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Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you recommendations on how you can practice charity in your daily life. Before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset. Charity is something that is often mistaken for money only. But giving time to a depressed, lonely person is also charity, helping a stranger is also a form of charity.
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Helping a stranger
In our society, most people avoid helping any of the masses.They just keep doing their work instead of lending a hand to the needy. I will give an example in this case if the people will see a man crying in the middle of the road for some sort of help. They will just gather around him as a source of entertainment. They will not take into account that he is disturbed and is going through some serious issues in his life. Sometimes a listener is enough to solve all your problems. At least it gives courage to the sufferer that someone is counting on him and believing in him and that he can do better with his life. If you are not capable of giving money then you can help him with your words only. Words surely help people to start believing in them. Take another example of helping a stranger to cross the road. If the stranger is older than you can lend him/her a hand. It is eventually your good deed. That will help you not only in this life but in the life hereafter as well. This is another form of charity.
Give Money
Practicing charity mainly revolves around helping poor people. More appropriately helping people in need. It is highly mentioned in our holy book that “if you do deeds of charity openly it is well, but if you bestow it upon the needy secretly it will be even better for you” (2:271). Giving money to needy people shows love for humanity. And our religion Islam teaches us to fulfill human needs. The rights of humans are first to be asked after death. If a neighbor in your neighborhood is poor and cannot afford food for his family then his responsibility lays on you. You are responsible for him and his family. You have to make sure that no one around your circle faces a shortage of basic needs. This comes under the area of rights of neighbors. There are many Ahadees strictly commanding to take care of your neighbors. The integral step is that you should keep in mind that you are doing it for your Almighty lord and not for a public show. You should keep in mind that He will reward you for this in your afterlife. Charity not only brings peace but also improves your thoughts on humanitarian grounds.
Help Orphans Get an Education
According to Ahadees of our prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), he highly focuses on the rights and taking care of orphans. One of his Hadees written in ibn e Majah is “ the best household is the one where orphans are treated well; the worst household is the one where orphans are ill-treated”. How can we help orphans? We can help them by helping them in getting an education. Taking to them politely. Giving them love. Understanding their emotions and needs. These all are kinds of charity. And charity is for Almighty lord not for people. As there is 215 verse of Surah e Bakrah “: “Whatever good you spend should be for parents, kinsmen, orphans, the needy and the wayfarer; and whatever good you do, Allah is all-aware of it.” and prophet Muhammad said that supporting orphans is a continuous form of charity. And all of your deeds comes to end when you di e except three. Sadkah e jaariya(continuous charity), knowledge from which benefit is gained, and a righteous child who prays.
I must conclude this whole discussion by saying that charity is not helpful for your afterlife only but for your peace as well. It brings humanity to a person and helps you to understand other people’s emotions efficiently. Being generous to the needy is the ultimate form of charity. I hope you guys enjoyed this video. bye-bye
Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. It educates you about worldly problems and gives you a good idea to mend your ways. The consultancy on daily life problems is a significant objective of our channel Consultant mindset. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you acknowledgement on how you can develop discipline in your children. At present time the world has become a place of most randomly done things. No one cares to develop discipline in their lives. For a peaceful life, it is necessary to maintain discipline in your life. You will notice it yourself that discipline is bringing revolution into your lives. Before I get into this video do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel consultant mindset. Let us get straight into it.
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Hear your kids out
If we want this world to be a better place then we have to start a revolution from our house. We have to teach our children how to become more disciplined and more responsible for their actions. In most cases, children idolise their parents. So it is binding upon the parent to mend his/her ways for their children. They will eventually follow in your footsteps. And will blame you for every mistake. So the initial step is to hear your kid’s every problem. To find the root cause. If you hear them out calmly then you will be able to help them as well. Many of the kids do not tell their parents due to their harsh and strict behaviour with their kids. In this way, they continue to grow in that harsh environment. This needs to stop. If parents want their kids to get disciplined and more responsible in their actions. Then they have to help them out in every step of life. For example in the case of a parent, you can ask them why a kid is in a bad mood today? Did he fight with any of his friends? The kids can become closer to their parents in this way. In this way, their lives can get disciplined and peaceful as well.
Give Them Attention
In my opinion, attention is the most powerful tool that every kid needs. They want attention. We can make our kids practice discipline only when they are close to us. Only when they have unlimited affection for their parents. Otherwise, kids do not listen to their parents to whom they do not feel affection. In this way, you can discourage the bad behaviour of your kids. And can enforce their good behaviours. For example, if a kid does a good deed like putting the toy back in its place after playing with it. Do praise them for their good deeds. And appreciate them for placing the toy back. In this way, they will become cautious about what they do afterward. They will become responsible for their actions just because they know that their parents have a check on them. Likewise forbade them from doing bad deeds as well. Cause it is binding upon a parent to tell their kids which pathway is right and which pathway is wrong.
Call A Timeout
Set a certain limit for your kids. If they do not listen to your set rules. Or they break a certain rule. Then make a certain call out for them. So that they can be cautious about doing it again. Developing discipline is different for different ages of children. Just like for small babies you cannot shout at them and you cannot use harsh words with them. you gotta be more polite and humble with them. You can use words like “time to sit ” rather than saying “ don’t stand”. For teens, you do not have to take the side of one kid in fights with siblings. Just take away the toy on which they are fi ghting. For adolescent teens, parents should give them time to understand their hormonal and physiological changes. In this way, they can develop bonds with their parents. As I have discussed in my previous video “Parenting tips’ Do not forget to check it out. The link is in the description. By appreciating kids’ good acts you can make them develop discipline in their lives.
Concluding this whole discussion I must say that by developing bonding with kids you can teach them how to behave well. Discipline is a bridge between goals and accomplishment. Self-discipline means establishing authority over one’s habits and routines. Hope you guys enjoyed this video. Byebye