We can not happy every one. People always happy with us only when, we are lesser then them. They feel superior in our presence. Or we move according to their wishes. It is very difficult to make them happy. We can do that in some cases when interest is there. They have skills we dont have.
Never become people pleaser. Avoid it. Its perfectly acceptable that some people are not happy with us. We dont know where we put our shoes on their toe. We can not cut ourselves according to their wishes. If we are intentionally in competition with some one else. Its ok.
But in some cases, it worse when we feel inferior in their presence. They tried to prove that they are something. in that situation we deal them. We can handle them but we can not happy. We have to control our nerves. We have to work on why we feel inferior. if we can change that thing or weakness. we have to work on that. We can not we have to accept our weakness which they are exploiting.
But never become people pleaser. Be come cool person. friendly person but never come people pleaser.
I read some where. The person from every one is happy is died from inside.