How Take decision about cancelling canceling the subscription you love

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I was dealing with expense control. I want to cancel some subscription. I was using Trello premium. It has many amazing feature like calendar view, Timeline view and many more. On the other hand there is one similar application called Kanbanflow. That is little traditional look and feel. That application is not colorful as trello. But amazing features of time tracking and built in timer. I dont know why trello did not gives us feature of built timer. For this there a lot of third party application integrate with trello card. I configure these but not comfortable with these. Some times some extra cost involve with it if you want to take full benefit of it. But i am comfortable with kanbanflow timer feature. So it will help me to track each task with timer. And that leads me to do focus work.

This post is about how to take decision to cancel any subscription.

I am paying 12.5 Dollars, which are equivalent to 60.1 UAE dhirm. I can afford it.

Will I continue subscription of cancel it. I have asked a few question to myself.

Will these features are useful. Answer is Yes.

Am I using these features. No.

Am I fully utilize these features. Answer is no

Is there cheap alternative there. Answer is no one equal to trello. Trello is king of kanbanflow.

Can I save these 60 dhirms or the functionality is worth more. Answer is worth is more then 60 dhirm.

I decided to cancel this subscription. I am not using all these or some of these features. Why I am paying these 60 dhirms.

Rule of thumb is Everything you are not using but having nice features is useless.

When you are taking decision about any subscriptions.

Ask one and only question “ Am I utilizing these features “. If answer comes in no. Go to cancel subscription.

We have to listen to mind, not heart. Heart usually, lie to us. leads us to

After asking answers. Listen to you mind not heart. Because heart lies to you. heart create fantasises. Whole mind helps to take right decision.

How to understand teen kids I Understanding kids I Kids I Growth I Teenagers I How to

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Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. It educates you about worldly problems and gives you a good idea to mend your ways. The consultancy on daily life problems is a significant objective of our channel Consultant mindset. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you some recommendations for bonding with your teenage kids. As a child grows they go through various psychological and physiological changes. Due to puberty, they cannot understand their body changes. And they tend to need their parents to overcome those revolutions. I will tell you everything about it. But before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset. Let us get straight into the video 

Communicate your Expectations Clearly 

In order to develop proper connections with your kids, it is necessary to communicate with them. In every relationship, communication plays a key role in the maintenance of relations. If there is miscommunication or lack of communication then it eventually breaks a relationship and spoils it. It is obligatory for parents to let their kids know what they actually expect from them. Parents should be able to communicate well with their kids. When a child is in the developmental stage, he/she goes through various hormonal changes. In the case of males, they go through changes in the level of testosterone. An increased level of testosterone can result in anger issues and emotional disturbances. So they should be handled with care and cautiousness. If you tell the kids your expectations beforehand then they are more likely to accept them and agree to them. A parent should communicate with them in a polite manner. For example, a parent should avoid saying “wash the dishes”. It is just like ordering them around. Do it like this instead: “ can you wash the dishes?” there are more chances that they will accept what you are trying to say. 

Respect their privacy 

As a child in the developmental stages, there are lots of bodily changes occurring through time. We should give them enough time to recognize their physiological and psychological changes. The most important factor which is required by a teenager is independence and freedom. We should trust them enough to give them independence. They should have the freedom to go anywhere they want. But in addition to that, they should have the responsibility to inform their parents before going anywhere. In this way, the healthy bond between parents and kids remains intact. If a kid asks for some space then go ahead and give them that. Every person needs a personal space to nourish their character better. A parent should not take this as a personal attack when a child asks for some space. But parents should take care of their personal feelings themselves. When a kid is a teen some parents often force them to do the styling with the parents’ choice. However, a teenager should be given proper freedom to style themselves according to the way they want.

Accepting their Social Needs 

The majority of parents do not allow their kids to go to their friends’ houses. They do not even allow them to go to any other outside places with their friends. They place restrictions on them. That results in conflicts between parents and kids. Parents should allow their kids to go wherever they want to go. Going to a skating park, or joining a sports team is the need of their body. Parents should encourage them to go play outside. It not only enhances their social skills but also makes parents and kids good friends with each other. In addition, parents can maintain closeness with their kids by spending quality time with them. By eating dinner with them or by watching a movie with them. Playing board games, and making crafts with them is another way of developing bonds with kids. Parents should ask the names of the kids their children are being friends with. In this way, the children trust their parents even more. 

In concluding my whole discussion I must say parents should take steps to develop better relations with their kids. As kids grow the bond between kids and parents starts to change. Because the kids start to become adults. Giving them independence, privacy and space are integral in avoiding conflicts. Hope you guys enjoyed the video. Don’t forget to give a thumbs up. bye-bye 

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Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you recommendations on how you can practice charity in your daily life. Before that do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel Consultant Mindset. Charity is something that is often mistaken for money only. But giving time to a depressed, lonely person is also charity, helping a stranger is also a form of charity. 

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Helping a stranger 

In our society, most people avoid helping any of the masses.They just keep doing their work instead of lending a hand to the needy. I will give an example in this case if the people will see a man crying in the middle of the road for some sort of help. They will just gather around him as a source of entertainment. They will not take into account that he is disturbed and is going through some serious issues in his life. Sometimes a listener is enough to solve all your problems. At least it gives courage to the sufferer that someone is counting on him and believing in him and that he can do better with his life. If you are not capable of giving money then you can help him with your words only. Words surely help people to start believing in them. Take another example of helping a stranger to cross the road. If the stranger is older than you can lend him/her a hand. It is eventually your good deed. That will help you not only in this life but in the life hereafter as well. This is another form of charity.

Give Money 

Practicing charity mainly revolves around helping poor people. More appropriately helping people in need. It is highly mentioned in our holy book that “if you do deeds of charity openly it is well, but if you bestow it upon the needy secretly it will be even better for you” (2:271). Giving money to needy people shows love for humanity. And our religion Islam teaches us to fulfill human needs. The rights of humans are first to be asked after death. If a neighbor in your neighborhood is poor and cannot afford food for his family then his responsibility lays on you. You are responsible for him and his family. You have to make sure that no one around your circle faces a shortage of basic needs. This comes under the area of rights of neighbors. There are many Ahadees strictly commanding to take care of your neighbors. The integral step is that you should keep in mind that you are doing it for your Almighty lord and not for a public show. You should keep in mind that He will reward you for this in your afterlife. Charity not only brings peace but also improves your thoughts on humanitarian grounds. 

Help Orphans Get an Education 

According to Ahadees of our prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), he highly focuses on the rights and taking care of orphans. One of his Hadees written in ibn e Majah is “ the best household is the one where orphans are treated well; the worst household is the one where orphans are ill-treated”. How can we help orphans? We can help them by helping them in getting an education. Taking to them politely. Giving them love. Understanding their emotions and needs. These all are kinds of charity. And charity is for Almighty lord not for people. As there is 215 verse of Surah e Bakrah “: “Whatever good you spend should be for parents, kinsmen, orphans, the needy and the wayfarer; and whatever good you do, Allah is all-aware of it.” and prophet Muhammad said that supporting orphans is a continuous form of charity. And all of your deeds comes to end when you di e except three. Sadkah e jaariya(continuous charity), knowledge from which benefit is gained, and a righteous child who prays. 

I must conclude this whole discussion by saying that charity is not helpful for your afterlife only but for your peace as well. It brings humanity to a person and helps you to understand other people’s emotions efficiently. Being generous to the needy is the ultimate form of charity. I hope you guys enjoyed this video. bye-bye

کیا  ہم اپنے حالت بدل سکتے ہیں 

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میرے دوستو  کچھ  سال پہلے میں بال کٹوانے کے لیے ایک حجام کی دکان پر گیا ۔ ہیئر ڈریسنگ کے دوران خود کو بہتر بنانے کی بحث شروع ہو گئی۔ مجھے یقین تھا کہ ہم اپنی زندگی بدل سکتے ہیں۔ ہم اپنے حالت  کو چیلنج کر سکتے ہیں۔ **ہیئر ڈریسر** نے مجھ سے پوچھا کہ اپنے حالت  کو تبدیل کرنے میں کتنا وقت درکار ہو گا ۔ میں نے جواب دیا کہ کم از کم 5 سال درکار ہیں۔ آپ ابھی منصوبہ بندی کریں اور کام شروع کریں اپنے مقصد تک پہنچنے کے لیے کم از کم 5 سال درکار ہیں۔ اس نے جواب دیا 5 سال۔ 5 سال بہت طویل ہیں۔ میں نتتج  حاصل کرنے کے لئے 5 سال انتظار نہیں کرسکتا۔ میں نے اس سے کہا، فصل ایک دن میں نہیں اگتی۔ ہمیں زمیں  کو تیار کرنا ہے، اس میں مختلف گھاد  شامل کرنا پڑتا ہے ۔ پھر ہم بیج ڈالتے  ہیں، پھر پانی ڈالتے ہیں، قدرتی آفات بھی رکاوٹیں کھڑی کرتی ہیں لیکن مخصوص مہینوں کے بعد فصل اگنے لگتی ہے اور ہمیں نتائج ملتے ہیں۔ یہ فطرت کا قانون ہے. ہمیں انتظار کرنا ہوگا۔ ہمیں کوششیں، محنت کرنی ہوگی۔ 

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یہاں مین محمدی  بخش کا  شعر میرے ذہن میں آیا **مالی دا کام پانی دینا بھر بھر مشکاں پاوے،** **ملک دا کام پھل پھول لانا وکیل یا نہ و

  تبدیلی کے لیے منصوبہ بندی، کوشش اور استقامت کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے۔ اب تقریباً 8 سال گزر چکے ہیں وہ اب بھی اسی دکان پر کام کر رہا ہے۔ فرق صرف اتنا ہے کہ وہ سینئر ہو گیا۔ میں جب کبھی دکان پر جاتا ہوں تو میرے ذہن میں ایک ہی سوال آتا تھا “کیا ہم اپنی حالت بدل سکتے ہیں؟” جواب ہاں میں ہے، لیکن ہمیں اس کے لیے منصوبہ بندی کرنی ہوگی، اور کوششیں کرنی ہوں گی لیکن ہم اس لیول پر نہی پہنچ سکتے جن کو دیکھ کر ہم انسپرے ہوے تھے  جو ہمارا آئیڈیل ہیں ، لیکن ہم بہتر پوزیشن میں جا سکتے اور بہت بہتر  ہو سکتے ہیں  ۔ ہم اپنی حیثیت کو بدل سکتے ہیں۔

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Hey, guys welcome back to Consultant Mindset. Our channel Consultant Mindset aims to provide you with the best knowledge and consultancy regarding your daily life issues. It educates you about worldly problems and gives you a good idea to mend your ways. The consultancy on daily life problems is a significant objective of our channel Consultant mindset. Let us not waste much time and jump right into the topic of our today’s video. This video will give you acknowledgement on how you can develop discipline in your children. At present time the world has become a place of most randomly done things. No one cares to develop discipline in their lives. For a peaceful life, it is necessary to maintain discipline in your life. You will notice it yourself that discipline is bringing revolution into your lives. Before I get into this video do not forget to like, share and subscribe to our channel consultant mindset. Let us get straight into it.

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Hear your kids out 

If we want this world to be a better place then we have to start a revolution from our house. We have to teach our children how to become more disciplined and more responsible for their actions. In most cases, children idolise their parents. So it is binding upon the parent to mend his/her ways for their children. They will eventually follow in your footsteps. And will blame you for every mistake. So the initial step is to hear your kid’s every problem. To find the root cause. If you hear them out calmly then you will be able to help them as well. Many of the kids do not tell their parents due to their harsh and strict behaviour with their kids. In this way, they continue to grow in that harsh environment. This needs to stop. If parents want their kids to get disciplined and more responsible in their actions. Then they have to help them out in every step of life. For example in the case of a parent, you can ask them why a kid is in a bad mood today? Did he fight with any of his friends? The kids can become closer to their parents in this way. In this way, their lives can get disciplined and peaceful as well.

Give Them Attention 

In my opinion, attention is the most powerful tool that every kid needs. They want attention.  We can make our kids practice discipline only when they are close to us. Only when they have unlimited affection for their parents. Otherwise, kids do not listen to their parents to whom they do not feel affection. In this way, you can discourage the bad behaviour of your kids. And can enforce their good behaviours. For example, if a kid does a good deed like putting the toy back in its place after playing with it. Do praise them for their good deeds. And appreciate them for placing the toy back. In this way, they will become cautious about what they do afterward. They will become responsible for their actions just because they know that their parents have a check on them. Likewise forbade them from doing bad deeds as well. Cause it is binding upon a parent to tell their kids which pathway is right and which pathway is wrong.

Call A Timeout 

Set a certain limit for your kids. If they do not listen to your set rules. Or they break a certain rule. Then make a certain call out for them. So that they can be cautious about doing it again. Developing discipline is different for different ages of children. Just like for small babies you cannot shout at them and you cannot use harsh words with them. you gotta be more polite and humble with them. You can use words like “time to sit ” rather than saying “ don’t stand”. For teens, you do not have to take the side of one kid in fights with siblings. Just take away the toy on which they are fi ghting. For adolescent teens, parents should give them time to understand their hormonal and physiological changes. In this way, they can develop bonds with their parents. As I have discussed in my previous video “Parenting tips’ Do not forget to check it out. The link is in the description. By appreciating kids’ good acts you can make them develop discipline in their lives. 

Concluding this whole discussion I must say that by developing bonding with kids you can teach them how to behave well. Discipline is a bridge between goals and accomplishment. Self-discipline means establishing authority over one’s habits and routines. Hope you guys enjoyed this video. Byebye 

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صبر کیا ہے. آج مجھے اس کے بارے میں اپنی سمجھ بیان کرنی  ہے۔ صبر ہے۔

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تاخیر، مسائل، یا تکلیف کو ناراض یا پریشان ہوئے بغیر قبول کرنے یا برداشت کرنے کی صلاحیت۔

عربی اور اردو میں اس کے مترادف لفظ صابر ہے۔ اس مضمون کو تلاش کرنے کے دوران میں نے  قرآن کو بھی صبرکے بارے میں  بیان کرتا ہوا پایا۔

صبر کے ساتھ ایک لفظ اور آتا ہے جو کہ استقامت ہے۔ قرآن *قرآن، 3:200 میں بھی اللہ تعالیٰ نے اس لفظ کا ذکر فرمایا ہے۔

صبر کے  سادہ الفاظ میں  مطلب ہے ایسی چیز کو برداشت کرنا جسے آپ پسند نہیں کرتے۔ کچھ ایسی چیزیں ہیں جن کا ہم  سامنا کر رھے ہیں  اور جن کا  کوئی حل نہیں ہے۔ اس معاملے میں عام طور پر کہا جاتا کے  “پٹر صابر کر” ۔ بچو تمہیں برداشت کرنا پڑے گا۔

 لیکن یہاں میری سمجھ کچھ مختلف ہے۔ صبر کا مطلب  ہے  اگلی بار ایسا نہ ہو اس کی تیاری کریں۔ یا اسی طرح کی صورت حال کو سنبھالنے کے لئے تیاری  کریں. اگر آپ  بہتر نہیں ھوے  یا سیکھا نہی  تو آپ صبر  نہیں کر رہے ہیں۔

فرض کریں میں دیر سے جاگتا ہوں اور دیر سے دفتر پہنچتا ہوں۔ اور نتیجتاً باس ناراض ہو کر آدھے دن کی کٹوتی کی ہدایت کرتا ہے۔

میں صبر کے ساتھ اس کو برداشت کر تا  ہوں۔ کیوں کے  میں کچھ نہیں کر سکتا. لیکن یہ صبر نہیں ہے۔ صبر ہے۔ دوبارہ اس غلطی سے بچنے کی پوری کوشش کرنا ۔ مجھے صبح سویرے جاگنا ہے اور وقت پر دفتر انا ہے ۔

کئی بار نتائج نہیں آتے۔ ہم کوششیں کر رہے ہوتے ۔ ہمیں صبر سے کام لینا ہوتا ہے ا۔

سب کچھ اپنے صحیح وقت پر ہوتا ہے۔ یہاں ایک بار پھر سمجھنا   ہے کہ نتائج کیوں نہیں آرہے ہیں، یا تو ہم صحیح کام کر رہے ہیں یا یہ فطری عمل ہے کہ نتائج مخصوص وقت کے بعد آیئں گے ۔

مثال کے طور پر وزن کم کرنے کی کوشش کرنا۔ نتائج 3 ماہ میں آتے ہیں۔ ہمیں صبر اور استقامت سے کام لینا ہوگا۔ ایک دن نتائج آئیں گے، یہاں صبر میں امید بھی شامل ہے۔ 

آج  کے لیا اتنا  ہی کل ملیں  گے کسی نے ٹوپک کے ساتھ ۔

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دوستو اس ویڈیو میں خوش آمدید۔ دو قسم کے لوگ ہوتے ہیں ایک وہ جو بڑے خواب دیکھتے ہیں۔ اور دوسرا جو ان کے حصول

 کے لیے سخت محنت کرتا ہے۔ کامیاب اور ناکام انسان میں فرق صرف عمل ہے۔ دونوں کے خواب ہیں، منصوبے ہیں، لیکن ایک اپنے منصوبوں پر عمل کرتا ہے اور بڑے پیمانے پر اقدامات کرتا ہے۔ جبکہ دیگر صرف تاخیرکرتے ہییں اس کے نتیجے میں وہ اپنے خواب کھو بٹھے تے ہییں  انہیں تاخیر کی عادت ہوتی ہے ۔

اس ویڈیو میں میں آپ کو بتانے جا رہا ہوں کہ ہم چیزوں میں تاخیر کیوں کرتے ہیں، اسے کیسے پہچانا جائے اور اس پرکابو  پایا   جائے۔

تو تاخیر کیا ہے؟ تاخیر ان کاموں سے بچنے یا ڈیلے کرنے  کا نام ہے جو ککرنے ضروری ہیں  ۔

یاد رکھیں تاخیر عادت ہے۔ یہ شخصیت کی خرابی نہیں ہے۔ کوششوں سے ہم ان پر قابو پا سکتے ہیں۔

ایک عام کہاوت ہے کہ کسی بھی مسئلے کا 50 فیصد حل اس کی وجہ تلاش کرنا ہے۔

لہذا اس کی وجوہات تلاش کرنا بہت ضروری ہے کہ ہم کیوں تاخیر کرتے ہیں۔

تاخیر کے کئی نقصانات ہیں۔ جب ہم چیزوں میں تاخیر کرتے ہیں۔ کام پڑے رہتے ہیں ور نتجہ سٹریس ور پریشانی میں نکلتا ۔ جب کوئی اپنے خواب پر کام کرتا ہے۔ اور ہم اپنے خوابوں کو حاصل کرنے  میں تاخیر کرتے ہیں اور بعد میں ہار مان لیتے ہیں۔ جس کا نتیجہ سٹریس  اور اضطراب میں ہوتا ہے۔ میں نے دیکھا کہ بہت سے لوگ کہتے نظر آتے ہیں  “کاش میں اس وقت شروع کرلیتا “۔

اچھی خبر یہ ہے کہ ابھی وقت ھے ۔ آپ کو صرف عزم کی ضرورت ہے اور تمام خوابوں کو حاصل کرنے کے لیے اقدامات کرنے ہوں گے۔

 تاخیر  کی بنیادی وجوہات میں ایک  تبدیلی کی مزاحمت  بھی ہے۔ یا کام  شروع کرنے میں مزاحمت ہے  کوچ حاصل  کے لیے بہت زیادہ محنت اور  نظم و ضبط  ضرورت ہوتی ہے۔ بعض اوقات نتائج نہ آنے کی وجہ سے ہم ایکشن لینا چھوڑ دیتے ہیں  تاخیر کرنا شرو کر  دیتے ہیں۔ اور

مثال کے طور پر وزن کم کرنے کے لیے، میں نے روزانہ ورزش کرنے کا فیصلہ کیا۔ ایک ہفتے کے بعد جب رزلٹ نہیں آ رہے تھے۔ میں نے ورزش میں تاخیر شروع کردی۔ میرا دماغ مجھے کہتا کے  کل میں کروں گا، شام کو کروں گا۔ اور نتائج کے طور پر وہ شام یا کل کبھی نہیں آتا۔

وجوہات کی نشاندہی کرنے کا ایک بہترین طریقہ یہ ہے کہ ہم جن کاموں میں تاخیر کرتے ہیں ان کی فہرست بنائیں۔ ممکن ہے کہ ہمارے پاس تاخیری چیزوں کی مختلف وجوہات ہوں یا ممکن ہے کہ ایک جیسے یا مختلف کاموں کے لیے ایک جیسا پیٹرن  ظاہر ہو۔

اگر ہم قریب سے دیکھیں تو بہت سی چیزیں ہیں جن میں ہم نے تاخیر نہیں ۔ ہم نے کچھ  چیزوں پر کام شروع کیا اور انہیں مکمل کیا۔ یہ جاننے کے لیے کہ ہم کیوں تاخیر کرتے ہیں، ہمیں کاموں یا چیزوں کی دو فہرست بنانا ہوگی۔

ایک فہرست میں ہمیں تمام کاموں کا ذکر کرنا ہے۔ جس میں ہم نے تاخیر نہیں کی۔ اور دوسری فہرست کام کی ہے جسے ہم کسی  بھی وجہ سے تاخیر  کرتے ہیں۔

اب آپ کے پاس اس کام کی فہرست ہے جس میں آپ نے تاخیر کی۔ آپ ہر کام کو ایک ایک کرکے دیکھ  سکتے ہیں اور نوٹ کر سکتے ہیں۔ آپ ان کاموں میں تاخیر کیوں کرتے  رہے ہیں۔ وجوہات کو نوٹ کرتے جیئں ۔

مثال کے طور پر. کام مشکل ہے یا ہمارے پاس کام ختم کرنے کی مہارت نہیں تھی۔ ہم پْر  اعتماد نہیں ہیں یا ممکن ہے کہ ہم بہت زیادہ کمال کا کام  چاہتے ہیں۔

تاخیر کا حل بڑے پیمانے پر اقدامات ہیں۔ چھوٹے  چھوٹے قدم اٹھانا شروع کریں۔ خود کو کام  پر مجبور کریں۔ جب  کام  کرنے  کی رفتار بنا شروع ہو گی  چیزیں ختم ہونے لگیں۔

10  دس منٹ کا اصول استعمال کریں۔ ہمیں اپنے آپ کو صرف 10 منٹ کے کام پر توجہ مرکوز کرنے پر مجبور کرنا ہوگا۔ جب 10 منٹ ختم ہو جائیں تو صرف 10 منٹ مزید کے لیے زور دیں۔ آپ دکھے  گے کے   چیزیں ہونے لگ پڑی  ہیں۔ زیادہ تر وقت جب ہم پہلی بار کام کر رہے ہوتے ہیں تو شروع کرنا ہی مشکل ہوتا ہے اور جب  ہم مزاحمت کے اس احساس پر قابو پا لیتے ھاہیں  جاتا ہے تو تاخیر ختم ہونا شروع ہو جاتی ہے  ہیں۔

اگلی ویڈیو میں آپ کو بتاؤں گا کہ خوفناک حد تک مشکل کام کے معاملے میں تاخیر پر کیسے قابو پایا جائے۔

نوٹ بند کرنے کے لیے،

میرے دوست، تاخیر عادت ہے، شخصیت کی خرابی نہیں۔ ہم وجوہات کی نشاندہی کرکے اور ٹھیک کرنے پر کام کرکے اس پر قابو پا سکتے ہیں۔ تاخیر کا نتیجہ اضطراب، تناؤ اور  پریشانی میں ہوتا ہے۔ ان کاموں کی فہرست بنائیں جن میں ہم تاخیر کرتے ہیں اور محتاط تجزیہ کے ساتھ ہم آسانی سے شناخت کر لیتے ہیں کہ ہم تاخیر کیوں کرتے ہیں۔ اور چیزوں کو ختم کرنے کے لیے چھوٹے لیکن ٹھوس اقدامات کریں۔

اگر آپ کو یہ ویڈیو پسند ہے۔ براہ کرم اس ویڈیو کو لائک  کریں اور میرے یوٹیوب چینل کو سبسکرائب کریں۔

تاخیر  کی عادت پر کابو کیسے پایا جائے 

lets talk about Patience

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What is patience. today I have to write my understanding about it. Patience is

the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, problems, or suffering without becoming annoyed or anxious.

The equivalent word is Saabar in arabic and Urdu. While searching this article I found Quran also describe Saabar.

One word more coming with Patience that is perseverance. In Quran Quran, 3:200 Almighty also mentioned this word.

One thing more interesting in that ayat lord mentioned, also helped others to stay motivated in situation where they have to practice patience.

Simple word meaning for patience is to bear something you dont like. Some thing we have faced but there is not solution for it. In this case usually said “ Putter saaber ker”. Child you have to bear it.

I but here my understanding is little different. Patience is bearing the consequence and prepare this next time this not happen. Or prepare for handle the similar situation. If you did not improve or learn then you are not practice patience.

Suppose I awake late and reach office late. And as result boss angry and he instruct the deduction of half day.

I handle this with patience. I can not do anything. But that is not patience. Patience is I bear the consequences. and try my best to avoid this mistake again. I have to awake early in the morning.

Many times results are not coming. We are putting efforts. We have to do patience.

Everything happens on their right time. Again here the understand why results are not coming, either we are doing right things or it natural process to results comes after specific time.

For example putting efforts to weight loss. Results comes in 3 months. We have to work with patience and perseverance. One day results will come, here patience also include hope. Stay motivated.

to he haan maain nahee saajanh.

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Tu HIYOON haye, main nahin we sajna Tu hiyoon haye hain, main nahin

Khole de parchawin wangon, ghum rahia man manhin

Jaan bolaan toon nale bolain, chup rehwaan man nahin

Jaan sowan toon nale sowein,

jaan taraan toon rahin

Bullah shoh ghar aaya sade, jindri ghol ghumayin

You know we used the word “Maast” Massatm. All translation I found equivalent word is intoxicated.

But do we intoxicated under some drug ?. We possible intoxicated under love or obsession.

Ishaq haqi is divine love is beyond my understanding. It is bigger thing like meera bai. or like Baba Bulleh to his spiritual master Shah anyat.

Mastam means obsessed so much he lost his identity, his self. He or she no care of any one . lost in deep thought, left the world in his or her love.

Khole de parchawin wangon, Ghum rahia man manhi.

Like cursed shadow my heart following you, My beloved.

The obsession is also creates intoxation. We lost ourselves in passion.

Jaan bolaan toon nale bolain, chup rehwaan man nahin

when I speak a talk about you, when I am silent but my heart not.

Jaan sowan toon nale sowein, jaan taraan toon rahin

You are in my sleep, During travel, I am thinking about you.