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You are enough just the way you are. Some of you might be asking yourselves what does it even mean? So let’s just make it clear that considering yourself enough and loving yourself is all that matters. Dressing elegantly, and buying cars, expensive phones, high-priced bags, and shoes won’t make you feel worthy enough. The only attitude that matters is to wear confidence, courage, and self-esteem. These ornaments of moral values are the most gorgeous dresses one can wear. You don’t have to buy expensive stuff to make yourself worthy in the eyes of others. The only thing that matters is you. Now the point is how much you love yourself? Loving yourself doesn’t mean having materialistic things like cars, money, and phones. It is all about how you treat yourself. 

It is a matter of knowing your value. You don’t have to be around people to realize your value. Your mindset should be “my love for me is independent of love for others”. One should keep in mind that I believe in myself. And I know my worth. The thing is to trust the process. If you are giving up on the 5th or 30th try then it means you don’t want it badly. If you really want something then you are not moved by how long it takes. You won’t be discouraged by what people say. When you desire something and really want to get it you don’t settle for mediocre things. you keep moving forward.

The essential step is to make your head clear. What do you really want? Ask your heart about your desires. It is necessary to clear the clutter in your head. The body has limitations but the mind doesn’t have them. Until now only visions have been able to change the world. It is quite evident that revolution starts from your mind. You cannot push your body through its limits but you can push your mind. Never let your fears overcome your struggles. Overcoming your fears is the first step towards achieving your target. It is always hard and tedious. But you gotta do it. Since pathways to success are always under construction. Success requires some attitude. And the attitude required for success is relentless. If you stumble and fall there is always a chance for you to get up again. There is always room for you to improve yourself. It’s never too late to get up again and start pursuing forward. Any challenge or difficulty you’re facing in life has only one solution: get up and start walking. Being stagnant in one place and doing nothing like a lazy ass does no good.

You always search for people like you in society. There is a story behind this background. Once there was a girl who used to feel low about herself. She always used to say that I am ugly, weak, and feeble. There was a person who used to lift her up by saying you are beautiful and you are strong. That girl hugged him and said treat yourself like you treat your loved ones. That day he realized the only person he wants in his life is himself. The conclusion of this story is that the only way we can love others is by loving ourselves. How are we supposed to love our close ones when we don’t love ourselves? Loving yourself means that you don’t need any company or any expensive stuff to define you. Your confidence, self-esteem, spirituality, and morality are enough to define you. 

We search for people and companies to make us happy. We go to parties, clubs, and birthdays to make ourselves feel loved. Although it is just an excuse to make yourself feel better. And it is temporary as well. You don’t need anyone to make you happy or loved. The movies and the expensive brands make us feel that we are not worthy enough. However, we are more than that and we don’t need their help to make us realize our values. By following this mindset you become brighter and brighter and your pathway becomes enlightened as well. You start to feel good about yourself. Every day just look in the mirror and say “I am who I have been looking for”

How To be Exceptional at Something I Expectational Life I Consultant Mindset I Extra Ordinary

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Welcome back, everyone. Every workspace has its boundaries and standards for performing a task. A positive attitude towards work is important in establishing a firm or company. Regardless of these attitudes we often feel lazy and tired of our work. We frequently procrastinate because of a lack of motivation. We always find ourselves always tangled in the web of delayed work. Why are we procrastinating more often? It’s because now we have many distractions that can make us delay our work. For instance, constant use of social media is the hotspot of delayed work. Social media is an addiction that makes you rely on it. Are you also tired of your attitude towards work? Let’s just find some ways to carry out work at an exceptional rate. We will focus on the quality and quantity of work.

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The three ways by which you can create better quality work are 

Weekly flood

It is essential to schedule your week so that you can divide your workload. But it is quite impossible. Since we don’t have the same energy levels during all days of the week. Perseverance is defined as continued effort. According to Walter Elliot, perseverance is not a long race; it is many short races one after another. It is necessary to reach a persevering mindset. It helps you fight your bad habits. A persevering mindset always thinks about getting things done no matter what. They don’t think about quitting. The only thought they have in their mind is that I have to achieve it with continued effort and work. How can you establish a weekly flood? Some people have beaming energies during the first half of the week and some have higher levels of energy during the second half of the week. You can select the day of your choice. And can work your ass off on that day. Choose one day out of every week and perform all the pending work on that day. Just get yourself through those tasks as well which you consider scary. Dive deep into your projects. Accomplish all the tasks that you have been thinking of doing. Nowadays our attention span has reduced drastically which can make us lose motivation at any instant. This weekly flood technique helps you remain persistent and motivated. After surviving each flood you will be motivated and proud. You will start excelling more academically.

plus-one routine

For doing any task efficiency is as equally important as its rate. The fifty correctly manufactured toys are better than two hundred faulty toys. Quality is going to provide you with some business which quantity cannot. Rushing the work should not be followed because rushing always causes damage. For example, you have to prepare a presentation for your product. The addition of extra things or something interesting at the end will always catch the attention of the audience. It will make them attentive toward your presentation. We have to adopt ways to bring modifications into our work. Extra effort is always appreciated and acknowledged. 5% extra effort makes a 100% difference. Always try to go that extra mile. It’s never crowded. Plus one routine is demonstrated by the example of a runner. If you are running in a race and you are about to get to the finish line. At this point, you realize that you still have energy left in your cells that can make you go beyond that finish line. Although you are already exhausted while running but closer to the finish line you feel like going beyond it as well. That’s the point where you can do better than others. The extra miles beyond the finish line are gonnaThe  make the difference. Adding up things to your schedule from the beginning lowers your motivation. It is better to acknowledge the plus one routine because the sense of accomplishment will boost your energy and make it easier for you to fulfill other tasks. After practicing this technique for several days it will eventually become your habit and you will start to become more productive and efficient.

Creation and critique 

Self-critique is necessary for every area of life. It is the judge that helps you distinguish between good and bad things. Self-analysis is quite necessary that helps you identify your flaws. A disease can never be treated until it’s diagnosed. So it is essential to always keep up the self-critique. We should keep the balance between creation and critique. If you’ve come exhausted from your work and now you are writing some points for your presentation. You have the ideas but it’s not working out. It is just because you are creating and critiquing simultaneously. You have to first get rid of your thoughts and ideas on the piece of paper. Pin down everything no matter how messy it gets. The goal is to clear your head. Afterward, start the process of critiquing. In this way, you will be more productive and high yielding. In these ways, you can excel exceptionally. Thanks for watching.

Over Thinking kills your Happiness I Stop Over Thinking I Negative Thinking I Consultant Mindset

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In this modern era about every third person is suffering from anxiety and stress. And anxiety is the root cause of overthinking. We tend to ruminate about many things in our life. Some are negative thoughts and some are just worrisome thoughts. We can even redirect our thoughts to become useful for us. I will tell you some ways to reduce the habit of overthinking. Let’s start!

Become aware of your thoughts 

Start by becoming aware of your thoughts. What is going on inside our heads? What are these thoughts all about? It is important to realise what are the things that are triggering overthinking in your mind. Is the workspace triggering it? Or is it the social space provoking it? try to predict the situation so that you can manage it. Self-improvement starts with self-acceptance. it is easier to identify your flaws but accepting them is a big hell of a task. A doctor can not prescribe medicine until he diagnoses the disease likewise the flaws cannot be overcome until they are accepted. Don’t let your thoughts become restricted to your mind only. Let them out and write them in a journaling book. Keeping a journal book is an effective way to let things out. Whenever you write those random things out on paper you become more aware of your limitations. 

Daily activities

As the proverb goes, an empty mind is a devil’s house. We tend to overthink more when we have nothing to occupy the space of our brain. Whenever we have something on our mind to keep us going we are less likely to ruminate. It is highly suggested to keep ourselves busy with daily tasks. Like when going out for a walk keep yourself focused on the surroundings instead of thinking in your bubble. The key is you have to control the mind and don’t let the mind control you. While walking in the park, become observant and try to notice everything around you instead of becoming a prisoner to thoughts. Engage your mind so that it won’t be able to overthink. It is highly recommended to try novel things more often. We want our minds to be attentive. Trying out new things will force them to participate in the activities. For example, you can learn to drive a car, and you can also engage yourself in some ted talks or social gatherings, etc.

Scheduled worry 

It is the best way to handle your brain. We can just tell our brain that we remember the worry and we know we have to handle it. Just delay the worry by writing it down in a journal and say I will worry about it at 2 pm or I will do it at night. In this way, your brain will become relaxed and will stop nagging you all the time for the particular task. Your brain likes boundaries and it is advised to keep it engaged.

Meditation 

The ultimate way to control your mind is to meditate. Meditation is the only way by which you can tame your thoughts. Mediation has many benefits and it is one of them. Since meditation helps you achieve a relaxed, calmer, and serene mind, that is why it assists you in controlling your crazy chimp mind as well.

Concrete thoughts 

Concrete things are all about the things that are practically achievable. Write down those things only that you think are practically achievable. For instance, complaining about why I can’t be happy like my friends. Instead of these gloomy thoughts try reminiscing about what I can do today to make myself happy. Look for more concrete things. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Thanks for reading!

Happy new Year.

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happy new year. Today is first day of working day. Best wishes of new year. New year, brings hope and challenges. Lets sing songs of hope. Hope every thing will be fine, If we took right step.

Hope, 2023 is good for economy. For better future we have to work on us. We have to set goals and achieve them. We have understand what are our strength and weakness. Work on weakness and sharp your strength.

There are many ways to do that. One is Goal Setting. We have to set smart goals. Smart means, Specific, what you exactly want, Measure, It will be measurable, It is achievable, relevant and time bound. There must be deadline.

Second way is System. We define process. there is no specific goal. There is goal. No big goals. You make habit. Force yourself to built habit. For example in goals you focus to reach in 6 months. Failure and success is part of game. But in Process is no specific dead line. You just built a discipline. make a habit and result will come when you do what is required to do.

The third way is OKRS. That works more in professional environment. Here we have to define what is require as objective and then define some sub goals as key result. Key results are points we require to achieve our objective.

One thing sure what ever you use, we have to put efforts to achieve goals. we have to took small step and force us to over come resistance.

It is up to you, you make smart goals. Built habit or system that will automatically trigger as your second nature.

Or you have to set Okrs. Best book to understand more OKRS read what matter https://www.amazon.com/Measure-What-Matters-Google-Foundation/dp/0525536221

or visit Jhone Dorr website https://www.whatmatters.com/

Stress is good or bad.

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Stress is good or bad, what you think. I think both. There is common saying. Excess of everything is bad. So overdose create problem.

Why Stress is good. Stress means caring. You are taking care of something. That will happen or require to happen. You put efforts and now result will come. or you take stress that I have to do something with care. If I am unable to do things what will happen. If I deliver something, It will properly deliver it.

But same time it will become bad if it is become habit. We start to busy as habit. For example overstress boiled our blood, problem of high blood pressure and heart attack. All these things result of taking stress.

Best way to take only tension of those things which we can control or which we can not control.

What other thinks about us, that is beyond our control. Why we stress.

but what we can improve, that need stress. Things we do with care, that need stress.

If we want to control stress. We need to focus on what we are thinking. Thought trigger stress. We can not control thought but we forcefully.

Find your spark.

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Every one has some hidden skill or hidden talent. You have to unlock that. I read somewhere In the US, people find their inner talent and then monetize these skills.

But some times we are so negative. Due to our inner self or due to what other talk or think about us. Some times our environment is so toxic they did not let you grow. They force their though pattern on you.

In famous 4 agreements book Author Miguel Ruiz. said that we have to cure these words. who are become part of our reality. Either domestication of our environment so we can work according to their wishes. Or our inner self talk did not stand us. Our fear system triggers thread form others people on our reaction and as result we start to say some stupid and negative words to us. We can not do that.

Now question is how we find our spark. That is simple. The thing we did not get bored. Find a think you did not get bored if you spent hours hours on it.

If you start to getting bored. It means you are not built for that task.

For example I love writing. I have to built habit to write daily something. I have to improve a lot. there are chances of spelling mistakes. Grammatical mistakes. But If I am going to improve. There are chances that I can start earning from it. I can monetized my blog. Or even I can provide services to different people to write content.

Nothing built in day. But in the longer run. More then 3 years, I start to earn money from it. You have to pay the price. You have to spent time. And a lot of wait.

Most important thing just start. Some one told me what if I start youtube channel 10 years ago. That was it was less crowded. My friend. Next best time is now. Just you need to start from some where.

How was your year, Mine was not bad

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One more year passed. All my goals goes in vain, Achieve nothing.

Do I am total failure or I have successes.

Yes, I have some successes. I survived the job.

Find a new job before finishing the old one.

I meet a lot of new friends.

I visited home.

But I am unable to reach my full potential.

I break many rules in life. My mismanagement leads me to debit.

I explore most of Dubai and Sharjah. I made a new friends, but same time, my loneliness increased a lot.

There is a lot of black and white. Do things black and white. Our thoughts make them black and white.

Do I change, what I did in 2022. No I can’t change. But what ever I wrote in 2022. I have to face it in 2023 and beyond.

But at the end of year, I can sit, analysis my mistakes and successes. Set a new goals and start working on in it 2023.

I read some where, Plan is nothing, but planning is everything.

I think, this year, give me confidence. Make me stress free. I enjoyed my alone life. But same time, I getting more distracted from my goals.

I tried my best that I did not do bad with any one. I tried not to hurt any one.

I feel this year is not bad.

Who am i.

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Issi talaash -o-tajassus mein Kho gaya  hun main , Agar nahi hun to kiyun’kar Jo hun to keya hun main

Who am i.

Most important and toughest journey is journey within. Who are you, What are you strength. What are your weakness.

What are your trigger points. From other they can control you. But there are more things. How I learn. How read.

Some people are reader. Some are listener. For getting good leader or manager you can also understand. Are you reader or Are you listener.

What are your values. Values lies what things you want in you. You qualities you want inside you. For this you have to do mirror check.

I listen one quwali. “Jaare lokakn nayee apny app nu jaan liaya, oh log juda hoo jandayee naayee”

Those who understand who are they, They are become different.

I read some where, what you do when you are alone, that is only your reality.

You have to accept your past mistakes, That helps you to peace. You have to embrace your flaws. That make you more beautiful. You have to accept yourself.

That is ultimate self love.

Be happy with being you. Love your flaws. Own your quirks. And know that you are just as perfect as anyone else, exactly as you are.

Ariana Grande

I was reading somewhere. In ancient time the words inscription at the temple of Oracle of Delphi “ Know yourself”.

I was sitting of my hindu friend, he talk about me all answer lie with in yourself. books, readings, knowledge generated layers on you. I was surpised that is same message what Baba bulleh shah told you. Then I feel. Possible what ever situation you have. What ever problem you face. You have to look inside you. What should you do.

I was listening Satu Guru, he told the same idea, Some one asked him Do he have knowledge of everything. He replied. he did not know everything. He just know himself. What ever question comes to him most of the time about life problems and situation. He put himself in that question and got all answers. What he should do and reply.

But here is another question. Would that answer 100 percent applicable to you. I am sure not. Because you are different form the rest of others. You have to know yourself. And remove all layers of knowledge and just seek answer with in yourself.

“Phar phar aalim fasal houon kaadif apnay aap nu parayha hee nahee”

Start talking just start talking

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Some times we want to talk. But no common point comes out. What to do at that time. First of thing is to just talk on random topic. Talk about in other persons interest.

Its good to avoid political and religious topic. You have to talk about food and restaurants.

Listen to them. At that time, most important point is talk on what other person think or plan. Ask question. Listen to them with focus and ask question what he or she talk about.

Try to encourage other to talk.