Hey guys welcome back to consultant mindset. We hope you guys are doing great. A human needs a person in life with whom he can share all his serious and comic thoughts relentlessly. Some people have such a person in the form of parents while some have it in the form of friends or siblings. A true friend is a gem which is a bounty for the beholder and only some have access to such gems. A true good friend holds a special importance in one’s heart. Do you guys have such quality friends in your life? If yes, then let us know in the comments section about their good traits. Good friends make your life meaningful and add more colours to your life. They are emotionally and mentally part of your life and never hesitate to help in your hour of need. They are always connected with you and they care for your mental well-being. Sometimes, making or finding a true best friend is tough because the majority of the people existing in this society are merely using people like toys. How do you know if your friends are true to you? There are certain qualities associated with true friends only which can help yu identify your true friends.
A true friend makes you feel understood
Understanding in a good relationship plays a vital role in determining the life of that relationship. Every relationship requires a certain level of understanding between individuals so that things can work out. Likewise understanding between two friends holds great importance. Not everyone can understand us like our parents do with whom we live for life. But developing an understanding with a stranger like a friend is an elite element of friendship. A true friend is one who always understands you and never fails to give up on you in any trial. According to psychologist, Dr Leon Seltzer being understood by someone has an impactful effect on your well-being. We only feel good around those people with whom we feel emotionally attached and understood. A good friend is the one who always understands your stance, and who always tries to see life through your lenses. They put themselves in your shoes and try to comprehend the situation. They are always here when you are at your lowest and always support you in your weak moments.
They are natural givers
A true friend is one who never fails to provide you with the necessary things in the hour of need. They are always there when you need them the most. They make sure you are living a standard life and there is no problem with it. They always try to solve your problems even when they are related to parental issues. They always offer you things and never demand anything in turn that’s what you call an unconditional bond. True friends are selfless and they always want the best for you.
They don’t talk behind your back
Do you guys gossip? It is a common practice these days and people do it more often at workplaces, colleges or sanatoriums. A loyal friend is the one who never talks behind your back and says whatever it is to your face. They never hear bad things about you and they always try to lift you behind your back. They may appear rude to your face but are your biggest supporter behind your back. They never say bad things about you and one who tries to spread rumours about you, they bring them down.
They dont judge you
People are most authentic around their true friends because they are aware of the fact that their friends won’t judge them. They present their true forms to friends because they know regardless of any situation their friends won’t judge them and can never be against them. A good friend accepts you in your true form and never fails to put you down in any condition.
A friend knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.
— William Shakespeare
A true friend doesn’t have childish expectations
A good friend expects realistic things from you instead of childish things like asking you for the stars or the universe. A true friend is one who expects things from you on a ground basis and does not expect unrealistic things. If your friend doesn’t expect unreal things from you then you are blessed to have such a gem of a person.
They take real pleasure in helping you
A fake friend is the one who always puts your matters behind their trivial tasks. They never take your matters seriously and always show little involvement in your matters. On the other hand, a true friend never perceives it as a burden to help you; they are always available for you, especially in your hard times. They always prioritise your matters and always see your benefit in the situation instead of their own benefit.
They can be genuinely happy for you
A true friend is always genuinely and truly happy for you; he never fails to celebrate your accomplishments. He is sad in your sadness and is happy in your cheerful moments. You will always see a genuinely happy friend cheering for you and always smiling at you.
Do all these traits exist in your friend? If yes, then you are extremely lucky to have them in your life.
Concluding the whole video, a genuinely true friend is difficult to have in life. If you have all the mentioned characteristics in your friends then you are blessed to have them. That’s all for today’s video. Stay tuned for amazing content.