“I don’t know what to do with my life.” I asked myself the same question. At that time, I had no aims—no goals in life. If you are facing this question, then this short video is for you. Consider this another opportunity, not a problem. The earlier we get an answer to this question, the more successful we become in our lives. If you still do not answer this question, then consider it. The first step is to take responsibility. It’s your life. You need to take responsibility for your actions. If you did not take responsibility. Nothing happens. Life remains unchanged, and you will remain unchanged as a consequence. Second step is to Know yourself. Almost everyone knows something about themself. Pose the question, “Why did you do anything?” Examine your actions and the reasons behind them. What you like and what is reason behind the things you dislike. An amazing dialogue sprang to mind. Dil me heer liye aur heer khoje veerane me. This step lets you understand what your values are.
Third step to Set some goals. This step helps you understand what you want and what you can achieve. After setting goals, start working to achieve. Make some plan, what you need to change in your life style. What new habits you need to develop to achieve those goals. If possible break these goals to manageable small step and focus on these steps and start do small and short achievements.
Fourth step to Stop comparing yourself. Everyone has a different journey. Some understand what they want earlier and start their journey much earlier. You never reach their level but you can become better in longer run. If you start today, then with in 5 years you are much in better position.
There is one bouns but optional step. That is about reflection. Start writing journal. And at the end of day. reflect on everything that happen. What you can do little different to achieve different results. Revise it and review it.
I was listening to a podcast where he discussed the concept of learning by doing. I think he is right. One of the most effective methods for learning anything is through hands-on experience. For example, if you want to learn programming or human language, you must practice or do it.
The second way is observation. Remember, when you visit a motorbike or car mechanic, young interns are merely observers. They are helpers, but they learn with observation. How are others doing? You observe and then do. Children learn anything from their parents. I continue to learn from my experiences and from the actions of others.
Teaching is the third method. If you want to learn any subject, start teaching it. When you are explaining anything to others, our minds think in different ways. Do you remember the rubber duck method? When you are unable to solve your programming problem, use the rubber duck method. Pick a rubber duck and start explaining it to him. Your mind solved the problem.
I was reading the second book of Mediation By Marcus Aurelius
When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly. They are like this because they can’t tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own—not of the same blood or birth, but the same mind, and possessing a share of the divine. And so none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me in ugliness. Nor can I feel angry at my relative, or hate him. We were born to work together like feet, hands, and eyes, like the two rows of teeth, upper and lower. To obstruct each other is unnatural. To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him: these are obstructions.
It’s very strange for me that the first annotation talks about acceptance and cooperation with each other. Marcus Aurelius said to accept every human being as they are. Sometimes we wonder why that happens to us or why others behave strangly. Later, I discovered that people were with us until we had common goals. When they achieved their shared interest, they changed. They betrayed.
Jealousy is a natural phenomenon. People can be jealous of us without any reason. Same rule apply to us, we are also jealous a few people.
In life, people motivate us to achieve something; under the hood, they are going to achieve their own goals. And when they achieved those goals, they betrayed us.
People behave badly with us. They are arrogant; they do it intensely to get attention; they know we reflect back on them; or they like the pain or misery on our faces. However, it’s possible that their actions are a result of their circumstances. But the question is: why do we expect good behavior from them? They are busy in their own world. We seek outside approval only when we are not satisfied with ourselves. Therefore, seek approval from within.
Marcus Aurelius says that all these people have the same mind as we do, and everything I see or feel is related to us.
Ancient people believed that all people shared the same spite and that all people connected with each other in some way. Marcus Aurelius talks about other people who are not our blood relatives but who have very similar minds, bodies, and spirits. If we see something evil in others, we should first find it in ourselves and correct it rather than criticizing.
Most of the time, the situation is not a problem, but the reaction to it creates a problem. It’s our thoughts. Understanding this prevents them from hurting us, the situation, and other people’s behavior. In simple Urdu, “asa hee hayee, churo isya.” “Accept them as they are; let it go.”.
Most of the time, stress does not come from situations, but our reaction to those situations creates a problem. No matter how badly people treat us, we can still control our response. How we feel and think. If we control our inner world, it can have no impact on us. And no one can make us angry and respond in an evil way.
Marcus Aurelius talks about how every person has different qualities. And no one has all of those qualities. God creates in such a way that people can work together. They work with each other to build a functional body. Similar to different body parts of the human body, each part cannot function individually and has different functions to perform. All human body parts work together, so a human being survived. Its nature’s rule that humans have to cooperate with each other.
It’s our divine duty to work with each other, not against each other.
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Hey guys, welcome back to the consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. Addictions are something that is hard to overcome, even by practising multiple remedies. There are several types of addiction, which may include smoking addiction, drug addiction, vaping addiction, or even nicotine addiction. In this video, we will talk about multiple ways in which we can overcome smoking habits. Are you a smoker? If yes, then you are going to find this video informative for quitting it. Quitting smoking is a hell of a big task, whether you are an occasional smoker or a chronic smoker. An addiction is never easy to overcome, specifically when it is nicotine- or tobacco-related. Smoking has not only physiological impacts but also adverse impacts on one’s mental health. The main ingredient in tobacco is nicotine, and nicotine has chronic effects on users’ health. Nicotine directly impacts your nervous system, causing it to release dopamine, which is the happy hormone. Why do people become addicted to it? The mere reason for becoming addicted to tobacco smoke is its ultimate impact on mental well-being. According to some surveys, people have various reasons for smoking. For instance, some people smoke to cope with depression, anxiety, and stress so they can provide themselves with mental relief. Some individuals opted for smoking as a fashion, while others started it under the influence of their bad company.
Is smoking a daily ritual? The answer to this question is definitely yes. People have developed an instinct for smoking; they have unintentionally included smoking as a part of their daily activities. For instance, some people have included smoking in their breakfast routine, while others have included it in their coffee routine. In order to gain a full stop to smoking, you need to identify the routes of habit and the triggers that are ultimately causing you to smoke drastically. It is nearly impossible to quit smoking immediately, but it can be done in phases and gradually. Let’s dig into the video to find out some useful ways to overcome the chronic habit of smoking.
To keep track of your smoking, several questions need to be answered. For instance, you have to ask yourself questions like, Are you a heavy smoker? Or are you an occasional smoker? Are there certain activities or people associated with this habit? Do you buy cigarettes when you are feeling down or stressed out? All of these factors are to be taken into account so that your smoking routine can be traced. After having answers to these questions, the strategy to quit smoking will take place.
Avoid triggers
Tiggers are those products that aggravate your need to smoke. For instance, alcohol, e-cigarettes, people who smoke around you, or the end of any meal People who smoke around you make it challenging for you to quit smoking, so try to stay away from such people or else publicly announce your decision to quit smoking so that smokers won’t smoke around you. Some people develop this habitual thing of making themselves light at the end of every meal with the help of cigarettes. However, this meal-lightening strategy needs to be replaced with fruit or some kind of dessert. If there is a peculiar kind of trauma that triggers your depression to inhale smoke, try to avoid such gatherings or such conversations. You just have to be self-aware of yourself so that you can avoid environmental triggers to prevent yourself from developing this addiction. Are you guys aware of your triggers? If yes, then let me know in the comment section.
Chew on it.
The main goal of quitting smoking is to give your mouth something distracting so that it may not crave smoke. In order to solve this dilemma, it is highly recommended to begin chewing gum or lozenges in its place. This way, you will trick your brain into chewing gum or candy and stay away from tobacco smoke.
Don’t have “just one.”
In the journey of rehabilitation, various thoughts in your mind provoke you to take just one last cigarette. You don’t have to fool yourself into such vicious thoughts because the circle goes on and on and you never get to quit smoking tobacco. So try to overcome that “one last cigarette,” because it’s just a foolish act to destroy yourself.
Get physical
Engage yourself in physical activities, which can aid you in overcoming your tobacco smoking habits. Try running, doing workouts, and going upstairs and downstairs in your office, which can help you engage yourself while keeping you away from the craving for smoke.
Try relaxation methods.
Some people have seen the aggravation of smoking due to increased stress and mental health issues. Try some relaxing activities like yoga, massage, meditation, and deep breathing so that you can keep yourself away from stress, which ultimately prevents you from smoking.
Seek moral support from family and friends.
Ask your family members or friends to regularly support you in quitting smoking. The moral support helps you boost your mental and physical courage. Mental power is extremely important to fight anything. The restrictions exist only in our minds, so break those boundaries and overcome your fears.
Remind yourself of the benefits.
Start journaling about your journey and all the blessings you have received so far. When you keep track of your assets, you are less likely to fall and leap behind. The bounties give you the motivation to overcome all the possible addictions. When you remember the benefits, like getting healthy, feeling better, saving money, and saving your life, you eventually feel worthy of doing the hard stuff.
Try nicotine replacement therapy.
The nicotine replacement therapy requires the aid of medical and professional healthcare. You can buy lozenges, gums, nicotine patches, or prescribed non-nicotine stop-smoking drugs such as bupropion.
Manage cravings
Whenever you crave a cigarette, try applying suppressive strategies like distracting yourself by watching TV, using the phone, or spending time with family. Get out of the tempting situation and remember why you started the whole journey.
Reward yourself
A brain works better when it is rewarded for performing a certain task. This reward works as motivation to keep going on your journey.
Concluding the whole video, smoking is injurious to health, and its addiction is difficult to overcome. By following these strategies, you can easily quit smoking. Stay tuned for more interesting content.
There are ups and downs in life. Possible this time we are at our lowest point in life. Sometimes results are not coming. Due to frustration, we start to think about quitting or giving up. If you are facing this situation, this video is for you.
1-This is a phase.
Tough times come in life. These are part of life. They will never last forever.
There is a quote: “Tough times never last, but tough people do”. Life is a cycle of highs and lows. Remember. These times will never last forever. These phases of life also passed. There is a storm in life now; when the storm passes, a new day will come. Hold on.
2-You are stronger than you think.
Most of the time, stress comes from inside, not outside circumstances. Because in the past, we performed well. But now is a tough time or a bad situation. It does not mean you cannot perform well again.
You are still the same; you are still strong. This tough time also teaches you.
Remember many similar situations occurred previously, and you survived them well then.
You have inner strength.
Believe you can still reach your potential, and you will solve this problem.
Remember that you are more capable than you think. You are stronger than you believe.
3-Small steps count.
There is a saying that when fog is everywhere and you cannot see anything, you can still see one step. And when you take that step, one more step is again visible. And these small steps lead you to better
Progress isn’t always a leap forward. Sometimes it’s tiny, almost imperceptible steps. Each step, no matter how small, brings you closer to your goal. Celebrate every bit of progress. Slow and steady can still win the race. Keep moving forward.
4-Remember Your ‘Why’.
Think back to the reasons why you started. Reconnect with your motivation and your goals.
The successful people are those who stay more persistent than others. They also have lows and highs in their lives. And, perhaps most importantly, they understand why they do what they do.
This is why you should keep them going. This is why I did not let them down.
5-Failure is a stepping stone.
When the toughest failure comes to mind, always remember that every failure is another opportunity to learn. But it does not mean you should stop. First effort, so you cannot fail. Failure is not an option, but if you meet failure, it is another stepping stone.
6-Practice self-care.
First of all, you have to take care of yourself. Practice self-care.
Eat healthy food.
Do exercise.
Take proper 6-hour sleep.
Enjoy the company of loved ones.
Do meditation.
Spend time in activities that you love.
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Remember, tough times never last, but tough people will.
This period will soon be over. You will come out happier. Remember, after winter, there will always be a bright sky. See you in the next video.
Hey guys welcome to consultant mindset. I hope you guys are doing great. A goal cannot be achieved until it is incorporated with a fixed intention. Dreaming about all the wildest things is not enough to proceed towards a peculiar goal. You must continue to pursue those wild dreams with persistent efforts and struggle. Determination is that force which ignites you to move towards your goal no matter how many hurdles and challenges come between you and your goal. You never turn your back on your dreams. There may be times when you feel like quitting and not moving forward. This is the stimulus that you still need to push yourself towards the determined goals. In the beginning, you may feel that you are not making any progress but it is just a mere delusion. You only stop making progress when you stop working. Quitting is the only tool which can stop your progress. Determination is a powerful weapon that keeps you firmly attached to your goal. A goal without determination and persistence is just useless. The achievement of goals is a set of multiple components which are required to make them practically possible.
You’ve done it before and you can do it now. See the positive possibilities. Redirect the substantial energy of your frustration and turn it into positive, effective, unstoppable determination.
All the creators and successful personalities who are enjoying the limelight of success passed through such difficult times and challenges but they never gave up. The famous, CEO and founder of SpaceX and Tesla, Elon Musk was not wealthy from the start. He initiated a small business with his brother in their apartment. The idea was to sell their products to the people with the aid of the Internet. But in that era, the use of the internet was not common. Many people didn’t know about it so they used to get zero sales. But the significant tool they kept with them was they never gave up. They started selling their products door to door until their company became successful. That is how Elon Musk became rich and successful. He never lost to setbacks and failures; he has always learned from them. That’s why today his companies are growing tremendously and immense sales have become his fate.
Desire is the key to motivation, but it’s determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal – a commitment to excellence – that will enable you to attain the success you seek.
Another prominent brand that remained stuck to its goal and kept on improving its product is Microsoft. It is another example which remained determined to make their company a humongous success. The products of Microsoft were rejected several times, but Bill Gates along with his team continued to put undefined efforts into them. In the end, they succeeded in making these products a great success.
The important thing to realise in this whole scenario is not to confuse stubbornness with determination. Determination is mainly sticking to your goals and improving persistently, whereas stubbornness is just sticking to your goals without making any improvements.
How can you continue to improve yourself and remain determined towards your goals?
Keep Measurable Goals
Having meaningful and practically achievable goals is a significant game changer. Goal setting is important but, before that going for measurable goals holds great importance. It is useless to waste your energy and resources on those goals that are not even within your human limit. Act wise and always choose those goals that are within the boundary of human capability. Determination is an ongoing dynamic journey toward a compelling vision that cannot be denied.
Faith In Yourself
Having confidence in oneself is of utmost significance, as it empowers you to attain goals that might otherwise appear unattainable. Self-belief gives you beast powers and makes you do wonders. You might experience feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness towards a specific goal, but in this very moment, it’s crucial not to overlook your inner strength and determination, which have the potential to enable remarkable achievements.
Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.
At times, your inner voice provides more accurate guidance than all the advice that surrounds you. During the journey, you may reach a point where you must make a particularly challenging decision. This will be the moment when you need to consider your intuition. Trusting your instincts will lead to results that prove beneficial for your interests.
Dedication is the key that can make you achieve your ultimate humongous goals. You should never leave the side of dedication and always remain glued to it.
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Hey guys I hope you are doing great. Welcome back to our channel the consultant mindset. Before we dive into our new video remember to subscribe to our channel. Life is all about struggles and challenges. Some of us remain dedicated throughout this whole process while some lose hope and start to get demotivated. A person becomes demotivated due to a reason like being unable to get his interest in the task. The task done without any rewards or fun bears no fruit at all. A fresh student always takes initiative with all his might and it is human nature to remain boosted at the beginning of any task. The real task is to remain motivated and consistent in the entire journey. To keep up that motivation, we have to suffer with a lot of hardships and difficulties. But in the end, we succeed in achieving them. How do the students remain dedicated towards their tasks? It requires a lot of effort to remain dedicated and consistent in what you do. Motivation is not something you can get on the plate.
Is It Normal to Never Feel Motivated While Studying?
The answer to this question is yes, it is alright if you don’t feel the spark of motivation all the time. Humans have emotions and they are unable to remain lively and cheerful all the time. This is what differentiates us from robots.
How can we ignite ourselves to remain motivated? What are those strategies by which we can approach persistent dedication and mastership to remain motivated?
Set Clear Goals
Setting goals is quite significant in the journey of accomplishment. A self-aware person and sensible person is always bestowed with this knowledge of what he wants in his life. A journey without objectives is just like you are wandering in the dark without any luminescence. Setting goals makes everything clear to you. When the path is known to you, achieving the journey won’t be a difficult task for you. While setting goals, your goals must be measurable and achievable. It is important to take this thing into account that goals which are practically impossible to achieve should not be taken into consideration. Aiming for immeasurable goals wastes the time and effort of an individual. It is better to work smart rather than hard. As a student, if you want to complete your study goals then it is required to set some easy measurable goals. This way the thought of achieving the measurable goal won’t lower your energy.
Set your goals high, and don’t stop till you get there.
Creating a schedule for studies not only organises your life but also makes you feel motivated. Creating a well-structured study schedule can indeed induce motivation and help you stay on track with your studies. A schedule provides a sense of order, clarity, and purpose, making it easier to manage your time effectively. You can initiate this by building the timetable with your existing commitments of classes, homework and extracurricular activities. Determine how much time you have available for all your important chores.
Set Priorities
Setting priorities holds a significant importance in a student’s life. Students have deadlines and due dates in their assignments and projects so they need to prioritise those things that are of great interest. The assignments and projects which need to be submitted earlier should be completed first. This way it will release a sense of accomplishment and make the student feel motivated. Focus on those objectives which have a greater impact on your lives.
To those of you who received honours, awards and distinctions, I say well done. And to the C students, I say you, too, can be president of the United States.
It is necessary to stay committed while studying because commitment is something that needs to be fulfilled. Dedication is possible only when you remain sincere with yourself. We tend to lose motivation when it comes to an end. the level of motivation and dedication should not get distracted by the surroundings. Always remain committed to yourself and to your goals as well. Staying committed can be challenging but it is necessary in achieving your academic goals.
Productivity is never an accident. It is always the result of a commitment to excellence, intelligent planning, and focused effort.
Studying books, articles or newspapers related to your field can help you remain dedicated and committed to your goal. Always try to remain involved in the matters that can aid you in polishing your skills. Ups and downs are part of life and we should not feel lower after facing setbacks or failures. Always aim for high so you can achieve high.
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Ideas are innovative thoughts that can spark us at any time. Those ideas can be of various niches either related to academics, business, arts or anything of an individual’s interest. Ideas come and drift away in seconds so it is highly advised mates, to keep your ideas in a chest box so they never escape your mind. Sometimes fantastic ideas can lead to many super beneficial profits. A person’s life is entirely dependent on how he thinks. Our mindset plays a significant role in determining how we live life and how can we sustain that lifestyle. Have you ever wondered what kind of lifestyle you possess? There are two types of mindsets. One is a growth mindset and the other is a fixed mindset.
Individuals who have growth mindsets possess the ultimate ability to change their destinies. They never accept defeat. They always believe that there is room for improvement. People who have stagnant mindsets like fixed ones remain stuck in the same position. they never win. Since you guys know the difference between the two terms, let me know in the comment section which type of mindset you have.
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Entrepreneurship is a kind of emerging field these days. This emerging field requires some resources, goals, and humans to compile those ideas into better results. Anyone can establish a business. However, developing a winning business with guaranteed success is tough. The first step towards establishing a winning business is to have that peculiar mindset.
How Do We Establish That Mindset?
A winning business mindset requires a set of goals, a plan of action to achieve, and the ability to embrace the challenges with resilience, and confidence. The development of a successful business requires many more things than resources. Ability to combat all the failures and challenges, never giving up on your dreams, learning from mistakes, developing problem-solving skills, and decision-making skills. A winning mindset should have concrete and measurable goals. The goals that are practically not within the human boundary can lead to struggle and hardships with no result at all. The ultimate goal is to establish a successful business while overcoming every failure and hardship. Setting goals is extremely important in this journey. we need a road map to reach our destination likewise, we need a road map to achieve our goals. Setting goals provides us with a clear view towards our final step.
Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.
The importance of a goal should never be underestimated. A growth mindset lets you learn new things and makes you a better person. Whenever we go to a new place, we require some guidance to guide us through that journey. Without a guide, we can never explore the art of things. That’s how goals play a role in our lives. They act as a guide. A firm understanding of having goals aids in developing a new pathway to one’s journey.
The setting of goals is followed by the plan of action. To establish a successful and sustainable business, all the necessary measures are decided beforehand. The development of a business outline involves the goals, objectives strategies and plans that will be used to attain them. Establishing a winning business requires a strategic mindset as well as a strong mindset. Keeping in view all the drawbacks and limitations, developing a sustainable and profit-yielding business plan is necessary.
I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
Developing a business requires many skills other than the resources and finances associated with it. The potential risks associated with the business plan shall also be taken into consideration.
Accepting change in the journey of developing a plan is a critical step. Here change refers to any failure or obstacle. It is human nature that when we encounter any failure, we tend to question our existence. We immediately lose our motivation and we start to devalue ourselves. however, it ain’t right. Facing failures does not mean that you are not capable. Failures are part of your training. They train you and broaden your spectrum of viewing things. The challenges and failures strengthen your capabilities. This way you start to find new possibilities and begin to view things differently. To develop success, it is recommended to embrace failures wholeheartedly. Let the change begin.
To grow your business, try to learn from your mistakes. Never remain stagnant in one place after encountering failure. Learn from it and never let that same mistake happen to you again. Dwelling on mistakes can be harmful to your business’s mindset. It becomes challenging when you have to face constant hardships. At this point, stay motivated and patient. Patience will yield tremendous results.
When you look at successful people, you will find that they aren’t the people who are motivated but have consistency in their motivation.
Staying motivated is the only way by which you can keep moving forward. Having a growth mindset requires staying motivated and facing hardships bravely. Have you ever felt that you are losing motivation? If yes, then the easiest way to keep up with the motivation is to remember the outcome of the journey. The result will always help you to stay calm and motivated.
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Our personality is the reflection of things going on in our minds. When we have a positive attitude towards life, we handle life more appropriately. Is it all about being an optimistic approach? If you ask me, then it is a big yes. It is mainly about your mindset and the ignition you get after a certain praise. We become what we believe. If I think that I am a naive person who can never speak for his rights, then I will forever remain like that. I will only be able to overcome that once I work on my mindset. Our mindset defines who we are. Our perspectives and attitudes are merely determined by the mindset we hold. So, having a positive and creative mindset aids you establish a successful future. Success is directly linked to our mindsets. Some people believe that their success is merely because of luck. However, it isn’t true. Success is a doorway to new experiences, new frameworks and new strategies. You become more aware of your talents and skills. In this way, achieving new things becomes an absolutely fun task for you. A person who has a growing mindset always goes for challenges and hardships. He never fears any failure or defeat. He always welcomes troubles and challenges. These challenges help him discover his critical thinking and his novel talents. How do you train your mind to become successful? The first step is to make yourself accept the fact it is okay to make mistakes. People who reprimand themselves for making a mistake never get to improve their self. Give yourself space and try to realize the fact that you are human and you tend to make mistakes. A person learns from his mistakes. Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure… than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in a grey twilight that knows not victory nor defeat. Theodore Roosevelt
What Do We Mean By Developing a Positive Attitude? It is not about wearing coloured clothes or wearing a smile all the time. Never giving up is a positive attitude. Never turning your back after facing so many failures and hardships is all about a positive attitude. Keeping up the courage and always welcoming trouble with a sense of responsibility is a positive attitude. The unbreakable attitude that always makes you keep going and keep unleashing the true capabilities of your personality is an optimistic mindset. The fun fact is that we cannot be always like this. When some humongous challenge strikes us, we start to lose our faith and belief.
We have to stand by those beliefs and should never fall for such traps. Having such a staunch mindset will never let you fall. Having faith in yourself that you have always done it and that you can still do it is the key. Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Have your efforts been ever acknowledged? Has anyone ever appreciated you for even the smallest of your efforts? If yes, then let me know in the comments section. Before that, don’t forget to like and subscribe to our channel. ‘You are so good at it! wow, you are so loving, Goodness, you are so talented.” such comments can randomly make your mood livelier and can make you do things even better. Working strenuously without even your efforts getting acknowledged is a hell of a difficult task. Never acknowledging someone’s true efforts is what can ruin your mood and can drain your energy. Praising someone is just like igniting their hidden dedication to perform things more accurately. Praising is not necessary for children only it is essential for adolescent kids as well. Everyone wants to get acknowledged for their constant efforts and struggles. It is like payback for what you are doing already. You become a more firm person to get to anything you want. Appreciating is such a humble thing. You may feel awkward appreciating people but for some individuals, it is a huge relief. Appreciating other people is not considered an easy task in our society. Either people are jealous of you or they are too shy to tell you how good you are doing it. According to a recent study, employees that were not being praised by their higher-ups had more odds of encountering coronary disease. The cost of devaluing others might be bigger than expected. We just move our tongue and say the thing without even realising that our words can demolish other person’s health. If you find it hard to appreciate others, then it depicts that you are too harsh on yourself as well. Try asking yourself some questions that ‘Am I proud of myself?’ ‘am I a good human being?’
There are two things people want more than money… recognition and praise. Mary Kay Ash Focus on evaluating yourself. When you become courageous enough to appreciate yourself, appreciating others will then be a piece of cake for you. The important task is that you should be mindful of your praise. For instance, you cannot praise someone for that one thing which is not under his control like commenting on someone for his height. Height is a genetic trait and one cannot do anything about it. Try praising those things that have been developed by mere hard work. Concluding the whole video, people like to get appreciated for the things they do. Make it a custom to appreciate people on the easiest of the tasks they do. This will develop an optimist community with growing mindsets. Hope you guys enjoyed today’s video. Stay tuned for more interesting content.
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Hey, guys hope you are doing great. Welcome back to the consultant mindset. Everyone in their lives must have come across this question once in a lifetime. Why are we here? What’s the meaning of our life? What’s the mere purpose? The question of human existence is quite different for every religion. Every human is curious to find the answer to this question. What’s the point of our existence in this world? Many humans on this planet are living a meaningless life. They don’t know what to do with their lives. They are just spending their lives in constant struggles. They are spending their lives doing the bare minimum. They aren’t aware of their purpose in life. Many people have come across this thought quite a several times now. If you think like this then you are not alone in this situation. It is completely normal.
First off first, it is necessary to determine the correct definition of a meaningful life. Every individual has his perspective. They perceive life in their way. Not all of us have the same motto for life. A meaningful life is a construct of coherence, happiness and satisfaction. There can be different ways of a meaningful life. Every individual has his passion. Some want to excel in their academic career whereas some want to pursue in their jobs or businesses. A meaningful life refers to how are we going to spend our life. Either we spend it doing things of our passion or spend it wasting time on other garbage.
Life becomes meaningful when it has a purpose. When we become destined to achieve certain goals in our lives, life gets directed eventually. Having goals and purpose and striving for them day and night lets us put some major efforts to strive through the situation. Finding meaning in one’s life is a personal journey. It requires some time but gradually streamlines you towards a meaningful life. Where you enjoy doing your thing instead of dragging it. A purposeful life lets you overcome any difficulty with much ease. Since you choose a life of your choice you become capable to cope with its hardships as well. How can we establish a meaningful life? A meaningful isn’t related to a successful life. If you’re having a satisfied mindset, you feel happy and contented and you’re good to go. People have this misconception that a happy life is somehow related to a meaningful life. You can be successful and live a meaningless life at the same time. For example, a person who is earning less but is doing a job of his interest is better than a person who’s a business tycoon and isn’t passionate about his work. It’s good to have less earnings with a passionate job. Develop a Passion or Find Your Passion Anyone has some passion in their lives. While some are just living a trash life doing nothing at all. how can we determine our passion? Well, certain things in our lives make us feel happier and contented. It can either be some art or business etc. we just have to find that happiness and satisfaction. Some people find their happiness at a very old age but it is never too late to find out the exact purpose of your life. If you don’t have any passion, strive for one or find one. Develop Relationships Sometimes we develop such relationships in our lives to whom we become willing to devote our entire lives. There should be the existence of such people in our lives. We love seeing those people. Our unfinished love for them makes us do anything for them. We cannot imagine our lives without them. We try to live for them. We try to focus on ourselves for them. It is necessary to find some meaningful people in our lives that will let us move forward always. Life is like the ride of a camel stranded in a desert striving barely under the dazzling rays of the sun. if we want to keep going, stay connected to ones who never care to back off. People who are always willing to push you through your hard times. Keep lifting you no matter how hard you fall. Do you guys have such gems in your lives? Let me know in the comment section. Monitor Your Mood Motivation is entirely dependent on your mood. You are not always in the mood to get things done. Since we are not machines there are times when we become extremely exhausted and become unwilling to do anything. At that time, you must not forgive and indulge yourself in other activities. Some random activities like games, exercise, reading books etc can divert your attention. after some relaxation, you again become strong enough to combat problems for your passion. Monitoring Passion As You Age The interest of an individual changes throughout life. We have different interests at different stages of life. For instance, older people are more likely to indulge themselves in fun activities. They have trouble establishing new relationships but gradually they develop some really fun activities and continue to pursue them as their passion. These are some ways which can help you direct your lives towards a specific goal. That’s all for today. Stay tuned for more amazing stuff.
