How was your year, Mine was not bad

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One more year passed. All my goals goes in vain, Achieve nothing.

Do I am total failure or I have successes.

Yes, I have some successes. I survived the job.

Find a new job before finishing the old one.

I meet a lot of new friends.

I visited home.

But I am unable to reach my full potential.

I break many rules in life. My mismanagement leads me to debit.

I explore most of Dubai and Sharjah. I made a new friends, but same time, my loneliness increased a lot.

There is a lot of black and white. Do things black and white. Our thoughts make them black and white.

Do I change, what I did in 2022. No I can’t change. But what ever I wrote in 2022. I have to face it in 2023 and beyond.

But at the end of year, I can sit, analysis my mistakes and successes. Set a new goals and start working on in it 2023.

I read some where, Plan is nothing, but planning is everything.

I think, this year, give me confidence. Make me stress free. I enjoyed my alone life. But same time, I getting more distracted from my goals.

I tried my best that I did not do bad with any one. I tried not to hurt any one.

I feel this year is not bad.

Who am i.

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Issi talaash -o-tajassus mein Kho gaya  hun main , Agar nahi hun to kiyun’kar Jo hun to keya hun main

Who am i.

Most important and toughest journey is journey within. Who are you, What are you strength. What are your weakness.

What are your trigger points. From other they can control you. But there are more things. How I learn. How read.

Some people are reader. Some are listener. For getting good leader or manager you can also understand. Are you reader or Are you listener.

What are your values. Values lies what things you want in you. You qualities you want inside you. For this you have to do mirror check.

I listen one quwali. “Jaare lokakn nayee apny app nu jaan liaya, oh log juda hoo jandayee naayee”

Those who understand who are they, They are become different.

I read some where, what you do when you are alone, that is only your reality.

You have to accept your past mistakes, That helps you to peace. You have to embrace your flaws. That make you more beautiful. You have to accept yourself.

That is ultimate self love.

Be happy with being you. Love your flaws. Own your quirks. And know that you are just as perfect as anyone else, exactly as you are.

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I was reading somewhere. In ancient time the words inscription at the temple of Oracle of Delphi “ Know yourself”.

I was sitting of my hindu friend, he talk about me all answer lie with in yourself. books, readings, knowledge generated layers on you. I was surpised that is same message what Baba bulleh shah told you. Then I feel. Possible what ever situation you have. What ever problem you face. You have to look inside you. What should you do.

I was listening Satu Guru, he told the same idea, Some one asked him Do he have knowledge of everything. He replied. he did not know everything. He just know himself. What ever question comes to him most of the time about life problems and situation. He put himself in that question and got all answers. What he should do and reply.

But here is another question. Would that answer 100 percent applicable to you. I am sure not. Because you are different form the rest of others. You have to know yourself. And remove all layers of knowledge and just seek answer with in yourself.

“Phar phar aalim fasal houon kaadif apnay aap nu parayha hee nahee”

Start talking just start talking

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Some times we want to talk. But no common point comes out. What to do at that time. First of thing is to just talk on random topic. Talk about in other persons interest.

Its good to avoid political and religious topic. You have to talk about food and restaurants.

Listen to them. At that time, most important point is talk on what other person think or plan. Ask question. Listen to them with focus and ask question what he or she talk about.

Try to encourage other to talk.

Why you consider what others said about you.

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I was in kitchen. My resign is accepted. I was in office and I got reply on email. Deliver these things and leave. He did not want to meet me. What ever is the reason. It is normal case.

When you did not have work for some one. Its better to layoff. I am facing the same problem from last one year. Any how its better for me.

In book winning Jack Welch said that, when need of a person completed. Or services for a person is not required. Fired him. Its good for him. both in terms of weight on companies expense and for him also. He will go outside and will find something good and will grow. In USA and European market they use better term Lay off.

I was in kitchen. Two sweet ladies form admin and HR standing in kitchen. HR lady make fun of me. Boss was so busy he did not consider to meet him. And then second lady spoke. Let him go, later we discuss and talk on this asshole. I enjoyed their conversation. I felt sad about those ladies and also for my self.

But why I considering their discussion. The Four agreement book Ruiz Don Miguel said, Second Agreement nothing take personal.

Its all about them. What they think of me. And they make fun of their organization not about me. They are making fun of owner of company not about me.

My friends. Every thing that hurts you has two solution. If you can change it do it. If you can not change it, just accept it.

Many times we hurt because our mind did not accept that fact. And when ever we start to resist it it starts to hurt us. So best way is accept it and stop resist it. It will pass.

What will happens, let it happens.

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I read about “connected the dots” theory by Steve Jobs. It simple means, we can not predict our future just day dreaming and thinking. We can only look into past and access how we face the challenges, How we deal with failures.

If you found similarity. Your future can be predict the same. Prediction is not 100 percent accurate. There is possibility you learned from your mistakes. You were not mature at that time. you vision was not bright as it was that time.

“Bulleh shah shaoo taanu milse dill no day dulaari”

Why I remember this couplet by baba bulleh shah because he mentioned, make your heart courageous.

I am facing the same problem. I am relocating to some other country and my heart is pumping. What will happens. Will be I successful . Or I will be fired. Because both these events exists in my past.

What should a person do, when there are both successes and failure in past. I got that conclusion. Check what are more. Successes then certainly you will successful. And if failure certainly you will be successful. Because it is your story. You can rewrite it. We can not alter our past, but we can alter our memories, feelings about you. You can modify your story.

We told ourselves stories about why that happen and as result I failed. Why not you change your story. That I learned from that moment, that I have to do things in different way. We can change our story.

What is easy and what tough

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Easy is what we want to do. And tough is which we did not want to do.

Some times things really tough. Usually we have to learn new things. And learning curve require time. We have to spent time.

As our experience grow. Management want to do things much faster. They expect the same thing as we do day to day task.

And we require less time but huge time to learn and develop new things. For this its important to set the expectation.

I think its more important, if you work is delayed, it comes to your expertise. When you scenario resource, expectation usually increased.

It take more easy for young resource to take more time then experienced resource. So What ever things feel easy or tough. You need to communicate properly.

Told, I am new in this thing. It will take extra time.

How to Study When You Are Not Motivated I Motivation I Study I Study Without Motivation

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Welcome everyone to the Consultant Mindset. If you guys are coming through this video, you must have been finding it challenging to do your task. You must have been facing difficulty in completing your assignments or projects. It is common for the human mind to face such issues as we become mentally tired sometimes and don’t feel like doing anything. I always feel tired and dull while doing my work. I have always faced zero motivation levels while doing my work. There are short-term fixes and long term fixes. The long-term fixes include building strong self-esteem, boosting your morale, and developing self-discipline techniques. But we are not going to talk about them. Let us jump right to the short-term fixes that will make you complete your task. What are short-term fixes? How are these short-term fixes going to help?  

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Go for a walk

There are four major steps that are needed to be followed. The first step is to go for a walk. Everyone must be aware of it. But how is it going to help you? Whenever you feel demotivated and feel like giving up. It is that time you switch your physiology and go for a walk. you have loads of work and you don’t feel like leaving your desk. You don’t feel like working; you don’t feel like leaving the workspace as well. I have applied this technique in my real life as well so trust this process. Whenever I feel like giving up, I go for a walk and refresh my brain. I can give you some scientific explanation for it. An experiment conducted in 2007 revealed that the treadmill walk for about 30-35 minutes boosted cognitive flexibility up to 70%. And according to another study it was found out that sunlight which is a major and natural source of vitamin D helps you in overcoming the symptoms of fatigue. There is another Japanese concept called Shinrin Yoku which literally means “forest bathing”. It means interacting with nature which helps you boost your motivation and makes you feel lively and refreshed. You can even do some exercise while going outside for a walk. You can play basketball, tennis, and badminton to freshen your mind.

Decide a topic to work on

The next step is to decide on a topic to work on. It illustrates that you should commit to one task instead of jumping to easier ones whenever you feel the current task is difficult. If you feel it is difficult to stick to one task then you can write it down anywhere in the notebook. It not only helps you stay focused but also doesn’t let you forget your task. The first thing is to get yourself committed to one task. No matter how difficult it turns out to be. Leaving things in between is the thing due to which people lag behind. Firstly make your head clear and clear up all the tangled thoughts and commit to one task. And then start working on it. Focus on it and make yourself remain in that box until you complete the task.

Organise your workspace 

Clearing the clutter and organizing the workspaces is as important as completing the task. Our moms have been scolding us well for keeping things in place. But do we listen to them? I guess if we had been listening to them, they would not have been scolding us for years. Keeping things in place and organizing your workspace boosts your morale and helps you remain focused and attentive. Continuously watching things on your desk being unorganized ultimately lowers your working efficiency. When you have an organized desk you will require less time to accomplish your task. You are unable to locate the important items? You can find them easily when you have your desk organized. Your thoughts will be organized at your desk.It helps you in time management as well. Requires less time than usual. Lets you focus on the important tasks so you don’t miss them out. The renowned American chef Anthony Bourdain writes in his book “ Kitchen confidential” that his fellow mates used to do work in a dirty environment. One day his head chef went to him and placed his hand on the cutting board dirty with bread crumbs and then placed it on his face. He told him “that’s how your brain looks”.

Low key efforts 

Everyone is scared of putting in an effort. What is the easiest way to do a difficult task? Shall I tell you a secret? The best way to do a difficult task is to put a lowkey effort into it. For example, if I talk about myself then while writing the script I will not beat myself up if I am unable to find any funny comments or references. I will just go with the flow and will write whatever is in my mind. And then once I come into my zone and creative form I will just go back and add up the missing things. You feel resistance to doing difficult tasks often. You can just deal with them by putting low-key efforts into it. Thanks, everyone for bearing with us. Do subscribe for more interesting articles.

How to Study Like A Genius I Simple Ways to Learn If You Are Not A Genius I Consultant Mindset

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Hey, guys, welcome to the consultant mindset. Today we will learn about some new tricks that will help you learn faster even if you are not a genius. Many people find it harder to learn than to understand. Understanding is something related to learning. You are capable of learning only when you have understood the assignment. Suppose you had to prepare a presentation for your school. And you had to cram everything written in the assignment for the presentation. You can do hard work and can learn everything but the next day you feel like fading everything from your brain. Why does that happen? After all such night pullers, you managed to prepare it. And now it’s all vanishing. Why’s it happening? The information is not stored in the long-term memory of the brain. And the short-term memory of the brain is not capable of having such a long span. 

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Sleep sandwich technique

The first and foremost trick is to practise a sleep sandwich technique. Continuously studying without any breaks will not help you. They will just assist you in draining your energy and enthusiasm. It is advised to follow this technique as it will help you retain and learn faster. The sleep sandwich technique majorly comprises the study and sleep with sleep sandwiched between them. It is study+sleep+study. Research has also revealed that a short amount of sleep within study sessions has proved to be effective in learning faster. It activates major parts of the brain and makes you feel motivated. And helps you learn faster eventually. When you are not studying and having a sound sleep your brain is involved in storing all the info in long-term memory. Good sleep is highly recommended before the exam as it helps you retain your knowledge. In pulling an all-nighter you tend to forget the things as quickly as you learn them. So take a sound sleep and let your brain work.

Chewing gum

The second trick is chewing gum. Chewing gum is found to have been involved in stimulating various areas of our brain. It helps a lot in alleviating anxiety and stress conditions. It helps to deal with situations without being less productive. In 2011 a social experiment was conducted on people. The people were made to do work in a stressed and anxious environment. The people who were chewing gum remained calm and handled the situation efficiently. Regardless of an anxious atmosphere they kept calm and remained productive. While those who were not chewing gums could not survive a chance. Studies have also shown that people who chew gum tend to be more attentive and focused in their work. It also increases their attention span. So whenever you sit to work just keep a pack of chewing gum in your pocket.

Hydration of the body

Are you drinking enough water? Because now studies have revealed that hydrating a body helps your brain work faster and more productively. It was explained by social experiments done on the students. The students who took a few sips of water during the exam tend to produce 10% more results than those who didn’t drink water during the exam. Water plays a major role in focusing and physical endurance. It helps boost the cognitive functions of the body. So if you want to feel enthusiastic while learning something new don’t forget to hydrate your body.

Music; A stress reliever 

Another bubbly trick is listening to music. Are you a music lover? If you are then it is going to help you a lot in learning faster. Some people have sworn that music has really helped them to learn faster. Music is known to be a stress reliever and an anxiety remover. So it is quite evident that it helps to reduce anxiety and makes you focus on things. According to some research, it is stated that some people cannot even study without music. It makes your brain receptive to new pieces of information. Try listening to new music every day.

Study in chunks 

We often study all our syllabi in one go. However, it is not the right method. Our brain is not designed this way to retain a lot of information in one go. It is advised to learn in pieces. As it keeps up your morale and helps you remain motivated. Study while taking short breaks. Doing something fun in between study sessions assists the fast learning process. 

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The idea of Intension and its implementation results massive success

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I was listening one video form Operah Winfrey. She talk about one idea or implementation of one idea “Intension” helps her to reach the glory.

Power of intension is law of cause and effect. What ever we do or creates comes back to you in some way. That is ancient law of Karma.

Good deed result good deed. Bad Deed results in bad deed. “Bhalaye kaa bahalay, Buray kaa buraah”.

She talk about she did a lot of things in the name of happy others. She agree on things which she did not want or like where she had to say no.

But she wanted to happy every one. After reading one book by Gary Zukav “ Seat for soul”. She realize the idea of Intention. Why you do anything. It is one step that what you want.

When you know what you want. And then you have to learn the idea why you need it. What are real reason behind. What you want to achieve. Or what goes around comes around.

It means. What ever you do. Stop doing it. And if you want to do it. You have clear understanding what result you expect as result. What thing you create as cause, will result in effect.

So begin with end in mind.

She said, when she started to implement in her life. Specially in her show. that show reaches at number one show at next 25 years. So what ever segment they want to introduce in show. They clarify its intension. Why they doing it. What result they want to create.

Piyush and simple thoughts to understand life.

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I was sitting with My friend Piyush. Piyush is Simple Rajistani software developer. Gool Mol. Some times, I feel Chanakya style something on his forehead, and some Poni tail hari, with less hair on head.

I used to criticize Mullahs of Pakistan and their spread of hate. What I think, Decline of Pakistan Mullahs are responsible.

But he told me not to criticize. He told me to speaks and think only those matter that you gives you get benefit.

He speaks old hindi. Some time little obsolete language. For We use word “ Wo log Sath sath chaal raye the”. But he speaks “wo us kay saang tha”. Some time speaking simple language. But one thing is very strange. His thoughts and philosophy of life is very similar to baba bulleh shah. And that creates some doubt about origin of Baba Bulleh shah.

One day he talked about all knowledge exits inside of every man. Books, religious teaching, parents and other environment factor built layer on it and truth is hiding. You have to remove these layers and find the your true self to get answers.

Baba Bulleh shah said.

Parh parh ilm hazaar kitaabaN

kadi apne aap nu parhya nahin

Jaa jaa wardey mandar maseeti

kadi mann apne wich wareya nahin

Anven larda shaitaan de naal bandeya

kadi nafs apne naal larya nahin Aakhe

peer Bulleh Shah aasmani pharna aeN

jehra man wich wasda unhoN pharya nahin

One day when I was little worry about my next move. He told me “ Chinta Chitta hayee”. Means, Worry is like death bed. He told me some reference from Vedics. Why worry. If you can do anything then do. If can not do anything just ignore it. He told me Chinta is for God not for us. Similar reference to Guru Granth Sahib

“Naanak Chita matt karo, Chinta Tiss hee haay-ay”

Jaal main jaanta upiaan, tinnah nu be rozee dayee”

O nanak, Dont wory, worries is for God or God will worry about you.

He created life in waters, He gives them nourishment.

I feel, simple villages either from Pakistan or India. Have still same thought pattern. They can not understand complexity of ancient wisdom both Arabic and Sanikrat. They know solution of problem of most of their daily life lies with in them. I was listening one Sath Guru that, is he has knowledge of everything ? How he will be answer to every question. He replied. No he did not have knowledge of everything. He just listen to people with focus and placed himself in the situation. And think what he will do in that situation. And share his solution.

After discussion with Pisush, I understand, That Baba Bulleh shah, was simple man. Simple ideology. He just share his message of love and peace. And ignore the complexity of Sharah Shariyat.

Mullah hate him. ordinary people love him. I love baba Bulleh shah. I am unable to follow the his path. But one thing sure, I stop criticizing the religious people and their division between people. When ever people speaks on religion. I just keep silent and no reply on that matter.