If you think life is fair, it does not. we make others only happy, only if we lesser then them, inferior to them. You have to listen and face a lot of criticism. You never be make happy to every one. You have to face a lot of aggression.
Life’s every moment there is competition.
I used to listen the word from my mother, “Hum muqabalah nahee ker taye”. We are not going to competition with others. We are what we are.
Some times these words are wrong.
I heard the quote from John Spence.
“If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you’re fooling yourself. That’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him.”
Competition is on every step of life. On every step, we have to face. competition.
But sometime we are in competition without knowing. I found many people grow due to competition. They were nothing but due to competition, they made themselves.
If you want to grow. You need competition. The competition gives you strength, teach you something. Even you competed, you failed, but you learn a lot.
But one thing always remember. Always chose right battles, right battles gives you strength and power. Competition will trained you.