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How to live a Meaningful life I Purposeful life I Consultant Mindset I Create a Meaningful life

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Hey, guys hope you are doing great. Welcome back to the consultant mindset. Everyone in their lives must have come across this question once in a lifetime. Why are we here? What’s the meaning of our life? What’s the mere purpose? The question of human existence is quite different for every religion. Every human is curious to find the answer to this question. What’s the point of our existence in this world? Many humans on this planet are living a meaningless life. They don’t know what to do with their lives. They are just spending their lives in constant struggles. They are spending their lives doing the bare minimum. They aren’t aware of their purpose in life. Many people have come across this thought quite a several times now. If you think like this then you are not alone in this situation. It is completely normal.

First off first, it is necessary to determine the correct definition of a meaningful life. Every individual has his perspective. They perceive life in their way. Not all of us have the same motto for life. A meaningful life is a construct of coherence, happiness and satisfaction. There can be different ways of a meaningful life. Every individual has his passion. Some want to excel in their academic career whereas some want to pursue in their jobs or businesses. A meaningful life refers to how are we going to spend our life. Either we spend it doing things of our passion or spend it wasting time on other garbage.

Life becomes meaningful when it has a purpose. When we become destined to achieve certain goals in our lives, life gets directed eventually. Having goals and purpose and striving for them day and night lets us put some major efforts to strive through the situation.  Finding meaning in one’s life is a personal journey. It requires some time but gradually streamlines you towards a meaningful life. Where you enjoy doing your thing instead of dragging it. A purposeful life lets you overcome any difficulty with much ease. Since you choose a life of your choice you become capable to cope with its hardships as well. 

How can we Establish a Meaningful Life?

A meaningful isn’t related to a successful life. If you’re having a satisfied mindset, you feel happy and contented and you’re good to go. People have this misconception that a happy life is somehow related to a meaningful life. You can be successful and live a meaningless life at the same time. For example, a person who is earning less but is doing a job of his interest is better than a person who’s a business tycoon and isn’t passionate about his work. It’s good to have less earnings with a passionate job.

Develop a passion or find your passion 

Anyone has some passion in their lives. While some are just living a trash life doing nothing at all. how can we determine our passion? Well, certain things in our lives make us feel happier and contented. It can either be some art or business etc. we just have to find that happiness and satisfaction. Some people find their happiness at a very old age but it is never too late to find out the exact purpose of your life. If you don’t have any passion, strive for one or find one.

Develop relationships 

Sometimes we develop such relationships in our lives to whom we become willing to devote our entire lives. There should be the existence of such people in our lives. We love seeing those people. Our unfinished love for them makes us do anything for them. We cannot imagine our lives without them. We try to live for them. We try to focus on ourselves for them. It is necessary to find some meaningful people in our lives that will let us move forward always. Life is like the ride of a camel stranded in a desert striving barely under the dazzling rays of the sun. if we want to keep going, stay connected to ones who never care to back off. People who are always willing to push you through your hard times. Keep lifting you no matter how hard you fall. Do you guys have such gems in your lives? Let me know in the comment section.

Monitor Your Mood

Motivation is entirely dependent on your mood. You are not always in the mood to get things done. Since we are not machines there are times when we become extremely exhausted and become unwilling to do anything. At that time, you must not forgive and indulge yourself in other activities. Some random activities like games, exercise, reading books etc can divert your attention. after some relaxation, you again become strong enough to combat problems for your passion.

Monitoring Passion as you Age 

The interest of an individual changes throughout life. We have different interests at different stages of life. For instance, older people are more likely to indulge themselves in fun activities. They have trouble establishing new relationships but gradually they develop some really fun activities and continue to pursue them as their passion.

These are some ways which can help you direct your lives towards a specific goal. That’s all for today. Stay tuned for more amazing stuff.

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Hey, guys hope you all are living your best lives. Welcome back to consultant mindset that mainly aims at providing consultancy and guidance for everyday living. It gives you excellent ideas to mend your ways of living and uplift the standards of your life. Today’s topic of our video is to improve your skills. As we know every profession requires some skills to attain its best level. Whether you are a teacher or a doctor, every profession requires some capabilities that help you perform best in your field. For example, if you are running a construction company, you should have enough leadership qualities to lead the whole team. You should have the ability to face the failures carefully without devastating the morale of your team. In this video, I will give you some tips on improving your skills. But before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset. Let us jump right into it. 

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Identify your strength and weaknesses

In my opinion, identifying the problem is the main scenario. When you are unaware of what is going wrong then you will never be able to correct it. It is necessary to recognize the abilities that an individual possesses. For example, every person has his/her strengths and weaknesses. But not everyone is aware of them. Sometimes people come into the wrong profession because they never become able to recognize their true qualities. They always do what others tell them to. They don’t even try to unleash their true skills. If a person identifies that he/she has great leadership qualities. Then he can go for the seat of director in a company. If he has great communication skills then he can apply to some marketing companies. It depends on how proficient you are in your skills and if you are weak in some of your skills like you do not know how to attend social gatherings or else you are unaware of giving a presentation to the company due to lack of confidence. then you can work on them too. You can work on yourself to boost your morale and self-confidence. In this way, your weakness will become your strength as well.

 Ask for feedback

Sometimes it happens that we do not identify our actions as mistakes. Because every individual has their perspectives. Not everyone thinks the same. So it is better to take feedback from the masses so that you can mend your ways. For example, if they think you are unapproachable. Then ask them the reason. Just because you do not have enough communication skills or you are lacking self-confidence.  You can ask people how they feel about your leadership skills. Do they think of you as a better leader? Because few people are leaders, most of them are only. Leaders work with their employees whereas the boss just orders them around. Try improving your ways and constantly ask peeps about them. Because business is with the masses. And you have to deal with them. So you gotta develop your skills to handle them. 

Accept criticisms and suggestions 

While in a workspace employees have to deal with many types of clients. Some of them are impudent and some of them are forgivers. But you have to develop skills and patience to deal with them. Some will write bad about you and some will write well. You have to take this criticism as a positive approach to develop your character. In the beginning, criticism always lets you down. But afterward, you began to take it as positive criticism and start developing your skills. Now the point arises that development is not a problem. But to train them is a bigger task. The best person in the race is one who has the best of best skills in his area. A winner is always the one who has proficiency in his skills. That is why he/she is called a winner because he/she unleashes the true capabilities to win every race.

In concluding the whole discussion I must say that you should focus on improving your weaknesses instead of working over and over on your strengths. Unleashing something novel in your personality can be done by having social gatherings with new people. It can help you expand your network. Suggestions from friends and families can help you even better with our qualities. That’s all for today’s video. Hope you guys enjoyed it. Bye bye 

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Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you recommendations on how you can practice charity in your daily life. Before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset. Charity is something that is often mistaken for money only. But giving time to a depressed, lonely person is also charity, helping a stranger is also a form of charity. 

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Helping a stranger 

In our society, most people avoid helping any of the masses.They just keep doing their work instead of lending a hand to the needy. I will give an example in this case if the people will see a man crying in the middle of the road for some sort of help. They will just gather around him as a source of entertainment. They will not take into account that he is disturbed and is going through some serious issues in his life. Sometimes a listener is enough to solve all your problems. At least it gives courage to the sufferer that someone is counting on him and believing in him and that he can do better with his life. If you are not capable of giving money then you can help him with your words only. Words surely help people to start believing in them. Take another example of helping a stranger to cross the road. If the stranger is older than you can lend him/her a hand. It is eventually your good deed. That will help you not only in this life but in the life hereafter as well. This is another form of charity.

Give Money 

Practicing charity mainly revolves around helping poor people. More appropriately helping people in need. It is highly mentioned in our holy book that “if you do deeds of charity openly it is well, but if you bestow it upon the needy secretly it will be even better for you” (2:271). Giving money to needy people shows love for humanity. And our religion Islam teaches us to fulfill human needs. The rights of humans are first to be asked after death. If a neighbor in your neighborhood is poor and cannot afford food for his family then his responsibility lays on you. You are responsible for him and his family. You have to make sure that no one around your circle faces a shortage of basic needs. This comes under the area of rights of neighbors. There are many Ahadees strictly commanding to take care of your neighbors. The integral step is that you should keep in mind that you are doing it for your Almighty lord and not for a public show. You should keep in mind that He will reward you for this in your afterlife. Charity not only brings peace but also improves your thoughts on humanitarian grounds. 

Help Orphans Get an Education 

According to Ahadees of our prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), he highly focuses on the rights and taking care of orphans. One of his Hadees written in ibn e Majah is “ the best household is the one where orphans are treated well; the worst household is the one where orphans are ill-treated”. How can we help orphans? We can help them by helping them in getting an education. Taking to them politely. Giving them love. Understanding their emotions and needs. These all are kinds of charity. And charity is for Almighty lord not for people. As there is 215 verse of Surah e Bakrah “: “Whatever good you spend should be for parents, kinsmen, orphans, the needy and the wayfarer; and whatever good you do, Allah is all-aware of it.” and prophet Muhammad said that supporting orphans is a continuous form of charity. And all of your deeds comes to end when you di e except three. Sadkah e jaariya(continuous charity), knowledge from which benefit is gained, and a righteous child who prays. 

I must conclude this whole discussion by saying that charity is not helpful for your afterlife only but for your peace as well. It brings humanity to a person and helps you to understand other people’s emotions efficiently. Being generous to the needy is the ultimate form of charity. I hope you guys enjoyed this video. bye-bye

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Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. It educates you about worldly problems and gives you a good idea to mend your ways. The consultancy on daily life problems is a significant objective of our channel Consultant mindset. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you acknowledgement on how you can develop discipline in your children. At present time the world has become a place of most randomly done things. No one cares to develop discipline in their lives. For a peaceful life, it is necessary to maintain discipline in your life. You will notice it yourself that discipline is bringing revolution into your lives. Before I get into this video do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel consultant mindset. Let us get straight into it.

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Hear your kids out 

If we want this world to be a better place then we have to start a revolution from our house. We have to teach our children how to become more disciplined and more responsible for their actions. In most cases, children idolise their parents. So it is binding upon the parent to mend his/her ways for their children. They will eventually follow in your footsteps. And will blame you for every mistake. So the initial step is to hear your kid’s every problem. To find the root cause. If you hear them out calmly then you will be able to help them as well. Many of the kids do not tell their parents due to their harsh and strict behaviour with their kids. In this way, they continue to grow in that harsh environment. This needs to stop. If parents want their kids to get disciplined and more responsible in their actions. Then they have to help them out in every step of life. For example in the case of a parent, you can ask them why a kid is in a bad mood today? Did he fight with any of his friends? The kids can become closer to their parents in this way. In this way, their lives can get disciplined and peaceful as well.

Give Them Attention 

In my opinion, attention is the most powerful tool that every kid needs. They want attention.  We can make our kids practice discipline only when they are close to us. Only when they have unlimited affection for their parents. Otherwise, kids do not listen to their parents to whom they do not feel affection. In this way, you can discourage the bad behaviour of your kids. And can enforce their good behaviours. For example, if a kid does a good deed like putting the toy back in its place after playing with it. Do praise them for their good deeds. And appreciate them for placing the toy back. In this way, they will become cautious about what they do afterward. They will become responsible for their actions just because they know that their parents have a check on them. Likewise forbade them from doing bad deeds as well. Cause it is binding upon a parent to tell their kids which pathway is right and which pathway is wrong.

Call A Timeout 

Set a certain limit for your kids. If they do not listen to your set rules. Or they break a certain rule. Then make a certain call out for them. So that they can be cautious about doing it again. Developing discipline is different for different ages of children. Just like for small babies you cannot shout at them and you cannot use harsh words with them. you gotta be more polite and humble with them. You can use words like “time to sit ” rather than saying “ don’t stand”. For teens, you do not have to take the side of one kid in fights with siblings. Just take away the toy on which they are fi ghting. For adolescent teens, parents should give them time to understand their hormonal and physiological changes. In this way, they can develop bonds with their parents. As I have discussed in my previous video “Parenting tips’ Do not forget to check it out. The link is in the description. By appreciating kids’ good acts you can make them develop discipline in their lives. 

Concluding this whole discussion I must say that by developing bonding with kids you can teach them how to behave well. Discipline is a bridge between goals and accomplishment. Self-discipline means establishing authority over one’s habits and routines. Hope you guys enjoyed this video. Byebye