I was reading the second book of Mediation By Marcus Aurelius
When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly. They are like this because they can’t tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own—not of the same blood or birth, but the same mind, and possessing a share of the divine. And so none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me in ugliness. Nor can I feel angry at my relative, or hate him. We were born to work together like feet, hands, and eyes, like the two rows of teeth, upper and lower. To obstruct each other is unnatural. To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him: these are obstructions.
It’s very strange for me that the first annotation talks about acceptance and cooperation with each other. Marcus Aurelius said to accept every human being as they are. Sometimes we wonder why that happens to us or why others behave strangly. Later, I discovered that people were with us until we had common goals. When they achieved their shared interest, they changed. They betrayed.
Jealousy is a natural phenomenon. People can be jealous of us without any reason. Same rule apply to us, we are also jealous a few people.
In life, people motivate us to achieve something; under the hood, they are going to achieve their own goals. And when they achieved those goals, they betrayed us.
People behave badly with us. They are arrogant; they do it intensely to get attention; they know we reflect back on them; or they like the pain or misery on our faces. However, it’s possible that their actions are a result of their circumstances. But the question is: why do we expect good behavior from them? They are busy in their own world. We seek outside approval only when we are not satisfied with ourselves. Therefore, seek approval from within.
Marcus Aurelius says that all these people have the same mind as we do, and everything I see or feel is related to us.
Ancient people believed that all people shared the same spite and that all people connected with each other in some way. Marcus Aurelius talks about other people who are not our blood relatives but who have very similar minds, bodies, and spirits. If we see something evil in others, we should first find it in ourselves and correct it rather than criticizing.
Most of the time, the situation is not a problem, but the reaction to it creates a problem. It’s our thoughts. Understanding this prevents them from hurting us, the situation, and other people’s behavior. In simple Urdu, “asa hee hayee, churo isya.” “Accept them as they are; let it go.”.
Most of the time, stress does not come from situations, but our reaction to those situations creates a problem. No matter how badly people treat us, we can still control our response. How we feel and think. If we control our inner world, it can have no impact on us. And no one can make us angry and respond in an evil way.
Marcus Aurelius talks about how every person has different qualities. And no one has all of those qualities. God creates in such a way that people can work together. They work with each other to build a functional body. Similar to different body parts of the human body, each part cannot function individually and has different functions to perform. All human body parts work together, so a human being survived. Its nature’s rule that humans have to cooperate with each other.
It’s our divine duty to work with each other, not against each other.
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Hi friends, Today I am going to share the book summary of “Traveler Gift” by Andy Andrews.
This is the transformation story of a person who tried to quit his life, but during qoma, he met seven biblical and historical figures who gave him different advice, and after awakening, he implemented those seven lessons in his life to improve his quality of life.
The story of a person who is in his mid-40s is about almost failure in everything. His daughter was in the hospital, full of debt. He was in desperate need of money for his only daughter, but due to stress and aggression, he was fired from his job. In total disappointment, he started to think that, due to his inability to meet the needs and expectations of his family, he should quit his life. He thinks that is the only way to provide a better future for his family. After his death, his wife will find a good husband, and that person will take care of his girl. On a cold winter night, he hit his car into a tree. As a result, he went to Comma.
During this period, he met many historical and biblical figures, and he even met himself in the future.
All these people gave him their wisdom. I am going to share this wisdom. And if we apply this wisdom to our lives, our future is bright, regardless of our age.
Lesson 1: Harry S. Truman: The buck stops here.
David met first with Harry Truman. Harry Truman talks about how the first lesson is to accept the responsibility of life.
You have to accept the resuscitation of the choice you made in the past. Responsibility for who you are now is a result of your past choices. Our actions are directed by our thinking. If we want to have a different future, we have to make different choices. We have different ways of thinking and acting. We stop blaming our present situation on our parents, friends, wives, and relatives. We have to accept responsibility for our thoughts and actions. We consider every problem an opportunity to grow and learn.
The past is gone, but the future is still in our hands.
Lesson 2: King Solomon: I will seek wisdom.
In his second visit, David meets biblical figure King Solomon. He advised David to seek
wisdom.
How to prepare for the future is by seeking wisdom and taking responsibility.
Most of the time, we took inspiration from the people with whom we spent time. If we take
company of cursed and complaining people, we also develop a victim mindset.
It is a common saying that we are the average of five people with whom we are associated in life.
We have to guard our association. Intentionally or unintentionally, we follow our mentor in life. For example, Solomon explains that his father was his mentor. Your teacher, uncle, actor, or any other figure will possibly be mentioned. So seek wisdom from their lives.
We have to take the present problems as challenges, and facing these challenges will result in a better future. We have to increase our wisdom by reading books, watching YouTube videos, listening to podcasts, and observing and studying the lives of successful people.
Seeking wisdom to overcome the thoughts, doubts, and fears in life
Lesson 3: Col. Joshua Chamberlain: I am a person of action.
Third wisdom. David got it from Joshua Chamberlain, who taught David that the only solution to all problems is to take action.
Take charge and take action. Even if we do not have all the necessary resources, we can still take action. What is best possible? We have to. Many times, we did not take action and stayed in the same location. In life, we take decisions quickly and do not let change happen. They take decisions and start taking actions. With these actions, they will no longer be afraid.
They did not fear other people’s opinions, gossip, idle chatter, or all those things.
For men of action, failure is a myth. Failure exists only for the person who quits.
Lesson 4: Christopher Columbus: I have a decided heart
The fourth lesson David learned from Columbus was to have a detached heart and ignore what people think about him.
The truth is the truth, whatever the situation. The truth is never dependent on the opinions of others.
Many people did not make efforts to change due to fear of the opinions of others and were doomed to mediocrity.
If you worry about what other people think of you, which results in you having more confidence in them than in yourself, poor is the man whose future depends on the opinions and permission of others. The only solution to criticism is that you will die doing nothing.
To achieve something, you must have a decisive heart. Many people fail because they lack a decisive heart. They are not committed from the heart.
“Most people fail at whatever they attempt because of an undecided heart. Should I? Should I not? Go forward? Go back? Success requires the emotional balance of a committed heart.
“Getting started, getting finished—both ends of a journey require a demonstration of passion.”
Passion only comes from the heart. Its product is a heart decision.
Lesson 5: Anne Frank: Today I will choose to be happy.
In his next visit, David meets Anne Frank. She provides her way to always stay happy, regardless of the situation.
Whatever condition we have or whatever challenges we are facing, it’s up to us to stay happy.
What ever is in us that takes us to the top, instead of what color or race we belong to?
Happyness is the result of certain thoughts and activities, which are actually chemical reactions.
In body. So we have to focus on these thoughts, which makes us happy.
The smile is our calling card.
Many times in life, we have to face injustices based on color, race, and nationality. But absolutely, what matters is what is inside us. It’s like a balloon; whatever its color or size, it goes up due to what’s inside it. It does matter what we think. Similary, we have to choose what we think to be.
Lesson 6: Abraham Lincoln: I will greet this day with a forgiving spirit.
On his next trip, David meets the present Abhraim Licon. Lincon described how important it is to have a forgiving spirit.
People make mistakes, either intentionally or unintentionally. Hurt us. If we are in a leadership position, we have to deal with people. We can use their strength only when we are able to forgive them. They make mistakes and make wrong decisions.
Lincon takes David to the graveyard. It shows that our hearts are like graveyards. You have to bury disappointment, anger, frustation, misbehavior, and other things here. As in the past, all events that occurred in the past are now dead; bury them.
The only way to become a good husband, father, or leader is to forgive others.
In a similar way, when someone hurts us or does not meet our expectations, we become angry. When we were going to sleep, those moments came into our minds. And we did not get good sleep.
There are two types of forgiveness we require: forgiving ourselves for our mistakes and failures Why? Because, instead of focusing on future outcomes, we were struck by the past. The second is unconditional forgiveness for others.
We all have failures in life and in business, but we all have success in our lives. But if we are still thinking about failure, we will not stay happy due to our success. So to enjoy the present moment, better sleep, and the company of our friends, we need to be forgiven.
Licon also advises David about the quest for power. Before that, Davide, think that power is wrong. But Licon told him that power in the right hand results in good things. If you have power, then you can help your management deliver more.
Lesson 7: Gabriel the Archangel: I will persist without exception
The next lesson that Ponder learned was from the archangel Gabriel.
Archangel Gabriel told David that he would persist without exception.
Successful people always focus on the outcome. There is a possibility that the process is not enjoyable, long, and boring, but they pressurize without exception only due to their focus on outcome.
Gabriel asked David, “Is he a man of faith or a man of fear? It means that in our lives, there are two main motivational forces: belief that I can do it or fear. We do things out of fear of something, like being fired, having someone else win, or being shown less than us. fear that one day we will be empty. Both are different.
We have to be men of reason. Why do we do things that we do? We definitely have reasons.
Gabriel, it’s up to us how circumstances affect us. Circumstances are excuses for poor men. It is the wise man who recognizes opportunities and uses them to his advantage.
To be a wise man, study, get lessons from the circumstances, and apply that knowledge to get a brighter future. A depressed person usually overthinks what will happen to him; instead, he focuses on what he actually wants and how he will achieve it.
A depressed person faces the situation and overthinks,
Average people usually compare themselves to others and achieve something, but successful people also compare themselves to their true potential. What they can achieve if they realize their full potential
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So it’s our time; whatever the condition we have, we have to take charge, take responsibility, be happy with what we have, whatever the condition we are, and have a dedicated heart. and take action, because without action, nothing is accomplished in life. The desire to work with others and for the betterment of ourselves is forgiven; there is a graveyard in our hearts where we bury our anger, expectations, and other things others said to us. If we still think about what others say or think about us, we will not reach where we want to reach. We have to be persistent, without exception. In the case of difficulties, frustation, and disheartness, we have to focus on the outcome. There are two types of motivation in life. Fear and faith Focus on faith. faith in the certainty of the future
Hey guys, welcome back to the consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. Addictions are something that is hard to overcome, even by practising multiple remedies. There are several types of addiction, which may include smoking addiction, drug addiction, vaping addiction, or even nicotine addiction. In this video, we will talk about multiple ways in which we can overcome smoking habits. Are you a smoker? If yes, then you are going to find this video informative for quitting it. Quitting smoking is a hell of a big task, whether you are an occasional smoker or a chronic smoker. An addiction is never easy to overcome, specifically when it is nicotine- or tobacco-related. Smoking has not only physiological impacts but also adverse impacts on one’s mental health. The main ingredient in tobacco is nicotine, and nicotine has chronic effects on users’ health. Nicotine directly impacts your nervous system, causing it to release dopamine, which is the happy hormone. Why do people become addicted to it? The mere reason for becoming addicted to tobacco smoke is its ultimate impact on mental well-being. According to some surveys, people have various reasons for smoking. For instance, some people smoke to cope with depression, anxiety, and stress so they can provide themselves with mental relief. Some individuals opted for smoking as a fashion, while others started it under the influence of their bad company.
Is smoking a daily ritual? The answer to this question is definitely yes. People have developed an instinct for smoking; they have unintentionally included smoking as a part of their daily activities. For instance, some people have included smoking in their breakfast routine, while others have included it in their coffee routine. In order to gain a full stop to smoking, you need to identify the routes of habit and the triggers that are ultimately causing you to smoke drastically. It is nearly impossible to quit smoking immediately, but it can be done in phases and gradually. Let’s dig into the video to find out some useful ways to overcome the chronic habit of smoking.
To keep track of your smoking, several questions need to be answered. For instance, you have to ask yourself questions like, Are you a heavy smoker? Or are you an occasional smoker? Are there certain activities or people associated with this habit? Do you buy cigarettes when you are feeling down or stressed out? All of these factors are to be taken into account so that your smoking routine can be traced. After having answers to these questions, the strategy to quit smoking will take place.
Avoid triggers
Tiggers are those products that aggravate your need to smoke. For instance, alcohol, e-cigarettes, people who smoke around you, or the end of any meal People who smoke around you make it challenging for you to quit smoking, so try to stay away from such people or else publicly announce your decision to quit smoking so that smokers won’t smoke around you. Some people develop this habitual thing of making themselves light at the end of every meal with the help of cigarettes. However, this meal-lightening strategy needs to be replaced with fruit or some kind of dessert. If there is a peculiar kind of trauma that triggers your depression to inhale smoke, try to avoid such gatherings or such conversations. You just have to be self-aware of yourself so that you can avoid environmental triggers to prevent yourself from developing this addiction. Are you guys aware of your triggers? If yes, then let me know in the comment section.
Chew on it.
The main goal of quitting smoking is to give your mouth something distracting so that it may not crave smoke. In order to solve this dilemma, it is highly recommended to begin chewing gum or lozenges in its place. This way, you will trick your brain into chewing gum or candy and stay away from tobacco smoke.
Don’t have “just one.”
In the journey of rehabilitation, various thoughts in your mind provoke you to take just one last cigarette. You don’t have to fool yourself into such vicious thoughts because the circle goes on and on and you never get to quit smoking tobacco. So try to overcome that “one last cigarette,” because it’s just a foolish act to destroy yourself.
Get physical
Engage yourself in physical activities, which can aid you in overcoming your tobacco smoking habits. Try running, doing workouts, and going upstairs and downstairs in your office, which can help you engage yourself while keeping you away from the craving for smoke.
Try relaxation methods.
Some people have seen the aggravation of smoking due to increased stress and mental health issues. Try some relaxing activities like yoga, massage, meditation, and deep breathing so that you can keep yourself away from stress, which ultimately prevents you from smoking.
Seek moral support from family and friends.
Ask your family members or friends to regularly support you in quitting smoking. The moral support helps you boost your mental and physical courage. Mental power is extremely important to fight anything. The restrictions exist only in our minds, so break those boundaries and overcome your fears.
Remind yourself of the benefits.
Start journaling about your journey and all the blessings you have received so far. When you keep track of your assets, you are less likely to fall and leap behind. The bounties give you the motivation to overcome all the possible addictions. When you remember the benefits, like getting healthy, feeling better, saving money, and saving your life, you eventually feel worthy of doing the hard stuff.
Try nicotine replacement therapy.
The nicotine replacement therapy requires the aid of medical and professional healthcare. You can buy lozenges, gums, nicotine patches, or prescribed non-nicotine stop-smoking drugs such as bupropion.
Manage cravings
Whenever you crave a cigarette, try applying suppressive strategies like distracting yourself by watching TV, using the phone, or spending time with family. Get out of the tempting situation and remember why you started the whole journey.
Reward yourself
A brain works better when it is rewarded for performing a certain task. This reward works as motivation to keep going on your journey.
Concluding the whole video, smoking is injurious to health, and its addiction is difficult to overcome. By following these strategies, you can easily quit smoking. Stay tuned for more interesting content.
Hey guys welcome to consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. A goal cannot be achieved until it is incorporated with a fixed intention. Dreaming about all the wildest things is not enough to proceed towards a peculiar goal. You must continue to pursue those wild dreams with persistent efforts and struggle. Determination is that force which ignites you to move towards your goal no matter how many hurdles and challenges come between you and your goal. You never turn your back on your dreams. There may be times when you feel like quitting and not moving forward. This is the stimulus that you still need to push yourself towards the determined goals. In the beginning, you may feel that you are not making any progress but it is just a mere delusion. You only stop making progress when you stop working. Quitting is the only tool which can stop your progress. Determination is a powerful weapon that keeps you firmly attached to your goal. A goal without determination and persistence is just useless. The achievement of goals is a set of multiple components which are required to make them practically possible.
You’ve done it before and you can do it now. See the positive possibilities. Redirect the substantial energy of your frustration and turn it into positive, effective, unstoppable determination.
All the creators and successful personalities who are enjoying the limelight of success passed through such difficult times and challenges but they never gave up. The famous, CEO and founder of SpaceX and Tesla, Elon Musk was not wealthy from the start. He initiated a small business with his brother in their apartment. The idea was to sell their products to the people with the aid of the Internet. But in that era, the use of the internet was not common. Many people didn’t know about it so they used to get zero sales. But the significant tool they kept with them was they never gave up. They started selling their products door to door until their company became successful. That is how Elon Musk became rich and successful. He never lost to setbacks and failures; he has always learned from them. That’s why today his companies are growing tremendously and immense sales have become his fate.
Desire is the key to motivation, but it’s determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal – a commitment to excellence – that will enable you to attain the success you seek.
Another prominent brand that remained stuck to its goal and kept on improving its product is Microsoft. It is another example which remained determined to make their company a humongous success. The products of Microsoft were rejected several times, but Bill Gates along with his team continued to put undefined efforts into them. In the end, they succeeded in making these products a great success.
The important thing to realise in this whole scenario is not to confuse stubbornness with determination. Determination is mainly sticking to your goals and improving persistently, whereas stubbornness is just sticking to your goals without making any improvements.
How can you continue to improve yourself and remain determined towards your goals?
Keep Measurable Goals
Having meaningful and practically achievable goals is a significant game changer. Goal setting is important but, before that going for measurable goals holds great importance. It is useless to waste your energy and resources on those goals that are not even within your human limit. Act wise and always choose those goals that are within the boundary of human capability. Determination is an ongoing dynamic journey toward a compelling vision that cannot be denied.
Faith In Yourself
Having confidence in oneself is of utmost significance, as it empowers you to attain goals that might otherwise appear unattainable. Self-belief gives you beast powers and makes you do wonders. You might experience feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness towards a specific goal, but in this very moment, it’s crucial not to overlook your inner strength and determination, which have the potential to enable remarkable achievements.
Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.
At times, your inner voice provides more accurate guidance than all the advice that surrounds you. During the journey, you may reach a point where you must make a particularly challenging decision. This will be the moment when you need to consider your intuition. Trusting your instincts will lead to results that prove beneficial for your interests.
Dedication is the key that can make you achieve your ultimate humongous goals. You should never leave the side of dedication and always remain glued to it.
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The Pomodoro Technique is a highly effective time management method designed to stop wasting time and boost productivity. Developed by Francesco Cirillo in the late 1980s, it involves breaking your work into focused, 25-minute intervals called “Pomodoros,” followed by a 5-minute break. After completing four Pomodoros, you take a longer break of around 15-30 minutes. By structuring your tasks into these time blocks, the Pomodoro Technique helps you maintain concentration, eliminate distractions, and maintain a sense of urgency. This approach not only maximizes your productivity but also prevents burnout by ensuring regular breaks. It’s a simple yet powerful way to tackle tasks, manage time efficiently, and ultimately achieve more while making the most of your valuable time. Hello friends, welcome to our channel consultant Mindset. We are small team as a freelance consultants. We write script, make videos on the topic of consultancy , success, motivation, motivational, consultants studies, Inspiration, growth and development, leadership and book summaries All what you want to know about consultancy you will find at the channel consultant mindset. Pomodoro technique helps millions to over procrastination and finished work more focus way. Simple technique that just require simple timer and list .
Ideas are innovative thoughts that can spark us at any time. Those ideas can be of various niches either related to academics, business, arts or anything of an individual’s interest. Ideas come and drift away in seconds so it is highly advised mates, to keep your ideas in a chest box so they never escape your mind. Sometimes fantastic ideas can lead to many super beneficial profits. A person’s life is entirely dependent on how he thinks. Our mindset plays a significant role in determining how we live life and how can we sustain that lifestyle. Have you ever wondered what kind of lifestyle you possess? There are two types of mindsets. One is a growth mindset and the other is a fixed mindset.
Individuals who have growth mindsets possess the ultimate ability to change their destinies. They never accept defeat. They always believe that there is room for improvement. People who have stagnant mindsets like fixed ones remain stuck in the same position. they never win. Since you guys know the difference between the two terms, let me know in the comment section which type of mindset you have.
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Entrepreneurship is a kind of emerging field these days. This emerging field requires some resources, goals, and humans to compile those ideas into better results. Anyone can establish a business. However, developing a winning business with guaranteed success is tough. The first step towards establishing a winning business is to have that peculiar mindset.
How Do We Establish That Mindset?
A winning business mindset requires a set of goals, a plan of action to achieve, and the ability to embrace the challenges with resilience, and confidence. The development of a successful business requires many more things than resources. Ability to combat all the failures and challenges, never giving up on your dreams, learning from mistakes, developing problem-solving skills, and decision-making skills. A winning mindset should have concrete and measurable goals. The goals that are practically not within the human boundary can lead to struggle and hardships with no result at all. The ultimate goal is to establish a successful business while overcoming every failure and hardship. Setting goals is extremely important in this journey. we need a road map to reach our destination likewise, we need a road map to achieve our goals. Setting goals provides us with a clear view towards our final step.
Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.
The importance of a goal should never be underestimated. A growth mindset lets you learn new things and makes you a better person. Whenever we go to a new place, we require some guidance to guide us through that journey. Without a guide, we can never explore the art of things. That’s how goals play a role in our lives. They act as a guide. A firm understanding of having goals aids in developing a new pathway to one’s journey.
The setting of goals is followed by the plan of action. To establish a successful and sustainable business, all the necessary measures are decided beforehand. The development of a business outline involves the goals, objectives strategies and plans that will be used to attain them. Establishing a winning business requires a strategic mindset as well as a strong mindset. Keeping in view all the drawbacks and limitations, developing a sustainable and profit-yielding business plan is necessary.
I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
Developing a business requires many skills other than the resources and finances associated with it. The potential risks associated with the business plan shall also be taken into consideration.
Accepting change in the journey of developing a plan is a critical step. Here change refers to any failure or obstacle. It is human nature that when we encounter any failure, we tend to question our existence. We immediately lose our motivation and we start to devalue ourselves. however, it ain’t right. Facing failures does not mean that you are not capable. Failures are part of your training. They train you and broaden your spectrum of viewing things. The challenges and failures strengthen your capabilities. This way you start to find new possibilities and begin to view things differently. To develop success, it is recommended to embrace failures wholeheartedly. Let the change begin.
To grow your business, try to learn from your mistakes. Never remain stagnant in one place after encountering failure. Learn from it and never let that same mistake happen to you again. Dwelling on mistakes can be harmful to your business’s mindset. It becomes challenging when you have to face constant hardships. At this point, stay motivated and patient. Patience will yield tremendous results.
When you look at successful people, you will find that they aren’t the people who are motivated but have consistency in their motivation.
Staying motivated is the only way by which you can keep moving forward. Having a growth mindset requires staying motivated and facing hardships bravely. Have you ever felt that you are losing motivation? If yes, then the easiest way to keep up with the motivation is to remember the outcome of the journey. The result will always help you to stay calm and motivated.
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Our personality is the reflection of things going on in our minds. When we have a positive attitude towards life, we handle life more appropriately. Is it all about being an optimistic approach? If you ask me, then it is a big yes. It is mainly about your mindset and the ignition you get after a certain praise. We become what we believe. If I think that I am a naive person who can never speak for his rights, then I will forever remain like that. I will only be able to overcome that once I work on my mindset. Our mindset defines who we are. Our perspectives and attitudes are merely determined by the mindset we hold. So, having a positive and creative mindset aids you establish a successful future. Success is directly linked to our mindsets. Some people believe that their success is merely because of luck. However, it isn’t true. Success is a doorway to new experiences, new frameworks and new strategies. You become more aware of your talents and skills. In this way, achieving new things becomes an absolutely fun task for you. A person who has a growing mindset always goes for challenges and hardships. He never fears any failure or defeat. He always welcomes troubles and challenges. These challenges help him discover his critical thinking and his novel talents. How do you train your mind to become successful? The first step is to make yourself accept the fact it is okay to make mistakes. People who reprimand themselves for making a mistake never get to improve their self. Give yourself space and try to realize the fact that you are human and you tend to make mistakes. A person learns from his mistakes. Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure… than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in a grey twilight that knows not victory nor defeat. Theodore Roosevelt
What Do We Mean By Developing a Positive Attitude? It is not about wearing coloured clothes or wearing a smile all the time. Never giving up is a positive attitude. Never turning your back after facing so many failures and hardships is all about a positive attitude. Keeping up the courage and always welcoming trouble with a sense of responsibility is a positive attitude. The unbreakable attitude that always makes you keep going and keep unleashing the true capabilities of your personality is an optimistic mindset. The fun fact is that we cannot be always like this. When some humongous challenge strikes us, we start to lose our faith and belief.
We have to stand by those beliefs and should never fall for such traps. Having such a staunch mindset will never let you fall. Having faith in yourself that you have always done it and that you can still do it is the key. Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Have your efforts been ever acknowledged? Has anyone ever appreciated you for even the smallest of your efforts? If yes, then let me know in the comments section. Before that, don’t forget to like and subscribe to our channel. ‘You are so good at it! wow, you are so loving, Goodness, you are so talented.” such comments can randomly make your mood livelier and can make you do things even better. Working strenuously without even your efforts getting acknowledged is a hell of a difficult task. Never acknowledging someone’s true efforts is what can ruin your mood and can drain your energy. Praising someone is just like igniting their hidden dedication to perform things more accurately. Praising is not necessary for children only it is essential for adolescent kids as well. Everyone wants to get acknowledged for their constant efforts and struggles. It is like payback for what you are doing already. You become a more firm person to get to anything you want. Appreciating is such a humble thing. You may feel awkward appreciating people but for some individuals, it is a huge relief. Appreciating other people is not considered an easy task in our society. Either people are jealous of you or they are too shy to tell you how good you are doing it. According to a recent study, employees that were not being praised by their higher-ups had more odds of encountering coronary disease. The cost of devaluing others might be bigger than expected. We just move our tongue and say the thing without even realising that our words can demolish other person’s health. If you find it hard to appreciate others, then it depicts that you are too harsh on yourself as well. Try asking yourself some questions that ‘Am I proud of myself?’ ‘am I a good human being?’
There are two things people want more than money… recognition and praise. Mary Kay Ash Focus on evaluating yourself. When you become courageous enough to appreciate yourself, appreciating others will then be a piece of cake for you. The important task is that you should be mindful of your praise. For instance, you cannot praise someone for that one thing which is not under his control like commenting on someone for his height. Height is a genetic trait and one cannot do anything about it. Try praising those things that have been developed by mere hard work. Concluding the whole video, people like to get appreciated for the things they do. Make it a custom to appreciate people on the easiest of the tasks they do. This will develop an optimist community with growing mindsets. Hope you guys enjoyed today’s video. Stay tuned for more interesting content.
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Hey, guys hope you are doing great. Welcome back to the consultant mindset. Everyone in their lives must have come across this question once in a lifetime. Why are we here? What’s the meaning of our life? What’s the mere purpose? The question of human existence is quite different for every religion. Every human is curious to find the answer to this question. What’s the point of our existence in this world? Many humans on this planet are living a meaningless life. They don’t know what to do with their lives. They are just spending their lives in constant struggles. They are spending their lives doing the bare minimum. They aren’t aware of their purpose in life. Many people have come across this thought quite a several times now. If you think like this then you are not alone in this situation. It is completely normal.
First off first, it is necessary to determine the correct definition of a meaningful life. Every individual has his perspective. They perceive life in their way. Not all of us have the same motto for life. A meaningful life is a construct of coherence, happiness and satisfaction. There can be different ways of a meaningful life. Every individual has his passion. Some want to excel in their academic career whereas some want to pursue in their jobs or businesses. A meaningful life refers to how are we going to spend our life. Either we spend it doing things of our passion or spend it wasting time on other garbage.
Life becomes meaningful when it has a purpose. When we become destined to achieve certain goals in our lives, life gets directed eventually. Having goals and purpose and striving for them day and night lets us put some major efforts to strive through the situation. Finding meaning in one’s life is a personal journey. It requires some time but gradually streamlines you towards a meaningful life. Where you enjoy doing your thing instead of dragging it. A purposeful life lets you overcome any difficulty with much ease. Since you choose a life of your choice you become capable to cope with its hardships as well. How can we establish a meaningful life? A meaningful isn’t related to a successful life. If you’re having a satisfied mindset, you feel happy and contented and you’re good to go. People have this misconception that a happy life is somehow related to a meaningful life. You can be successful and live a meaningless life at the same time. For example, a person who is earning less but is doing a job of his interest is better than a person who’s a business tycoon and isn’t passionate about his work. It’s good to have less earnings with a passionate job. Develop a Passion or Find Your Passion Anyone has some passion in their lives. While some are just living a trash life doing nothing at all. how can we determine our passion? Well, certain things in our lives make us feel happier and contented. It can either be some art or business etc. we just have to find that happiness and satisfaction. Some people find their happiness at a very old age but it is never too late to find out the exact purpose of your life. If you don’t have any passion, strive for one or find one. Develop Relationships Sometimes we develop such relationships in our lives to whom we become willing to devote our entire lives. There should be the existence of such people in our lives. We love seeing those people. Our unfinished love for them makes us do anything for them. We cannot imagine our lives without them. We try to live for them. We try to focus on ourselves for them. It is necessary to find some meaningful people in our lives that will let us move forward always. Life is like the ride of a camel stranded in a desert striving barely under the dazzling rays of the sun. if we want to keep going, stay connected to ones who never care to back off. People who are always willing to push you through your hard times. Keep lifting you no matter how hard you fall. Do you guys have such gems in your lives? Let me know in the comment section. Monitor Your Mood Motivation is entirely dependent on your mood. You are not always in the mood to get things done. Since we are not machines there are times when we become extremely exhausted and become unwilling to do anything. At that time, you must not forgive and indulge yourself in other activities. Some random activities like games, exercise, reading books etc can divert your attention. after some relaxation, you again become strong enough to combat problems for your passion. Monitoring Passion As You Age The interest of an individual changes throughout life. We have different interests at different stages of life. For instance, older people are more likely to indulge themselves in fun activities. They have trouble establishing new relationships but gradually they develop some really fun activities and continue to pursue them as their passion. These are some ways which can help you direct your lives towards a specific goal. That’s all for today. Stay tuned for more amazing stuff.
