Starts with what resources we have.

Life has different experiences. Sometimes I saw, that someone don’t have good resources and he made a huge difference. While some have huge resources and he unable to produce something.

Back in 2015, I was working for one company, that Hired 300 resource around the world for certain technology. And Joke starts to escalate that even Microsoft did not have such number of resource.

One place, I was working in IT section. Manager used to said that we don’t have good resources. If we have then we produce exceptional results.

While working for very small company, IT section, I found very old computer that support oracle 6. Not even Oracle 6 i. The IT manager of that company produces a application that supports the whole company. I never saw him to said that we don’t have resource. He accept the resources he had, and utilize them to produce something.

While submit a admission request in UET Lahore, I saw a young student, with very poor cloths and signs of ink on his cloths. Means he so poor that he did not have cloths to visit university. He had exceptional marks in FSC. While the admission form I am going to submit for friends son, has very low marks and very rare chance that he gets admission. Even I compare myself. I saw that I have every resource I had, but my marks were not exceptional. I just passed the exam.

While working with current team. Currently I got very weakest resources to start working. Others drag best resource with them. Now instead to weep, I start utilize that resource in best of interest.

Now I feel that resource does not matter. We have to utilize what we have. Our journey starts the moment we realize that we have to change and start from the right moment, where we are.

But many people still standing on the same place and think about “Kash main kaal yaa kam start kar lata”. Just start. Start what you have.

How to live a Meaningful life I Purposeful life I Consultant Mindset I Create a Meaningful life

Hey, guys hope you are doing great. Welcome back to the consultant mindset. Everyone in their lives must have come across this question once in a lifetime. Why are we here? What’s the meaning of our life? What’s the mere purpose? The question of human existence is quite different for every religion. Every human is curious to find the answer to this question. What’s the point of our existence in this world? Many humans on this planet are living a meaningless life. They don’t know what to do with their lives. They are just spending their lives in constant struggles. They are spending their lives doing the bare minimum. They aren’t aware of their purpose in life. Many people have come across this thought quite a several times now. If you think like this then you are not alone in this situation. It is completely normal.

First off first, it is necessary to determine the correct definition of a meaningful life. Every individual has his perspective. They perceive life in their way. Not all of us have the same motto for life. A meaningful life is a construct of coherence, happiness and satisfaction. There can be different ways of a meaningful life. Every individual has his passion. Some want to excel in their academic career whereas some want to pursue in their jobs or businesses. A meaningful life refers to how are we going to spend our life. Either we spend it doing things of our passion or spend it wasting time on other garbage.

Life becomes meaningful when it has a purpose. When we become destined to achieve certain goals in our lives, life gets directed eventually. Having goals and purpose and striving for them day and night lets us put some major efforts to strive through the situation.  Finding meaning in one’s life is a personal journey. It requires some time but gradually streamlines you towards a meaningful life. Where you enjoy doing your thing instead of dragging it. A purposeful life lets you overcome any difficulty with much ease. Since you choose a life of your choice you become capable to cope with its hardships as well. 

How can we Establish a Meaningful Life?

A meaningful isn’t related to a successful life. If you’re having a satisfied mindset, you feel happy and contented and you’re good to go. People have this misconception that a happy life is somehow related to a meaningful life. You can be successful and live a meaningless life at the same time. For example, a person who is earning less but is doing a job of his interest is better than a person who’s a business tycoon and isn’t passionate about his work. It’s good to have less earnings with a passionate job.

Develop a passion or find your passion 

Anyone has some passion in their lives. While some are just living a trash life doing nothing at all. how can we determine our passion? Well, certain things in our lives make us feel happier and contented. It can either be some art or business etc. we just have to find that happiness and satisfaction. Some people find their happiness at a very old age but it is never too late to find out the exact purpose of your life. If you don’t have any passion, strive for one or find one.

Develop relationships 

Sometimes we develop such relationships in our lives to whom we become willing to devote our entire lives. There should be the existence of such people in our lives. We love seeing those people. Our unfinished love for them makes us do anything for them. We cannot imagine our lives without them. We try to live for them. We try to focus on ourselves for them. It is necessary to find some meaningful people in our lives that will let us move forward always. Life is like the ride of a camel stranded in a desert striving barely under the dazzling rays of the sun. if we want to keep going, stay connected to ones who never care to back off. People who are always willing to push you through your hard times. Keep lifting you no matter how hard you fall. Do you guys have such gems in your lives? Let me know in the comment section.

Monitor Your Mood

Motivation is entirely dependent on your mood. You are not always in the mood to get things done. Since we are not machines there are times when we become extremely exhausted and become unwilling to do anything. At that time, you must not forgive and indulge yourself in other activities. Some random activities like games, exercise, reading books etc can divert your attention. after some relaxation, you again become strong enough to combat problems for your passion.

Monitoring Passion as you Age 

The interest of an individual changes throughout life. We have different interests at different stages of life. For instance, older people are more likely to indulge themselves in fun activities. They have trouble establishing new relationships but gradually they develop some really fun activities and continue to pursue them as their passion.

These are some ways which can help you direct your lives towards a specific goal. That’s all for today. Stay tuned for more amazing stuff.

ہاں کچھ بھی مسلہ ہو بس خاموش رہو

میں horoscope پڑ ہ رہا تھا . کتنا سہی لکھا ہے . 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FC0Yq0r16m4

“Are you having problems with your phone, Aries? Is traffic out of control? Perhaps it might be best to stay home today and put conversations with your friends on hold for a while. You might miss a call from someone far away, but the person will try to reach you later. Relax, make yourself some tea, and enjoy the silence. A little quiet time now and then is good for you.”

ہاں کچھ بھی مسلہ ہو بس خاموش رہو . خاموشی کا انجو کرو . جب درد کنٹرول سے باہر ہو جائے تو صرف گھر میں بند ہو جاؤ کیوں کے ذکر کرنے سے کچھ بھی نہی ہو گا . جو دشمن ہیں وہ انجوکریں  گے . اور دوست صرف افسوس . دونو طریقہ سے کچھ ہونے والہ نہی ہے 

سلطان باہو کا ہے  اشلوک  

Dard andar daa andar saarhe,
Baahar karaan taan ghaayal hoo.

Haal asaadaa keeven jaanan,
Jo duneeaa te maayal hoo.

درد اندر دے اندر سڑے 

باہر کران تے گھل ھو 

حال آ سااڈا کئ ون  جانن 

جو دنیا تے ما یل ھو 

میں نے ایک جگہ پڑھا تھا کے درد کا حل  نہی پر تکلیف اختیاری ہے۔

اور پریشانی خاموش رہنے سے کم اور بیان کرنے سے زیادہ  ہوتی ہے

Pain is invertible, suffering is optional

I was reading my horoscope. It mention something similar

“Are you having problems with your phone, Aries? Is traffic out of control? Perhaps it might be best to stay home today and put conversations with your friends on hold for a while. You might miss a call from someone far away, but the person will try to reach you later. Relax, make yourself some tea, and enjoy the silence. A little quiet time now and then is good for you.”

How accurate it, also gives me some advise. Pain is invertible, suffering is optional. I also read some where, worries increases if we discuss. It reduce when we silent.

Is there any benefit to weep what happens to us. Is anybody interested in our pain. No nobody is interested in it. Yes a few people, who are enjoying how we suffer. We are not in good shape.

Is they solve our problem. not.

Keep silent and keep

Sultan Bhu couplet also says something similar

Dard andar daa andar saarhe,Baahar karaan taan ghaayal hoo.

Haal asaadaa keeven jaanan,Jo duneeaa te maayal hoo.

Pain, should be remains reside in heart, even it burns inside, if I share, it will hurt me ( It will use to hurt me)

(what is benefit to share) It is only understand by those who faced the similar situation.

How to defend your solution as consultant

In Consultancy, we have to provide solutions. And we have to defend our solution.

Our colleagues are our biggest competitors. We are working as team, but every one is different.

https://youtu.be/fspjeA4MSuk

There is sayings, colleagues are friendly but not friend.

When you provide solution, Think about it,

  • What are alternatives possible
  • What are pros and cons of your solution.
  • At least 3 example you made so you can defend your point.
  • How to defend your point.

In the case you are writing your document. Read each and every line many times, try to rephrase it. think that your sentence explain what you want to explain, will explain well. Can I write it better way.

These are recent tips I learn as consultant.

“Embracing Diversity: Strategies for Building a More Inclusive Workplace”

Life is full of challenges. It never fails to test you. Suppose your employer thinks you aren’t competent enough for your job. And he wants you to quit it. What are you going to do at that point? How are you going to deal with this situation? Such scenarios will never stop appearing. They will continue to disrupt your disciplined life. The only thing you must acknowledge is to keep going with this belief that this too shall pass. Managing your thoughts and taking the right step at such a crucial hour will prove your capabilities.  Now it depends on whether you rise again or prove them wrong. The first and foremost thing to keep in mind is to realise that you are enough and you aren’t compared to anyone. People doubting your abilities makes you feel unworthy. It lowers your self-esteem and decreases your motivation.  Altering your mindset is essential in changing your lifestyle. 

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Altering your mindset is necessary for overcoming daily life challenges. Challenges never stop coming into your life; you just have to establish ways to cope with them. 

How do we define adversity?

Any negative approach including poverty, rejection, struggling to succeed in a career or losing a loved one comes under the area of adversity.  We may all have to deal with adversity at some point in our lives. All of us have different coping mechanisms. So one way cannot work for the other.

What happens when adversity hits an individual?

Whenever it strikes, thousand of thoughts strike your mind at that point. You feel physically and mentally numb. You start to hate yourself. You gradually indulge yourself in stress and mental illnesses. First off first you have to let go of any expectations. It’s useless to cry over spilt milk. We cannot bring anything back. Just move on. It’s completely alright. If anything has dragged you down, you should not worry. You will succeed after facing failures. Accepting change is hard but it is necessary to make you strong and formidable. Mental health is necessary to overcome incoming challenges and hurdles. Bad things happening to you aren’t your fault. It is written in your destiny. And none can change it. To increase your resilience, it is necessary to let go.

The next step helps in overcoming adversity.

Refrain from making excuses

People who always blame others for their adversities are most likely to remain troubled. How can we free ourselves? if you are facing some challenges due to your own mistakes, don’t stress yourself too much. Even if it’s not your mistake just accept it and move on.  We often think that if we blame others we may feel contented. In this way, we never improve. Always making others guilty for your mistakes won’t let you get anywhere. You will continue to lag. And you can never be able to stand on your own. Stop making excuses and own what you have done. Don’t let yourself rot in a state of constant denial. Be brave and encounter it.

Positive self-talk

Well, it’s human nature to overthink every possible scenario. They tend to anticipate future incomings. And surprisingly most of the time they have to encounter those anticipated situations. At this point, you should continue to cheer yourself. So self-talk is necessary to unleash your true skills. We should continue praising ourselves. ‘I did great today”, “I am smart enough to get this job” I have prepared for this exam very well”. Such positive sentences help in uplifting self-esteem and you eventually do wonders. Maintain consistency and have a firm belief in yourself that you can do it. No matter how many times you fall you still can do it. 

Use your sense of humour

Everyone loves to laugh. Laughing boosts your mood and uplifts your sadness and depression. Laughing costs nothing. What are you waiting for then? A good sense of humour is a true blessing. Laughing results in the release of some happy hormones from the body. It also helps in strengthening the immunity of the human body making you less vulnerable to diseases. That’s certainly the reason why comedians live more than normal human beings. Life is too short to repent for your mistakes. Give it a huge laugh and move on.

Have faith 

Whenever we encounter adversity, we eventually lose faith. We think of the worst possible scenarios. Saying things like “ why it always happens to me?”, “Probably I am the bad luck”. Losing faith in yourself and God will make you sink into the depression. Hold on a little and you will be rewarded. We are impatient and want things to get done in no time. However, that’s not how the world works.

Celebrate success with positive mindsets 

No matter how big or small your success is. Celebrate it and acknowledge your skills and aptitudes. Your surroundings matter a lot. A man is known by the company he keeps. Surround yourself with positive mindset people. Such people will never let you fall. They will always instil some positive part in you keeping you motivated. 

That’s all for today’s blog post. Hope you guys enjoyed it.

How to become consultant Urdu Hindi

آپ کنسلٹنسی کے بارے میں کیا سوچتے ہیں۔ آہ، یہ کچھ بڑا ہے. جی ہاں، لوگ اس کے بارے میں کچھ ایسا ہی  سوچتے ہیں.

اس مختصر ویڈیو میں، میں آپ کو بتاتا ہوں کہ کنسلٹنسی کیا ہے۔ اور آپ کنسلٹنٹ کیسے بن سکتے ہیں ۔

  مجھے فخر محسوس ہوتا ہے، جب میں کہتا ہوں کہ میں کنسلٹنٹ ہوں۔ میں مائیکروسافٹک کی ایک  ٹیکنالوجی کا کنسلٹنٹ  ہوں۔

https://youtu.be/pUF2I_KnPSE

دراصل، کنسلٹنسی عارضی قسم کی نوکری ہے۔ آپ کلائنٹ کے پاس جاتے ہیں، ان سے بات چیت کرتے ہیں، ان کے مسائل سنتے ہیں، سننے کے بعد آپ تشخیص کرتے ہیں۔ حل فراہم کرتے ہیں ۔ اور کام ختم ؤ.

تو کنسلٹنٹ کیسے بنیں۔

– آپ کو کسی ٹیکنالوجی یا خدمات میں ماہر ہونا چاہیے۔

–  یاد رکھیے  کے ماہر کے لیے ہمیشہ جگہ ہوتی ہے۔

– اچھی کمیونیکشن  کی مہارتیں حاصل کریں ، تحریری اور بولنے دونوں لحاظ سے۔

خود احتسابی . بیٹھ کر اپنے روزومراہ کے مملات  کا جائزہ لیں۔ آپ نے کیا کیا، آپ نے کیا نتیجہ پایا، کن  نتائج کی توقع کی جائے، اگر آپ اسی نقطہ نظر کے تہت کام کرتے رہیں  اور اپروچ کو تبدیل کرنے کے لیے آپ کو کیا کرنے کی ضرورت ہے کے بہتر نتائج نکلیں ۔ خود احتساب   کرنے کا بہترین طریقہ یہ ہے کہ کیا ہوا ، تو کیا ہوگا  اور اب کیا حکمت عملی ہونی  چاہیے ۔

what ،so what ، now what 

امید ہے آپ کو یہ ویڈیو پسند آئے گی۔

How to be consultant

What you think about consultancy. Ah, it is something big. Yes, people think about it.

In this short video, I share you what consultancy is. And How you will become consultant.

I feel proud, when I say I am consultant. I am consultant of Microsoft technology.

Actually, consultancy is Temporary type of job. You go to client, communicate with them, listen to their problems, After listening, you diagnose. Provide the solution. And go.

So how to be a consultant.

https://youtu.be/1q16b1I529o
  • You must expert in some technology or services.
  • There is always space for specialist.
  • Good communication skills, both in terms of written and speak.
  • Reflection. Sit and revaluate your approach. What you did, what result you found, What will expected results, if you follow the same approach and what you need to do to change approach. Best way to follow is what, so what and what now strategy.

Hope you like this video.

How to deliver task error free as consultant.

Life is complicated. As consultant, we work on temporary types of job. One day, with in 6 months or year, this job will over. So we have to plan our way out. There are some days, on which we did not have any work. But one thing is sure. That You will get only what we have to deliver.

I deliver a lot. a lot. As much of work. Same time a lot of errors, defect and mistakes.

So I have to face a lot. Best way to avoid mistake to not do a lot of work. Or even you did not do work. then there is no mistakes. Best way to avoid mistakes is to no do work. As result be nothing.

It means, mistakes are invertible. They will come. There is always needs of improvement. Specially if you do documentation. There are a lot things that can be improve.

Best way is to get extra time. Plan you work properly. Most of the time I am work as alone. I am lone warrior. It depends on culture and nature of organization. Small organization, because you have to work in small teams, everything is cost cutting. So you have to do a lot of work alone. While big organization, there are big team. And now you have to utilize these teams. And as result there are a lot of delay in work. Things take more time.

Suppose. If you can complete a document in 2 days. Then consider 3.5 days. In two days. you have to complete the document. And rest of 1.5 is for improvement, verification and fixes.

Second point is to accept there is mistake and correct it. Use what, so what and what now strategy to learn and improve your situation.

My friends, take extra time, things are not complete, then take time, Talk openly, we require more time, but complete in time. Do focus work. Focus work, creates better results. Remember the term of deep work. us pomodoro technique.

40 is new 20

It said, life’s half blessings are gone at 40. At age of 44 I feel the same. Enough fat stored in my body.

Bad cholesterol has its peak. Prediabetic condition.

A lot of things gone. But now if I did not focus on my health, complication starts to appear. As result food starts to reduce. I have to control my hunger. It is little tougher. For example, If I want to eat 4 chapati, Now I stop at 2.  I start to adjust myself. I can’t stop hunger at night. Since childhood, night dinner is one of the best food in life. Abu ( My father) came back from office and we all sit together and eat.

We discussed different matters and that was my best part of life. That I am unable to continue due to expat life. Working different areas of world.

Due to that habit, I can skip breakfast and even lunch but cannot stop eating at night. It’s really difficult.

I reduce my diet. Previously I took two to three cups of milk tea, with one tea spoon sugar.  But now one cup. And if I need second, I tried to control it. But some times, when I feeling little tired or feeling headache, then I take second of tea.   I started to drink black coffee in office instead to have milk tea and green tea.

Now its time, so started one hour walk. Riyadh, is quite different city. And I am at Riyadh, but that is not actual Riyadh. Even here,  a lot of traffic. I walking at least one hour. Try to complete 10000 steps. Long walk. Along the busy street, Only I am walking and start small running or jogging. I start feeling I got little stamina. When I visited

Bellevue  at Microsoft MVP summit, I saw that men and women, running along the edges of busy streets. I did not saw this trend here in Riyadh. Probably, I am in the area, which is part of Riyadh, but not actual Riyadh.

Riyadh is amazing.

I listen one of the podcast of Gary Vee. I like him due to his bold speeches. He told at 40 he saw just 20 years more.

I think life also starts at 40, When our mind is at fullest, but at the same times, our energies starts to decline.

Our end starts to visible. And we starts to take decision more seriously.

We start to think more clearly. We start to think in such a way ” Begin with end in mind”.  Means, we start focusing more about output of any task before starting it. ” faida kay hayee” what really in it to do so.

What end result we want from this situation or act. Our why start to appear more clearly.

We start focusing less on what other say or said. We start to ignore unnecessary battles.

Our focus on savings increase.

We start to listen more, Instead to saying.

Life is good, if we accept as it is. “That’s is the way “

At 40 life little good. The things start to change. Our shift starts to change. But more importantly. A few friends starts to gone.