Most of the time, I run away the competition. Whenever someone challenge. I avoid the conflict. Later people make fun of me. If I look back, I found multiple reason for that. One of them, I was not satisfied with myself.
Sometimes, I found, but little bit guilt still now is. Can I fight for someone, In their life I am just options. Like spare tier in car , worthless. I have much better than this. Now I feel guilt. Sometimes I think, let it to be, Let them happens to be.
Most of the time, I avoid the conflict due I have a fear of failing. What If I defeated. Actually, If I did not go in conflict, I already fail. And most importantly, I did not reorganize myself. I did not found that I have important position, But others things that I am competitor.
What is meaning of competition. Competition, happens between two people or more, who are trying to chase same thing or goal. What if, one of two competitor, don’t have same goal. Sometimes happens to me, things goals are not worthless.
But recently I face one of strange thing in my life. The great realization. Directly or un directly, if you did not face competition, You will ultimately lost. Everybody thinks about him or herself. And as result if you will lose your wroth.
Second competition is good thing, It let you know your worth, helps you to improve. Even if you fail, you did not have regret. Even if you are indirectly in competition. Then you have to understand your position. Your worth. And why that person feel competition. And If you lose that competition, what you lost in that conflict.
The only thing, understand yourself. Your worth, Your true potential. Where you should be. What’s in you from others feel competition.
No problem, just start from now. I just started. Note down all your strength. Write down all your weakness.
But start working only those weakness, that hurdle in your success. Because we can not work on all of our weakness. And even working on weakness, we can make midcore level strength. But if we work on our strength. We make it excellence.
You have to understand, why other feel competition. What target goal, he wants to achieve. There is possible something which you ignored, but worth to compete.
My friends, people did not give path, you have to make your way in. And that is it way,
But more importantly, know what you want is more important, what other want and you are crossing their way.
Because, always chose the right battle.