Some of us compare. Or be compared.
Most of the time, comparisons serve to enhance our performance. Sometimes it happens to crush us.
But actually, the only real comparison happens when we compare ourselves to others.
We are our biggest competitor. If we had performed better today compared to a year or months ago, we would have emerged victorious.
If not, then we are losers.
Why do we compare ourselves with others?
Every person has unique qualities. Find out for yourself. If you are not proficient at speaking, then certainly you are proficient at writing.
Focus on your gifts. find it.
The way get to know yourself is by finding feedback. Or observation.
There is a highly recommended book on this topic.
managing oneself. by Peter Docker.
There are two intriguing quotes in Punjabi.
“man tooN jot saroop hai aapnaa mool pachhaan.”
Means perfect in every means (like divine). Find your true worth.
“””JO BRAHMANDE SOI PINDE JO KHOJE SO PAYE “”
Means, you are complete universe with in, everything in self. Now find it in yourself.