Overcome Procrastination when task is tough

Hello and welcome to this video. In last video I shared you about why and what are possible reason for Procrastination.

https://youtu.be/9298vW-OwkM

Procrastination is habit it is not personality trait.

With efforts we can make or break habit.

In this video I am sharing about how I overcome my habit of procrastination when task is tough.

And what strategies we can use to over come delay in tough task.

Disadvantages

Suppose you are working in organization. Boss comes and asked you to do a task which you hate. Or you think it is tough. He did not gives you proper dead line but definitely he has. He already knows you already have a lot of tasks.

When you start task you feel it is bored and tough. You started to delay it.

Your mind starts to give you various reasons. like I have still time. its little tough. I will do tomorrow or I will complete it, over the week end. But when you start working on week end. There is family problems started to appear. Deadline reach it creates pressure on you and result in stress and anxiety. Boss called and when he knows you still need more time. He thinks you are not capable of doing this task. Or you are doing miss communication and as result his trust lost.

Certainly this will result in delay in promotion or salary increase.

When we delay, Things will be pill up. it creates stress and anxiety. Missing dead lines will effect our performance.

here are some tips which I used to implement in my life to over come the habit of Procrastination.

Solution.

Monitor self talk. You know in our life the person we most of time we talk. Yes we talk with ourselves. monitor it. you will similar voice pattern starts to appear in mind “task is a boring”. I will do it tomorrow. More important task are still pending. We can do these task first.

Replace your inner talk with some positive words. I can do that. Currently this is the only important task I need to complete. This task is on high priority. I can do that.

Remind yourself that in past you already completed many tough tasks. This task is nothing as compare to these. This positive self talk help you to start working and slowly slowly tempo will created and you will able to finish the task.

Focus on value. Most of time, When we feel task is tough. Focus on its value. When we are doing some something. We are also producing something else during this process. That is value it give to you. For example couple of months back. A task is assign to me a lot of work in excel. I force fully completed that task. As result I learned Microsoft excel and a lot excel formula. Couple of years back. A task assignment is given to me about documentation. I hate documentation at that time. But when I completed that task My document skill enhanced and I am able to write blog post.

Every task has some hidden learning. That is the value it teaches us. Consider every task has given you something. Focus on that.

Focus with 10 minute rule.

I love 10 minute rule. It tricks our mind to stay focus. When task is tough and mind reminds to do something else. Just think I have to work only for ten minute. the I get rid of this task We force ourselves to focus just for 10 minutes and then I will kick out this task. will do something else. But after 10 minutes completed, just focus only for 10 minutes more. Most of the time starting of any task is tough and over come that resistance. we come in flow.

At that moment, if you still facing of task is tough or boring, Just remind your self, why you start the task. Why you left task in middle of something or half cook.

If still this problem happens. Remind yourself, why you started task. There is no way left task in middle or half cook.

Hello friends, you can understand how to deal with procrastination when task is tough and boring. Procrastination is habit not personality flaw. We have to monitor our self talk and replace the negative talk with positive talk one. We can focus on value or learning we get while completing these tasks. And we can trick our mind that we can do it just for 10 minutes and repeat this 10 minute cycle until task reaches finish point.

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Ik Alif parho chutkara hayee. Focus on one task

I read the book from Qasir abbas. Main Ishaq or Woh.

After that my understanding of sufi peotry is started to change. Why these sufi couplet from 100 or years.

Something inside it. people love it. These couplet have some deep meaning. We translate or try to understand it according to our perception about life. Some thoughts they talk about god. Some times they talk about some lost love.

While travelling to office, I am not using mobile. Most of people I saw using whats app or wathcing movies on youtube or ticktock. That 30 minutes I started to observe my environment. Start to living in present moment. And the same time, My mind start to think. who am I. What I am doing. How I can improve my work. How things will be better in my life.

Couplet of baba bulleh shah came to my mind.

Ik Alif parho chutkara hayee.

Muslim consider Alif is for Allah. The first alphabet of Urdu, hindi, farsi. But some sufi saints talk Alif for Ishaq. they did not start Ishaq with Eyen Alphbat. They started Ishaq with Ialif. In arabic. Alif is used for First alphabet. But some they used Alif for infinite or million.

I am not going to discuss this as word used for Allah or not go into religious discussion.

I am considering it one task at time. When you doing something just focus one task at hand. If you did not have focus on one task. Possible you lost. In million task. Every task become distraction for other.

So Baba Bulleh shah, talks about one thought at time. Focus one idea at time. Focus on one thing at time.

Ik Alif pharo chuttkara hayee.

Means, if you want to achieve something or true liberation from stress. Pick one task and complete it. Forget about all other task.

One by one you finish all task. But the Idea of one is amazing.

Everything starts form one. It means, if you deliver something successfully, more work starts to appear.

Maktab ishaq a dastoor nirala dakah,

Usye chuti naa mili jis naye sabaq yaad kaya.

Interesting. What I learn from professional career. That When you do and complete some task with full concentration and able to close it or finish it. More work start to appear.

Ik Alif Pharo Chukkraa hayee.

Take the name of One. You will be liberated.

You can also found this on apna org.

https://apnaorg.com/poetry/bullah/8.htm

Ik alif parho chutkara he

Ik alifon do tan char hoyePhir lakh karor hazar hoyePhir othon bajh shumaar hoyeHik alif da nukta niara he

Ik alif parho chutkara he

Kiun parhnain gadd kitabaan diSir chana en pind azabaan diKiun hoyian shakal jladaan diAgge pinda mushkal bhara he

Ik alif parho chutkara he

Hun hafiz hifz quran karainParh parh ke saaf zubaan karainPer nemat wich dhian karainMann phirda jion halkara he

Ik alif parho chutkara he

Bullah bhi borh da hoya siOh burjh wada ja hoya siJad barch oh fani hoya siPhir reh gia bi akara he

The wound is the place where the Light enters you

“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” Rumi

During coming to office, while travelling through RTA bus. I got whats app message of my one of dear’s friend. Possible one of last University friend I am still connected with. We both suffering a lot. Because we both dont have proper goals and not prepared to face the challenges of life during University days. We face a lot of extra care and protection and unnecessary pressure to do that and not do that. Unfortunately this extra pressure all are just to achieve their own goals and wants or adjustment of us according to what they want or achieve in life.

He was complaining about his parents wrong parenting. They suppressed us. So we are not able to reality of life. And when we start to face it. It is too late. Some extent he is right. Some time I feel the same. I used to blame my parents.

The difference between me and him. that I learned one lesson. The moment I realized that I am responsible what happen to me.

I start taking charge of my life and start from the same moment for improvement. I started to focus on what I can control. Do what ever task I got. I worked harder what task assign to me. I tried to kill my ego. Defiantly many skills I can not create in myself. But the skills I have I started to use them. I have to sacrifice a lot. Burn a lot of night hours to learn new things. Spent hours to make me master of some technology. Started to write blog post so I will prominent in my field.

Those wounds never be healed. I used these wounds to motivate me.

Regarding Rumi couplet. I told my friend. All suffering and pains you face. You are responsible for that. Directly or indirectly. These wounds are places or holes from light enters you. Means. Make them your inspiration. Burning desires. to never loose again. Never repeat the same mistake. Be clever. Work on your weakness. If possible built on your strength on it. And if this weakness is not replaceable. Try to avoid incompetency areas.

These wounds are indicating something. light coming from it. They identify something. Something to improve. Something to learn.

Something to ignore. Something to forgive.

Never be facing the same situation again not for you even not for your children. Learn from it.

What we think we attract

I was listening a story, They guy talks about once he was speaking ill for himself. And couple of months back same thing happens to him. Do we really attract what we think or say about ourself.

If you watched the move “Secret” there they talk about Law of attraction. The idea is simple, what you want you have to think about it. It means, what happens in our life mostly reflection of our thoughts. Either we think positive or negative. We think about it, and that happens.

For example, You are sitting in cafeteria . And you saw a girl coming looking very beautiful You attracted towards her, Now in your mind it comes negative thought, she will refuse me. And as result on your face there will negative expression appears. And she looked at you and negative feelings she face and she rejects you as result. If you mind think, I am smart energetic , And I can do that, Your face look happy, as result she response you in positive way, She will return you with happy face. If she is not interested, she will reply in positive way.

“Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.”

We have to think about things we want in life. If we think about prosperity, defiantly we motivate and do extra work, side job, online business to earn extra. If we think about poverty, we will go more poor. We will demotivate when extra work we need to do. We avoid late night to write, read or work. Because life is bad, there is no benefit. Because we attract poverty.

Neoplien hill said in his book. “Whatever Your Mind Can Conceive and Believe, It Can Achieve.”

Everything constructed two times, once person mind then in real.

But the idea of illness comes in your mind and you will become ill is not possible.

But thats is true. What we think we find. If things are not in our way, then we will get something positive in it.

I heard some islamic Quote from saint “ Allah kaye fasaily Guoman per hoteye haan” Means Gods decisions are based on your thinking about matter.

Suppose you have to deal with the situation, unexpected situation. Now how you behave, is based on your thinking. If you have positive thinking, you get positive results, If you have negative thinking you will get negative results. That reason they said you attract these result.

Most of the time, our thoughts are negative. Our self talk is negative. We have to forcefully think positive. Dont resist your thoughts, just start thinking positive. With the passage of time our outlook about life become positive.

Why I comparing myself with others.

Life is really tough. Specially when we live in foreign countries. We are warriors against our poverty. We fighting our poverty.

But others people achievement makes us down. their big home, cars, luxuries life style makes us breaks. But question is

Why we compare ourselves. with others. They are different from us. Their scenario is different. Their thoughts are different. We don’t know what challenges they faced. How much sacrifice they did to reach that position. We don’t know their journey.

We have to look our journey. Where we are headed. What achievement we have. We have to celebrate ours.

Our biggest competition is with ourselves. What we were yesterday.

You must be better person then whom you see in mirror every day.

I was listening Sadh guru. He suggest to take life as it is. “ As he hayee” no need to think about things which are beyond our control.

If some one has more success then you. Certainly he put more effort then you. He started his journey much before you.

Always look inside. Definitely you have some better things then them.

Always be thankful to what you have. Always great full. what you have. Stop impressing by some one. Possible these things are temporary. Try to ignore thing.

Apny Man  Mein Doob Kar  Pa Ja Suraag e Zindagi

Tu Agar Mera Nahin Banta Na Ban, Par Apna To Ban

Look inside you have everything to start, or make progress. Believe on that and start.