role in determining your success. Hope you guys enjoyed today’s video. Stay tuned for more amazing posts

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Hey guys, I hope you are doing great. Welcome to the Consultant Mindset. Everyone is striving to fulfill their necessities. All of us are working day and night to get our things done. When was the last time that you thought of focusing on yourself? When was it when you realised this fact that you need some kind of self-care as well?  There is nothing wrong with thinking about yourself and fulfilling your necessities. Whenever we do something for ourselves, people perceive it as arrogant or self-obsessive behaviour. However, it aint true. Doing something for yourself and rewarding oneself with rewards is a form of self-love. 

What Do We Mean By Focusing on Yourself?

Focusing on yourself means one should prioritize his needs and basic desires. Giving up on your necessities due to some critiques aint worth it.  The main factor of jealousy doesn’t let people see anyone live in peace. Focusing on oneself means that you are treating yourself like a royal. You are rewarding yourself at the end of the accomplishment of every task. This is what we call self-love. According to psychology, you cannot love someone unless you start loving yourself. That indicates it is necessary to love yourself to love people closer to you. When giving yourself a slave treatment, how do you expect to give your loved ones a royal treatment?

There can be no failure to a man who has not lost his courage, his character, his self-respect, or his self-confidence. He is still a King.

Orison Swett Marden

The biggest portion of focusing on oneself involves self-care and self-love. You may feel selfish and self-absorbed but start to think about it from a different angle.  Today’s society is merely involved in pleasing people. They don’t know what they want. They are just running in the constant race of pleasing people with no ending line at all. They are just living their lives according to the desires of the masses. The true self of the majority has vanished. When someone criticises us, we start to change ourselves without even realising that we are going towards a negative development.  How can we practice self-love?

Self-love needs acceptance.  Giving oneself enough space to accept his true self is a positive development. It leads you to accept your flaws and develop a love for yourself. When we set standards for a perfect human being, we become less likely to achieve them. To err is human; to forgive is divine. Humans are not bots, so they are imperfect. Imperfections are the identifiers that make us distinguished from the bots. Developing empathy and compassion for oneself leads you to be empathetic towards others. If you are treating yourself right, you are gonna treat people surrounding you with kindness and sympathy. 

Why is it Important to Focus on Yourself?

Focusing on oneself makes you realise your self-worth. It increases your self-confidence ad boosts your self-morale. You start to become the ultimate beast. You start realising what you deserve. You set boundaries and standards. Self-confidence does not allow you to settle for less.  

Every human has four endowments – self-awareness, conscience, independent will and creative imagination. These give us the ultimate human freedom… The power to choose, to respond, to change.

Stephen Covey

So, have you ever pondered about what you want in your life? Have you ever realised what kind of lifestyle you are living? Are you living according to people or yourself? This is a dire need of today’s era to realise this fact that what we want with our lives.

Make Sure You are Seeking What You Want

There are times in our lives when we acquire opinions from our elders or friends.  You can just take their guidance to guide you through the way. But it does not mean that you get swayed away from your desired destination. When listening to others, we somehow manage to get ourselves trapped in their words. We start doing what they recommend us to do unintentionally. However, asking for opinions and doing the whole thing according to them are two different perspectives.  Make sure to stick to your desires.

Let People Feel How They Feel

If people close to you are upset about your self-focus attitude, then let them be alone for a while. Let them process their emotions. We cannot make everyone happy now. We have to establish ourselves. They will feel strange for a while, but when they will get to know about your boundaries; they will eventually get used to it.

Be Kind to Yourself

Give yourself enough room to grow. Reserve time for yourself and carry out your hobbies in that time. There will be times when you gonna have some negative thoughts about yourself. Never let them move you away from your destination. Be kind to yourself and use your spare time for your self-care.

Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.

Lao Tzu

Start saying ‘no’

To please people, we cannot make ourselves deny them. For instance, if someone invited us to a party and he didn’t feel like going, then he probably should have enough courage to refuse them. But that is not how it goes. We think more about people than think about ourselves. We are worried about what they think about us. In all this amusement, we have forgotten ourselves and are living a life of what others want us to be. Most of us are reflections of what people want us to be.

Concluding this whole discussion, focusing on your self-care and self-love plays an integral role in your development. That’s all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Stay tuned for more interesting videos.

Achieving Success through Habits and Mindset: The Power of Habits I The Consultant Mindset I Mindset I Motivation I Success Mindset

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Hey guys welcome back to the consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. You all must be striving for some goals in your life. Everyone is working in their zones to get to the zenith. But are they heading towards that point? Is there anything unnecessary stopping you to achieve your goals? If yes, let me know in the comment section.  Sometimes things happen, and we fail to get what we want to achieve. Regardless of our hard work and untiring effort we somehow don’t manage to get our goals. The most common and typical problem these days is show-off. People like to flaunt their success and achievements. however, this show-off does not help them achieve their goals. Before we get further. If you have not subscribed to our channel yet, then click the subscribe button and press the bell icon so you never miss any notifications from our channel.

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According to some scientific research, announcing your goals publicly releases a neurotransmitter dopamine that is responsible for the feeling of satisfaction in your body. When you tell your goals to anyone,the chances of achieving them start to lower eventually.  It is highly recommended to stay silent unless you achieve your goals. Announcing your goals publicly means you are adding more pressure on yourself. You are inviting unnecessary distractions to deviate you from the main destination.  As a result of all talk, people think that you are being a hypocrite who just talks and can never do anything in life.

Everything that’s created comes out of silence. Your thoughts emerge from the nothingness of silence. Your words come out of this void. Your very essence emerged from emptiness. All creativity requires some stillness.

Wayne Dyer

This post is all about working in silence. Never tell anyone about your next move.  What do we mean by working in silence?

Like is too short to worry about what others think about you. You are too busy to prove to anyone what you are capable of. Each of us is an equally capable human, and we don’t need anyone’s validation. The lesser you brag about your destination, the more likely you are going to get it.  Let your hard work be loud enough to make noise of your success. Telling everyone your goals beforehand makes you even more nervous and anxious to achieve them.  Constantly feeling the pressure and anxiety of not letting them down eventually lowers your work capacity. An individual’s efficiency is eventually lowered when he is constantly under pressure. When you think of people’s expectations, you start to put more effort under humongous stress. Any decision made under pressure yields no result even though you are putting in a great effort. Many people allow the public to invade their lives. They allow them to do whatever they want with their lives. Such people start living their lives according to other people’s opinions.  The marketing of success snatches the core competency of an individual. 

 “Silence at the proper season is wisdom, and better than any speech.” – Plutarch

There are some silent productivity tips which you can apply to continue work in silence. Are you aware of those tips? If yes, let me know.

Set Clear Goals

Clarity of thoughts is an important step. Are you aware of yourself? Have you ever tried to find your true self? A self-aware individual never fails to achieve anything. He gets what he desires. Almost all of us are aware of our capabilities. We know our potential and capacities. When you are going on a journey, choose a destination first.  A person without goals is just like a person wandering in a dark blind tunnel.  Organize your tangled thoughts and become self-aware of what you want in your life. 

Visualise Success

Visualising success means the power of imagination of the human mind. Imagine yourself achieving that peculiar goal. But not revealing it to anyone else is a must condition.  Just imagine yourself getting those achievements and feeling the breeze of that splendid euphoria. This way it will burn the lighter of hard work in your heart. And you will continue to push harder to enjoy that moment of euphoria. Visualising success is better than telling others. In this world, not all people are happy for us. Some jealousy factors are present in people that do not let them see anyone else ahead of them. That is one of the major reasons we should not tell anyone about our future goals.

Practice Self-Discipline

To avoid distractions, try to remain disciplined. Practice discipline even when no one is watching you. Self-discipline is necessary for one’s personal growth. Regulating your actions and performing them on time is essential to maintain the zone of your personal growth. A self-disciplined mind goes for a step-wise procedure and performs tasks.

I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self.

Aristotle

Practice Mindfulness and Reward Yourself

Mindfulness meditation helps you get over anxiety, overthinking, stress, depression and many more mental illnesses. It is advised to keep up with meditation. It seems quite easy, but has major impacts on the human mind. After completion of the task, don’t forget to reward yourself. Since you are working in your zone. You cannot expect rewards from others. Try to keep yourself motivated by rewarding yourself with little sweets at the end of the completion of every ask.

Concluding the whole discussion, it is essential to keep your goals private. Let your success throw the enchanting melody of your untiring hard work.

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Deadline is reaching I have 6 weeks and Good Omens are here

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Ah, I have 6 weeks, but 3 days have already passed. I start searching for jobs and apply to different places. Try to connect different people.

Today, on a hot summer day in Riyadh, I was walking in line under trees with little shadow. I was feeling a little depressed, thinking about what would happen after September 5. My company will find another job for me because my contract will end. If I get a job without their help, will they cooperate with me or not?

What will happen? Possible stress was on my face. The temperature was more than 50 degrees Celsius. While walking on the footpath, Mercedes stopped. I was surprised. An Arab in Modern dress in his mid-30s gave me a chilled water bottle. The moment I saw and touched the bottle, a smile and happiness came to my face. He enjoyed my expressions, and I thanked him, and his car moved away. I was thinking that this is God’s omen for me, that if I trust in God, things will be better. Or It is just a normal incident.

How this idea came into my mind In Dubai, I have one Hindu friend who has a lot of knowledge. Another question is about his knowledge of right and wrong. He told me, God is in everyone, and when you were in trouble And called him, he replied to you indirectly. I don’t believe in this ideology.

I just know that good people are everywhere, which is why he gave me a chilled water bottle. Because Allah added it to his heart to distribute water. The idea came to him from Allah. So everything is from Allah.

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Hey guys welcome to consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. Give me a thumbs up in the comments section if you have ever faced anxiety, stress, depression or overthinking. These mentioned mental disorders are pretty common these days. Due to certain causes, many people have been suffering from such illnesses. One of the main causes is a sluggish lifestyle. How can we prevent such maladies? well, there are many ways by which you can avoid such conditions.  By engaging in activities like exercise, reading, and games, we can easily prevent such conditions by tricking our brains into these activities. The brain is the commander of the body. It guides our body to do the necessary functions. The brain has a pituitary gland that sends signals to the body to release multiple hormones. Due to the secretion of those hormones, we feel accordingly. If stress hormone is released our body initiates the flight or fright response. Similarly, the happy state is due to the secretion of happy hormones in the body. That’s how our brain controls our body.

 

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When we mention the mind, it is something abstract. Abstract can’t be touched. The brain is concrete and it is like a hard copy whereas the mind is referred to as a soft copy. People who suffer from mental illnesses may have already trained their minds to the extent in which they don’t feel pressure anymore. You can train your mind to get over these ailments. 

What is Mind Control?

Mind control is a rewiring of the brain done by the individual himself. A trained mind is more powerful and strengthened as compared to a regular mind. A trained mind encapsulates organized thoughts and is free of overthinking. 

I feel as though, if you’re able to control your dreams, you have more power and control over your mind, like you could reach more areas of your mind. Therefore, I feel like it creates the ability for you to achieve more things in reality.

Juice Wrld

How can we control our minds? Controlling your mind means managing your thoughts and organising them accordingly. How do we achieve those convenient ways to control our minds? A powerful and controllable mind yields powerful ideas. Likewise, a weak mind yields debilitated thoughts. We have some ways by which you can easily control your mind.

Mindfulness Meditation

A study has been proven to indicate that mediation plays a major role in relieving mental chaos. We can get rid of chaotic and destructive thoughts by practising meditation. It seems pretty simple but has long-lasting impacts.

Meditation makes the entire nervous system go into a field of coherence.

Deepak Chopra

Meditation helps you to make your mind clear. Meditation helps you organise your tangled thoughts. It helps you achieve that calmness, peace and serenity that is useful for your mental and emotional being. Mediation helps you remain centred and focused on your target. This way you become less susceptible to encountering any stress and depressed situations. That’s how meditation can help you get through the tough times. 

Gratitude

 Studies have proved that expressing gratitude can be beneficial in relieving stress and anxiety. Expressing gratitude is more effective than medications. It releases a sense of satisfaction and tricks your brain into a healthier situation. It decreases stress, anxiety and helps you get over insomnia as well. Most of the time the cascade of thoughts at night doesn’t let us fall asleep.  As a human we long for more and more. Instead of being happy in what we have we long for more. Such constantly provoking thoughts never let us be in peace. When you start to express gratitude towards things, you feel serenity. Even a thousand dollars cannot buy this feeling. Are you thankful for what you have?

Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.

Brian Tracy

Goal Setting

Why do we set goals? Whenever we are aiming to construct a building, we require a map. A proper map guides us through the whole journey of construction. Similarly, a guide is required to achieve the goals. We set goals to clear our pathways. When we have set those peculiar goals, we will strive for them. It gives your thoughts a trajectory which helps you fuel your way to success. Goal setting is important because the constant thoughts of aiming to achieve something in life replenishes your soul and leaves behind a sense of serenity and calmness.

Avoid Negative Energies

Avoiding negative energies is essential in controlling your mind. Your surrounding has a great impact on your personality. Negative energy eventually disrupts the calmness and serenity of your personality. It makes you feel agitated. Negative energies are responsible for many adverse symptoms. Like it lowers your self-esteem and self-confidence. How do we avoid such surroundings? Beware of people around you. If people in your surrounding are making you feel conscious about yourself, you should part ways with them. It is better to leave than to be with them. The space where you feel left out and anxious due to certain people shall be evaded.

Positive Self-Talk

Do you talk to yourself?  It may sound weird to some people, but it is true to some extent. Positive self-talk develops a positive attitude that boosts your morale and makes you a better person.

A trained mind has many benefits including good sleep, a peaceful life, a good sense of humour, and purposeful thoughts making you into a better person. That’s all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Stay tuned for more interesting blog

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A MAN WITHOUT A SMILING FACE MUST NOT OPEN SHOP

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I was listening a podcast, there speaker talks about 10 10 10, 3 10 are people observer in you and last 10 are words. It talks about this quote that is in China, they said, if you cannot smile, you should not open a shop.

It means, The smile is the first thing every one note.

My father once told me that what he observed in other person is the smile.

We all are business man, Some business men are selling their products or open a shop. Others are selling their services. Consultants are coming in second category. We are selling our services.

Services to our company, Colleagues, and to clients.

And best way to sell our services is to smile. Because before selling our services, we ourself to others.

The only way to smile at workplace is live in present moment.

We all have pains, traumas and failures in life. We all have regrets,

We cannot finish all these things. Only way is to accept them. Accept them, so they no more hurt us.

Sometimes, we start to oppose and as result, these pains and suffering hurt us more.

The solution to all these problems, are acceptance. Let them come and go. Then we have to able to face the challenges we have in present moment.

I have to smile. Smile because I am capable to face every challenge that comes across.

Conclusion is smile is first thing, people watch at your face.

For smile, you have to live in present moment. Just focus on now.

Make peace with your past and live in present moment.

Relations with others are result of relation with self

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One of the biggest challenge, I am facing now is building relationship with others.

I realize that the relationship with others are result of your relationship with yourself.

Whatever is inside, reflect outside.

Now question is how can I make good relationship with myself.

Answer is to understand yourself. Accept your past, hope for future and overcome your fear. It is a starting point for me. For this I start to give answer to following points.

Who am I.

What are my achievements.

What are my failures.

What are my strengths.

What are my weakness.

What motivates me.

What discourage me.

More importantly why I did things in a way. What was my motivation. What was my intension.

I have to understand my weakness and failures. So they will not become hurdle in my success.

Sometimes, the idea of failure stops us to move ahead. I failed that time, this will repeat again. I will fail again. To control this, we  have to accept our failures. Remember, whatever we resist, persist.

So control on it.

Understand weakness, is important, so we work on it. I know, start working on it.

For example, I used to delay things, but when dead line reach near, my start to panic. And as result nothing happen. I start working from day first. So panic situation never happen. I start to control that I have enough time. I have start working on day one. In this way, I overcome the weakness.

My greater weakness is communicate. I understand, what I spoke. I start spoke about my work. I found that I am unable to bear the criticism. So I check my sensitivity. And start understand, it is just other person opinion. Take it or not take it. Just listen. And ignore.

I found that my documentation is not good, due to grammatical mistakes. My sentences are similar to speaking. Not professional writing. So after writing, I start using Quillbot, Grammerly or Notion Ai.

You have to understand, What motivates you. For example, fear of failing. Motivates me. Ability to learn new things, motivates me.

You also notice, what demotivate you. Reason for that, when that situation happens, you can handle the situation. You can take proactive action.

My friends, whatever the failure happens, you have to accept that. Let it go for all past actions.

Start a better relation with yourself. And slowly it will come out and reflect in your relationship.

Give them what they want, not what is require

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It is said, that in ancient China, one rich man wanted to get a mouse statue  for decoration. He held a competition, where he send request to all statute makers to participate in competition. When statue makers visited him. He told them his requirements, and held a prize who statue is so beautiful that his cat also confuse and snatch it.

On the competition day, all statute workers visited him, with his work. One young person comes with statue that is not so beautiful. When all statute placed in hall, all statue made fun of him.

But when rich man, visited the hall, he also not like his master piece.  But young man, asked him that in invitation there is requirement, that his cat will confuse with mouse is original or not.

So as per rules, cat have to decided that competition. Rich man laughed at him, and told them it is symbolic. Not actual. For just joke, he brought his cat in hall. When cat saw these mouse, instead to second look on all other mouses, she took the mouse of young person and run away.

Young person laughed and demand his prize. Because his fish was so beautiful that rich man’s cat confused and take it like a real mouse. Actually he made that mouse with fish meat.

Rich man surprised and gave him the prize.

Our life is such a way. Usually as consultant. We know what is best for client. But we have to give them what they want. Yesterday, I made a document, and they did not understand what is major meaning. They just search the exact word, they gave. So objective meanings were lost. Later I start to understand them, how they work. And produce the work as wishes for them.