I read about “connected the dots” theory by Steve Jobs. It simple means, we can not predict our future just day dreaming and thinking. We can only look into past and access how we face the challenges, How we deal with failures.
If you found similarity. Your future can be predict the same. Prediction is not 100 percent accurate. There is possibility you learned from your mistakes. You were not mature at that time. you vision was not bright as it was that time.
“Bulleh shah shaoo taanu milse dill no day dulaari”
Why I remember this couplet by baba bulleh shah because he mentioned, make your heart courageous.
I am facing the same problem. I am relocating to some other country and my heart is pumping. What will happens. Will be I successful . Or I will be fired. Because both these events exists in my past.
What should a person do, when there are both successes and failure in past. I got that conclusion. Check what are more. Successes then certainly you will successful. And if failure certainly you will be successful. Because it is your story. You can rewrite it. We can not alter our past, but we can alter our memories, feelings about you. You can modify your story.
We told ourselves stories about why that happen and as result I failed. Why not you change your story. That I learned from that moment, that I have to do things in different way. We can change our story.